Gang bang setups (straight gang bangs, not gay/bi)

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  1. TroMag

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    Let's set aside for the moment the spontaneous gang bangs that sometimes happen when people are drunk.

    How do organized gang bangs get set up? Do the women find a guy who would be interested and he gets a few of his friends? Or does she find a bunch of random guys? I'm guessing women prefer it if the guys know each other?

    Or do the guys find the women?

    How do women view the tradeoff between the safety of knowing one or more of the guys vs. the discreetness/confidentiality of not knowing any of the guys and them not knowing her?
     
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    When I participated in them they were set up by the guys who new a woman that would go along with them. The safety of knowing one or more of the guys vs. the discreetness/confidentiality of not knowing any of the guys and them not knowing her wasn't even a consideration. Everybody just wanted to fuck.
     
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    I set one up for a friend of mine last year. She had been with the same guy for 6 years and needed to come out of her shell. I knew what she was into sexually because of her taste for porn and I knew some people that would love to help her out. We drew straws to see who would go first. It was 5 guys and her. I think what made it a good experience is that we all hung out first. We had a BBQ with some friends and I had only the people involved stay over. My friend spent the night getting to know the other guys and even messed around individually before letting us all take her. She started by only taking one at a time but once she got comfortable she had all five of us around her. It was a very comfortable and amazing experience. She thanked me by having her and two of her girlfriends over my house the next weekend.
     
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    I've been to 6 or 7 GB's over the last few years, most of which had been set up by a friend that publishes a local (regional) swingers magazine. That really streamlines things as he has many contacts and can get the word out easily. He rents a hotel room and charges a nominal fee (usually about $20) to participants to cover room cost, drinks, finger foods etc. He also establishes the "rules of the road" upfront and strictly enforces them (1 person can ruin a good time for everyone).
    But here is one observation that is shocking to me, but is true across the board (for all the GB's that I participated in): for every 10 guys that say they will show up about 2 actually will. After the first GB I thought it was a fluke but I saw that trend repeated for every event. When it comes time to "put up or shut up" a lot of guys seem to shut up. Go figure...
     
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    I think the concept sounds exciting, but when the reality of being in such close physical proximity to naked guys sets in as the date approaches, guys bail out. Plus, from what I've seen on swinger sites, a lot of the women are out of shape, so it's not like the draw is very powerful anyway.
     
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    A long long time ago I had an ad up in a swingers magazine (before the Internet) and I received a page (yes, this was even before cell phones were affordable) from a guy who wanted to have 5 or 6 guys gang bang his wife. Since it was local and at a upscale hotel, I figured why not. I got there and there were already 10 guys waiting. The rules were simple... Everyone wore a condom, smaller cocks went first, if she said stop at any point in time, then we were to stop, no questions asked and lastly, he was going to video tape it.
    All of the guys who were there at the time were okay with everything but the video taping. The husband had some masks ala "Eyes Wide Shut" and she was in the room blindfolded. By the time we got started, there were 13 guys and I was #10 in line. I was the largest in girth, but 3 guys were over 10" long (2 white and 1 black). The longer guys were pencil dicks compared to everyone else, but they were the "biggest".
    The first 6 guys lasted maybe a total of 15 or 20 minutes combined and I saw I was going to come up soon so I started to prep myself. Just stroking it and watching the action. There was no oral at all and it was all missionary up until that point. The guy in front of me lasted maybe 10 minutes by himself and then he asked if she could turn over so he could do her doggy style. He slammed her hard for a few strokes and came. I took his place and went at her for 10 or 15 minutes. I figured I'd let the other guys have a go at her since I couldn't cum.
    She took on everyone and a few guys came around for seconds.
    I did her a second time and after me, she called it quits since her pussy was getting sore. It wasn't that hot of a scene and not really too much of a turn on.
    I did do a few more 3 and 4 ways with her and her husband after that, but nothing to really write about.
     
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    2 out of 10 is not a bad ratio, sadly!
     
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    What didn't you like about it?
     
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    :eek: bastard:eek:
     
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    So what do the organizers do? Invite way more guys than they actually want?

    Any women organize their own gang bangs?
     
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    If renting a hotel room for the occasion, it's usually customary to ask for money towards the room up front.
     
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    I imagine guys won't commit to that unless they personally know the organizer, so they can get their money back if the girl backs out. I'd guess the girl backing out is pretty common?
     
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    I would tell you, as I experienced many MFM, MMFMM, MMFMM scenes before I realized I was gay (and they were all pre-arranged and not spontaneously drunken miracles), but you specifically excluded bi-sexual and gay input.

    Way to go.
     
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    I didn't exclude bi or gay guys from joining the discussion. I excluded the topic of bi/gay gang bangs - look at the thread title again. I know damn well that bi/gay men often bang a lot of chicks.
     
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    I've never participated in a gang bang of any kind, but I get turned on by watching gangbang porn. There's just something about it that's fascinating to me--all these people being completely uninhibited around each other, each guy not only sharing the physical experience with the woman, but sharing the visual/emotional/erotic aspect of experience with all the other guys--whether he's the one watching or the one being watched.

    The other thing that I always, always wonder about these scenes is how on earth these people find each other. I have enough difficulty finding one person to have sex with, let alone several all at once.
     
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    My guess is that some of these are hired hooker situations.
     
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    i wanna have a party like that so my wife get happy
     
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    i want to know how to get in on one of these GB's
     
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