cliff notes: me... male, 57yo, straight, married 31 yrs. female, 51 yo, straight, married 20 yrs, separated we have known each other for 16 yrs. she has been on the verge of leaving her husband for 5 yrs because of his infidelity. the divorce papers are filed. she has been living with her new bf(an old friend of mine) since last spring. we hang out in the same bar, in this small city. she has confided in me for about 5 yrs about her marital woes. she was hugely wounded by her husband's infidelity, and really hung in there until their daughter turned 18. there were times when she literally cried on my shoulder in the bar. this being a small town, my wife was made aware of this, but we talked and assured her nothing was going on. well, over the last few years, my wife & I are not all that tight anymore. menopause or what? I don't know. in the last year, the gal indicated she wanted more than friendship from me. she heavily flirted with me in front of her husband at an event, and I got pissed, because she was just using me to piss him off. a couple weeks after that, I was sitting in a beer garden with friends, and she sat on my lap, we made light conversation, as her pinky finger probed my shorts for my cock. first, for length, and then over the top for girth. no one could see what was going on. and at that point, she got up and said, "that is very nice, XXXX." as her eyes darted to my crotch. what she said also fit into the conversation. since then she has asked me to fuck her twice. those were before she hooked up with my old friend. he is a good guy, and I heard she was in love again. last night, he was out of town, with the boys out in the country, and I saw her in the bar. we talked, flirted, laughed, danced for a few seconds. I had an arm around her, she had one around me. I dropped my arm and she put both of hers around me, and then hands on my hips. "XXXX, you are so hot. I know what you got, you know that, and I need it. Let's go to my house. Please fuck me." The Temptation!!! and she is hot, long wavy black hair, still thin, big natural boobs. Time just froze as I looked at her, looking at me. she glanced down at my bulge, and I was BULGING, which doesn't happen at my age like it did when I was 20. but I had one hell of a chub. she smiled that pretty smile of hers. I told her I would if I was single, same thing I told her before. only this time, I told her if I went with her, I would be no better than the husband she is divorcing( and i find him dispicable). and let me tell you, I am a hell of lot better man than him for many reasons. she gathered her jacket and purse, went outside, blew me a kiss and left in her car. 10 minutes later her soon to be ex husband shows up in the bar. kind of looking for her, but not really, he supposedly has a young hot little number he is going out with. this is not the first time that has happened, she must have radar that he is on his way, either that or their daughter is at daddy's house and is texting,"dad's on his way" or similiar. I just don't know how long I can hold out, and had to let this out. sometimes I am glad to see her, and sometimes glad when I don't see her.