Gay and gaysex difference?

buzzrider7

Superior Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Dec 22, 2009
Posts
823
Media
30
Likes
4,543
Points
523
Location
Sacramento (California, United States)
Verification
View
Sexuality
80% Gay, 20% Straight
Gender
Male
I usually think of guys when I jack off with my right hand and women when I jack off with my left hand, though when I write, I use my right hand. What does that make me?
Sorry, couldn't resist. Seriously, guys, forget the labels and just do what feels right!

It's like left-handedness. Writing with your left hand doesn't make you left-handed. But if you've written all your life with your right hand, and it's never really worked, and then you try it with your left and everything makes much more sense, then maybe you were left-handed all along. (It's not a perfect analogy as people can be trained to use a certain hand, to a degree. But it works for the purposes of this illustration.)

Well, that is what I think, anyway,
 

ahornyman30

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 2, 2009
Posts
238
Media
41
Likes
16
Points
53
Location
pennasylvania
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
sex is sex why dose it have to have a label if you enjoy getting a blow job get a blow job all that matters is the parties involved are getting what they want dose it really need a label
 

arthur

Sexy Member
Joined
Jan 22, 2006
Posts
600
Media
5
Likes
38
Points
163
Age
55
Location
London, UK
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
I know it's de riguer on this forum to eschew lables, and yes to degree they can be used as extreme pidgeon holing. But one has to respect the fact that usually when someone says, and I am paraphrasing this...'I like to suck cock but I am not gay'...or ... 'I like the feeling of a guys dick up my ass but I'm not gay'...

'Gay' when used in this context is substitued as a negative reinforcement of how one feels. It says I like what 'gay' people do...but I don't want to be unfavourably labelled as a 'non str8' person.
 
Joined
Feb 23, 2008
Posts
79
Media
0
Likes
33
Points
93
Sex occurs in the mind, sorry boys and girls those physical feelings are only just that, physical.

Examples of homosexuality do exist in the animal kingdom where we can presume there is no preconceived labeling of the activity when it is outside of natures norm for procreation.

Humans, like other parts of the animal kingdom are hard wired for sex. We have a drive that exists to procreate even if that is not our intention when seeking a sexual experience. The difference is that the human mind with its limitless imagination can turn any activity, whether it involves another of the same or opposite sex or something else altogether or even an animal. When we cross our thinking, our software if you will, with our genetically programed sex drive and find ourselves aroused by different scenarios well there you have it, a sexual activity deviating from the norm that you can attach a label to.

You may well be strait with one person and gay with another at the physical level it is all the same, it is what occurring in the mind at that time that labels you as homosexual or heterosexual. Bisexual is really just a term that describes your interest in both but not really a sexual preference.

Just like people can have multiple personalities so can one have multiple sexualities I suppose you can divide you experiences and come up with a percentage but chances are you are more of one than the other even if its only in your thinking.

At least thats what the rats in my lab tell me...