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ditto to all of the above.... also be very aware of people's demeanors.... there will be guys there who are really messed up on drugs like meth, crack, ecstasy, and goodness knows what else.... don't leave any belongings (especially any food or drinks) unattended, and stay away from anyone you suspect might be underage.... you might also want to go on websites such as yelp.com to get reviews of the place you're going and see what they have to say.... there may be better bath houses in your area than the one that you intend on going to....

otherwize, have a good time and be safe....
 
I like bathhouses and sex clubs, but people tend to depersonalize in those environment and act like mindless sex robots; however, you don't have to behave this way. If you see someone you like, a simple, "What kind of guys do you like" will get the conversation going and will get him back to your room. People aren't terribly picky in these environments.

I would advise that you skip the oral sex in order to avoid an STD/STI. Stick to anal sex with a condom and mutual masturbation. Flips flops were a good suggestion. If you're a bottom, hang the towel low off your ass so others can see it; if you're a top, keep the opening of the towel in the front so you can flash your dick at a hot passerby.

Have fun!
 
If I took these posts seriously, I'd be too scared to go! Yeah guys, dangers exist, but you can still enjoy yourself while taking sensible precautions. I've been going for years; caught crabs a couple of times, but the fun and satisfaction far outweigh the negatives.
 
I agree with ges. I've been in lots of group settings, sex clubs and bathhouses and out of the thousands of sex partners I've had I've only had three STD's. The good events definitely outweigh the bad. Condoms are a must (And get fucked on your back so you can be sure they aren't taking it off part way through) but there is plenty of hot fun to be had.
 
So if I wanted sexperiment and suck a cock @ a bath house I have to worry about all of that. Makes me not want to go or do it. Cause I would to suck a juicy cock at least once in my life and not just fantasize about it.
 
Can't emphasize the wear a condom thing enough here.

Observe the guys bodies for visual signs of stds. If a guy won't let you do that then go find another. Ask the guys what stds they have before having sex with them. Some will be honest and upfront - others won't.
 
Why is it that guys in bathhouses are supposed to wear towels? Modesty? The thrlll of discovery? They are there to find someone, and the vital portion is cloaked in a towel. How is one supposed to choose the guy with the penis he desires? Know whether he is cut or not? Evaluate whether the guy has some obvious STD? It doesn't make much sense. It must be some silly (American?) convention.
 
I thought i would like to go to one for the thrill of being nude and showing off, but never went through it. just be careful and safe, you don't want an std...
 
MuscledHorse said:
I agree with ges. I've been in lots of group settings, sex clubs and bathhouses and out of the thousands of sex partners I've had I've only had three STD's. The good events definitely outweigh the bad. Condoms are a must (And get fucked on your back so you can be sure they aren't taking it off part way through) but there is plenty of hot fun to be had.
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I'm also very active with groups, clubs, and bathhouses, and I couldn't agree more with this advice. I find that guys who play in bathhouses are MUCH more aware about STDs on average than guys I've met randomly in bars or on apps. There is usually a great deal of info on STDs there as well as condoms and lube at these places. I work under the assumption that everyone I'm with has every possible disease (regardless of how 'clean' they look), and I play accordingly to those risk factors. But I agree it warrants to give the guy a casual once over to make sure there's nothing alarming (sores, bleeding, anything amiss).

Also agree about bottoming. Don't do it in the dark, and feel that the condom is there if you're taking it from behind every couple minutes. I actually announce to the top that I'm going to do this. If you're playing in a group, make sure that the tops aren't fucking different guys with the same condom as that can spread disease. Be a bossy bottom. I'll ask people to go shower and wash their hands if they've already been playing with others. I've never had anyone refuse that request.

You are in charge of your own health, so don't ever let anyone pressure you into something you don't want. What's nice about a bathhouse is that you can simply walk away if you don't like the scene. Just say no thanks or 'I'm going to take a break', and leave the scene. There are no obligations. It's easy to see who you're attracted to as well as read their body language and mannerisms. You'll know who you click with (or don't) in a very short amount of time.

How it works does vary a bit by where you live and different bathhouses have different vibes and customers. If you live in a big city, this can get very specific. Make sure you end up at the one that would actual appeal to you. For instance, if you're young and only want to hook up with young guys your age, you might want to avoid a bathhouse that's frequented by older men and their chasers. Check out sites like squirt.org for your local area to find out what to expect at each one. Have fun! It's only sex after all.
 
wappingite said:
I'm also very active with groups, clubs, and bathhouses, and I couldn't agree more with this advice. I find that guys who play in bathhouses are MUCH more aware about STDs on average than guys I've met randomly in bars or on apps. There is usually a great deal of info on STDs there as well as condoms and lube at these places. I work under the assumption that everyone I'm with has every possible disease (regardless of how 'clean' they look), and I play accordingly to those risk factors. But I agree it warrants to give the guy a casual once over to make sure there's nothing alarming (sores, bleeding, anything amiss).

Also agree about bottoming. Don't do it in the dark, and feel that the condom is there if you're taking it from behind every couple minutes. I actually announce to the top that I'm going to do this. If you're playing in a group, make sure that the tops aren't fucking different guys with the same condom as that can spread disease. Be a bossy bottom. I'll ask people to go shower and wash their hands if they've already been playing with others. I've never had anyone refuse that request.

You are in charge of your own health, so don't ever let anyone pressure you into something you don't want. What's nice about a bathhouse is that you can simply walk away if you don't like the scene. Just say no thanks or 'I'm going to take a break', and leave the scene. There are no obligations. It's easy to see who you're attracted to as well as read their body language and mannerisms. You'll know who you click with (or don't) in a very short amount of time.

How it works does vary a bit by where you live and different bathhouses have different vibes and customers. If you live in a big city, this can get very specific. Make sure you end up at the one that would actual appeal to you. For instance, if you're young and only want to hook up with young guys your age, you might want to avoid a bathhouse that's frequented by older men and their chasers. Check out sites like squirt.org for your local area to find out what to expect at each one. Have fun! It's only sex after all.
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That's true and very important. Everyone is all about HIV/AIDS when in fact it is a super wimpy virus that has to have direct fluid contact; otherwise it dies as soon as it leaves the body. And as well fucked as I am it would take a horse to make me bleed so I'm not worried there. WHat you really have to worry about are all the STID's that don't require blood contact to spread, which is all the others, especially gonorrhea and chlamydia. And with the former having developed resistance to nearly all antibiotics, this is important. Otherwise, treat sex for the sport among males that it is.
 
MuscledHorse said:
That's true and very important. Everyone is all about HIV/AIDS when in fact it is a super wimpy virus that has to have direct fluid contact; otherwise it dies as soon as it leaves the body. And as well fucked as I am it would take a horse to make me bleed so I'm not worried there. WHat you really have to worry about are all the STID's that don't require blood contact to spread, which is all the others, especially gonorrhea and chlamydia. And with the former having developed resistance to nearly all antibiotics, this is important. Otherwise, treat sex for the sport among males that it is.
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That's right. HIV/AIDS is very difficult to contract. Here's an interesting report from National Health Service here in London. The odds of getting HIV from unprotected anal sex with someone of unknown status is 1 in 1112, and with someone of known HIV+ status 1 in 90. I'm not advocating barebacking of course, but the stress people put themselves under is often disproportional to the actual risk. http://www.bhiva.org/documents/Guidelines/PEPSE/PEPSE2011.pdf

I'm more worried about Hep C than HIV to be honest. That's the reason I mentioned the thing before about tops (fuckers or fisters) not being hygienic when playing with multiple partners. Gonorrhoea and chlamydia are definitely on the rise (across all communities), and it warrants regular testing if anyone is regularly sexually active. I get a full screening 4 x per year. It's free and anonymous here. The worst I've ever had is a mild nonspecific UTI that could have been equally caused by rough sex, yet I'm a total hedonist with approx 1500 partners in my life (I have to extrapolate that number!)
 
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