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Have you ever had a desire to do anything sexual to/with one of your gay friends?
 

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Nah. My bestie happens to be a gay man. We've been besties since our teens. We tell everyone we're brother and sister. The idea of getting humpy bumpy with my bestie is kinda icky-blech.

I have smooched him to confuse straight people.
 

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All of my closest friends I've had throughout my life have been flamboyantly gay men. I never desired sex from them, and as far as I know the feeling was mutual.

My *best friend (who I lived with for a period of time) has seen me in particular circumstances, and I've seen him in similar positions... (pun intended) but his penis and my vagina had nothing to do with each other.
 
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why does this feel like a way to get ideas on how to do things with his straight best friend
 
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Nope. People who aren't interested in me, whether due to gender or anything else don't elicit a desire to poke at things from me. I haven't tried to persuade any heterosexual women to fool around with me, either. I respect their boundaries.
 

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One of my closest friends and my second in command in my office is a gay man. I have confided in him more than my husband. We are extremely close and know each others secrets. He is married. I am married. I've never had any sexual urges involving him.
 
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Now when my percentages were 100% Team Grrl I had several straight male friends *not besties, no way would a bestie violate the sacred trust* come on to me. It sucked so hard!

The friendships were never the same afterward.
 
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I had several straight male friends come on to me. It sucked so hard!

The friendships were never the same afterward.

Cheers to the several friends I've had in my day who didn't cross that line.

Few they are, but these fuckers kick so much ass. Wherever they are (lost touch with some, others dead and gone) I wish them well.
 

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Cheers to the several friends I've had in my day who didn't cross that line.

Few they are, but these fuckers kick so much ass. Wherever they are (lost touch with some, others dead and gone) I wish them well.

Dude-Friends who are in no way after your bloomers are the best dude-friends. *cheers*
 

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Dude-Friends who are in no way after your bloomers are the best dude-friends. *cheers*

I have had sexual experiences with male friends in the past, sometimes ruining a friendship, more often not having any effect on the dynamic of the friendship at all. But...

There's something significant about having a straight-man who is a close friend and *never tries to go there. And I never had brothers, so those friendships were particularly special to me.

I'm sure *some guys might be confused by that: "wait, the one you Didn't have sex with was the 'special' friendship?" Yes. Exactly.
 

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I have gay friends and I'm a little bi myself, yeah sure I'm attracted to a couple of them but they're my friends and I've always kept it on that level. my genuine friends are important to me and they're gone stay on that level, if I wanna play then as a couple my husband and myself are into swing swap but likewise those friends stay on that level as part of mine/our extra circular activities.
 

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Yeah. He says he's gay, but he's probably bisexual. Rarely, but sometimes, he's attracted to a woman, and acts on it. He's had long-term girlfriends too.

I was introduced to him by his best friend, who had a crush on me. My attraction to him was instant, and getting to know him just cemented that. He's a great guy. I would never have acted on my crush on him, not wanting to come between bros.

A couple of years later, he came out to me as gay, and I held hands with him as he came out to his best friend, who was my boyfriend by then. Eventually, his bestie and I broke up, and we all remained friends. He's aged well. Still a hottie. We are pretty close, and have supported each other through a lot.

He's had a stroke, and it has altered his inhibitions. He's pretty bold, lately. He has expressed that he always wished we could hook up, but he wouldn't want to do anything to cause his best friend, my ex, to feel betrayed. So, I called my ex and asked how he'd feel if I made a move on his bro. He was surprised, and said he figured we were discretely fucking for years. He said I should make that move, that it was overdue. So, I reported back that we had my ex's blessing. We have yet to act on it, but the tension is intense now. One of these days, I'm going to fuck that man within an inch of his life.
 

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No, absolutely not. This reeks of a weird reversal of "let's get a straight man to go a little gay for just my pleasure"
ABSOLUTELY NOT and I'm lowkey offended that you assumed it was such a thing. Not all gay guys want to mess with a straight guy. Just putting that out there...

Here's a backstory as to why I am asking:

A couple of weeks ago I went to a straight bar with a group of women (one of which is my bestie and I happened to know of a couple of the others). I was the DD as I tend to shy away from alcohol. Anyways, the girls got fairly drunk and one of them that didn't know me that well said that they think I'm cute. Then my bestie followed in behind her and said that if I was straight then she'd "do me". At first, I felt REALLY awkward but I got over that and took it as some sort of compliment... a weird one, but one nonetheless.

When I got home that night (morning to be technical lol), I stewed in the situation a bit and wondered if, deep down, other women had some sort of sexual attraction to a gay friend of theirs. Thus, this thread.

I probably should have put it in the original post, but whatevs.
 

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No, absolutely not. This reeks of a weird reversal of "let's get a straight man to go a little gay for just my pleasure"

Double post, if your post was referring to the thought of me trying to get in her pants:
1 - I apologize for the original assumption.
2 - ABSOLUTELY NOT.
 

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Double post, if your post was rederring to the thought of me trying to get in her pants:
1 - I apologize for the original assumption.
2 - ABSOLUTELY NOT.

Women get heaps of requests to help men catfish other straight men out of nudes/into camming. There are heaps of threads about how to seduce a straight friend. Questions like "if my straight friend broke both his arms. And we were watching porn. And he got an erection, do you think he ould let me jerk him off? Would it count as gay?" threads.

Like an endless rotation of them.

Your question seemed like a "well, women secretly want to fuck their gay best friend, so it's okay for me to want to fuck my straight best friend" thread.

Thank you for clearing it up with your follow up posts. Yeah, I got some fine ass gay friends. A few fall into the category of what I consider the male ideal. If they were Bi/Straight, were I more interested in men and had I met them in a flirty situation instead of befriending them we might well have hooked up. Be I am mostly queer. They are fully gay. And we are besties.

So it goes, ya know.

I can't say if you should take it as a compliment. If a straight male friend said he'd do me I would be weirded the fuck out. If a straight woman said I would laugh and take it as a compliment. Double standard, yeah, I own it.
 
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The one and only time I've had my boobs motor boated was by a gay man *shrug* I would not let a hetero male friend of mine do it just for giggles, but if it was someone I was intimate with, I don't care the gender/orientation/whatever. Basically, someone who cares about boobs only gets to motorboat if they're someone I get sexy and/or naked with anyway. If they don't care about boobs, they don't care about boobs and it's silly/giggles. I had a crush briefly on a gay dude when we were in high school. He wasn't out at that point though, but I had a strong suspicion. He was in choir with me and extremely handsome. Once I had it pretty much pegged as "he's not into women" the crush went away. Unrequited love or lust is one thing, but on the other hand being the completely wrong gender and it's 100% futile? Not my speed.