I identify as a vers top, because 9/10 of the time I'm usually topping because I'm way too tight for any cock above 6 inches.
Even 6 is pushing it if they're too girthy. I love getting rimmed and I don't mind a sex toy or finger, but no big dick is coming inside of me. I'm too chickenshit.
I much rather focus on being the top and pounding a nice tight ass, tapping the prostate and feel their warm cheeks clench around the base of my shaft. The thought of my ball sac slapping against a bottom's taint is mind-blowing when they moan and can't help but touch themselves, then I would slap their hand off and grip their cock with my hand myself.
I love a pounding hung bottom who is bigger than me too. Damn. SO hot when I get to fuck them and they don't get to tap my ass.