Gay/Bi Guys: Are You Picky About How Your Cocksucker Looks?

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  1. ATX_Sucka

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    I'm a young, fit, very handsome cocksucker who gives great head and can't get enough cock. But there's a problem: I'm black, and live in a city where most guys of all races prefer white/Latino cocksuckers. Consequently, I get turned down fairly often online.

    I'm trying to figure out if this is a regional thing or something more common. So would you turn down a BJ from a guy who was otherwise good looking but perhaps wasn't what you normally go for and/or wasn't your type?

    PS: Dont get me wrong, I get dick, just not as often as I'd like. When it comes to a fat, throbbing dick, I don't discriminate.
     
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    In the same situation as you. It's hard finding eager cocks to suck in Missouri, Illinois and Iowa. I don't know what it is here, but the preference goes to white, under 35, then asians.
     
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    Yes - there are lots of guys that I think are good-looking, but do not arouse me sexually. And if I'm not interested, I'm not interested.
     
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    Nope. I dont care how they look. He has a mouth he's willing to let me put my dick in, and I have a dick I'm willing to put in their mouth. That's all that matters.
     
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    Color really doesn't matter. My only things are that the guy (or girl) is fairly attractive. Ok, and younger and thinner than me.
     
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    Bottom line... I cannot have ANY kind of sex with someone whom I'm not attracted to. It takes a lot more than a handsome face for me to bite. Body type, hygiene, grooming, and age all come into play when I'm seeking out a sex partner. You can be totally cute in the face but if you're too skinny or fat, have BO, dress like an idiot teenager, or have long hair... I'm turned off. I like beefy/muscular, shower fresh, well dressed, and nicely groomed MEN. Under 30 usually don't grab my attention unless they have an aura of maturity and fit all my other criteria.

    I don't discriminate based on race/ethnicity. As long as you can meet what I'm attracted to... you can suck my cock all you want. Shallow? Yes, I am; but my motto is quality over quantity. I'm done having meaningless sex for sex's sake. I don't have sex as often as I'd like but the sex I do have is always great.
     
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    I don't just randomly hook up in that way. But in the past it was the same thing. I think I'm a fairly good looking dude. I'm not super muscular or super skinny. Just stocky average guy and it seemed like in the past when I did hook up... Guys were always looking for either super muscular or skinny. :(
     
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    Yes, I'm picky.
     
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    I know it's not always a feasible option, but it sounds like you need to relocate.

    As for me, I'm strictly into hedonistic, physical pleasure with guys so I'm not terribly picky. Other than bigotry, overt obesity and poor physical hygiene there's not a lot about a person that would disqualify them from having my cock in their mouth. But I'm also every bit as much a cocksucker as are you, so I do tend to be a little picky about how my cocksucker's cock looks. Yours, by the way, looks downright delectable.

    Amen to that, brother.
     
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    I dont mind guy/girl but I need to be attracted, however different ethnicity has my preference
     
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    Relocate because I don't get as much dick as I want? That would be frivilous and irresponsible. I have a good career here and I'm not just going to up and leave because I'm not the preference of most tops.
     
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    Interesting that your white European friend is feeling discriminated against. Next time he complains, tell him it could be a lot worse--he could be black.

    As for Austin, I've never interacted with such a largely conceited, jaded, and dare I say--race obsessed--gay men anywhere. I'm not bragging, but I'm honestly a 9/10, and people acknowledge this when I go out or am in other cities. Somehow, it doesn't translate here.

    That's cool, I respect others preferences. I just need to be someplace where being black isn't such a big deal.
     
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    i am 20 year old, my first sucks was at 15. i would said yes i'm picky. i only been with three guys, and only sucks two of them. the first one was shaved, smooth and long. i let him sucks my cock longer as he wants. but the last one was hairy and a little smelly i just didn;t want him to kept on going.
     
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    I quite understand the impracticalities of relocating (and hinted as much in my post) but, no, I wasn't suggesting relocation to get more dick. I was suggesting relocation because it sounds like you live in an area where most guys are less than open minded about race.
     
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    Everybody has his own tastes in men. If a guy doesn't turn me on, he can suck til the cows come home & I'm not gonna squirt.
     
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    Austin is one of the most superficial places on earth. Maybe because everyone is so fitness-obsessed.
     
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    Must be hetero masc. acting and not come off overly desperate or fem. Has been almost impossible to find.
     
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    I'm really surprised by youz 3 honest guys (on page one). I'm surprised there are THREE honest guys on this site (or any other ;), and that you've not received the reception you deserve, after checking out your pics.

    I've noticed that men who are really into the "scene" (clubbing several nites a week), and live in a gay ghetto, are absolutely the pickiest, no matter what THEY happen to look like. Their hobbies are "fashion", alcohol, body shaving, dancing, and if they're over "29", add going to the gym.

    But there sure are plenty of non-scene guys, 40+, out-of-shape (or what we called in the pre-PC days, "FAT"), married, not that great in the sack, i heard... who won't even look at anyone over 25! I'll never get those guys. Do they ever get layed, I mean, without paying for it?

    Is there a lot of gay/bi black guys in your area, comparitively? I would imagine a lot of white/hispanic guys in Texas aren't into black guys, socially. That's probably why. In my day, 200 years ago, we didn't have to like or approve of someone. We'd use each other's bodies to get off -- just like the hets!

    I'm from the Boston area. Even though we're the socialist capital of America, there are many, many more whites than "ethnics", and the races are very segregated physically. In spite of, or because of that, the white men here seem to really like black men for the most part. You could suck till your mouth's contentment here. If you ever visit the area, let me know. I know a dick who might be right up your alley! I know another dick who's got a great cock, nyuk, nyuk, nyuk...

    I like all types, just about. If someone's a nice version of his type, I'll probably like him if he's nice to me. I was like that when I was a "popular" twink, too, so I'm not the average. I have a friend I've known since we were 14, and after high school he went and lived in the big city (we were from da burbs), and spent almost all of his adult life in a gay ghetto, doing the scene. And he's the most handsome guy I know. Like me, he's always liked all types. Actually, he's not into Asians. Even at 20, his favs were the 40+ crowd, so he's not the average either, unfortunately.

    I don't know how old you are or where you cruise, or how. It could be the areas or establishments you frequent. When I was 19ish, there was a gay bar I went to every now and then because it was near public trans and convenient. If I had to wait for the train, I'd wait there, etc. Well, even though I was at my physical best, I couldn't get arrested in this dive. I NEVER got layed as a result of going there. For that, I'd go to another bar. Any bar. It was like that particular place was cursed to me.

    Good "lick", guys. I know it's little comfort but it really is the other guy's loss.
     
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