Gay/bi guys - what type of sex do you have most often?

Gay/bi guys - what type of sex do you have most often?

  • Anal sex (plus oral/frotting/mutual masturbation as foreplay)

  • Oral sex (plus frotting/mutual masturbation)

  • Frotting/mutual masturbation only


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I'm married to a straight women so when I'm with my gay and bi friends, rules allow me only to frot. I'm good with that. I'd do more if she'd agree but I respect that she let's be explore my male attraction.

When I'm with my wife, It's vaginal sex and oral sex. She's never wanted anything to do with anal.
 

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I have sex with women most often but understand your survey question is what kind of same sex do I have most often and that's anal. The guys I see want to be topped. :cool:
 
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I have sex with women most often but understand your survey question is what kind of same sex do I have most often and that's anal. The guys I see want to be topped. :cool:
Judging by the bulge in your jeans, that's not surprising!
 
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I definitely belong to the anal camp! I love a lot of foreplay with kissing, sucking and rimming, but the best of all is a good fuck. However, I took some time to discover my real mission. When I started to have gay sex I had problems with anal sex. Very often it hurt and when AIDS came up I was not only scared but it also gave me a good excuse to stop anal sex altogether. However, I when I saw the gay videos and saw the guys who enjoyed so much to get fucked I had the feeling that I was missing something important in my life.

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And when I saw such photos I felt the enormous desire to be a bottom. It seemed the normal position to me. I think I was about 27 at the time and I simply asked a friend if he could fuck. He had been in a relationship with another friend of mine and I met him again through a contact add. He had written that he loved to do almost everything.

And he turned out to be the perfect fuck teacher. He gave a hot enema and gradually spread my hole with fingers and a dildo. I felt how my hole was opening and I loved it. And finally he fucked me with a condom. And from that very moment I have been completely into anal sex. It doesn't have to be a cock. And I had some fantastic experiences with men who did not fuck at all but loved to work my ass with dildos, other toys and their fingers.

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I still had hot sex experiences that were completely without anal sex, but I for me fucking is still the normal highlight of man to man sex. In the past I would have described myself as 90 % bottom and 10 % top, which didn't that I didn't like to fuck. But if I had the choice out of 10 ten sex dates I would choose to be fucked 9 times and to fuck only one time. However, when I get older I notice that more and more guys want to be fucked by me. So it might be 80 % or 70 % bottom now. Strangely I never have flip fucked - i.e. a sexdate where I fucked my partner and he fucked me. But I am open for new experiences!
 
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My bf and I do more mutual masturbation, oral etc as there's no prep involved which can be a faff before anal - and you can be more spontaneous. We find we need to plan when we're going to have anal so we can make sure we're ready for it - but anal is my favourite.
 
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