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Hello, does anyone know places where people go for spring break events, but for people who like men, or do you think going to a straight event is a good idea, too? maybe u can see or do something interesting there ? I ask that because I was in Cancun last week, but people only talk about Chicas, Chicas, and how they behave at pool parties and beaches, but nothing for people who like men..I didn't look for it, due to the pandemic situation, although a local person said it's happening..I know this is not the best time to ask that but...
Does anyone have experiences in these kind of events? and could share , anywhere that you may have visited before and went for it and how it was..
 

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I went with a straight friend to Spain one summer. Our agreement was that I'd go with him to straight places to get him laid and he'd go with me to gay places to get me laid. There really weren't any gay places at the time on the Costa del Sol, so I was left trying miserably to flirt with a bartender who didn't speak English and I don't speak Spanish. Nothing happened. Meanwhile, my straight friend disgraced himself by picking up a girl from Northern Ireland to fuck. I told him I'd rather be gay than fuck a homely girl! I was so unsuccessful that one night, I gave in and made out with a Swedish girl, blond and blue-eyed and all that.
 
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Uh... You can make out with someone of a gender you're not attracted to, especially when drunk, and not have it be some shocking revelation of your sexuality. :laughing: Let's not start labeling people who are clearly comfortable with how they've labeled themselves.

As for your question OP: I'm honestly not sure of any Spring Break destinations that aren't overwhelmingly going to be a draw to straight people simply because the majority of Spring Breakers are going to be straight. That being said, Puerto Vallarta is a pretty popular gay destination and people were definitely going there around Spring Break time this year. But then again I'm ten years out of college so I might just not know the cool places to go for Spring Break. LOL Provincetown is a great gay beach community, but it's still pretty closed down around that time due to being in the North East. I was actually there around that time this year and it was nice and peaceful and easy to get in all the restaurants.
 
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I ask that for people who had experience in these events, I ask if going to straight events worth for gay/bi men or if there are gay cause I ve seen pictures and videos of guys losing control and playing with other dudes, all in the name of brotherage..or even exposing their private parts, like mooning, like when I was in cocobongo in cancun there was a boy who mooned people, to me, It was hot, but maybe for a part of the audience , it wasn't, LOL, I mean it could be fun depending on how things go..when people talk about these parties, straight men always say how vulgar some girls behave, showing boobs, being naked in pool etc..but my interest is to know about the guys... you might think, then, why don't you go to gay events,? well if I know where it happens, of cours, I would try to go, but noticing that for gay men, there are few options, maybe, going to straight event could be fun for at least to see something..
 

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I think Puerto Vallarta would be a good place where you could hook up with people pretty easily. Or down there Fort Lauderdale you have Wilton Manors. Palm springs any time of the year except for the summer is a good gay Mecca
 
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