tell me... who has gone this route? I know many go the other direction... starting out (mostly) "straight," then ---> "bi," then ---> gay... which is cool, but what about the ones that start out (mostly) gay... then realize they are bi and then might even (in the end) be fully functioning "straight?" All I know is that both men and women are attractive to me, but over some time, men (as relationship material) seem less interesting. For some reason I don't think this is all that unusual... it is just unusual that anyone actually talks about it. It seems to be a LOT more common for those that are "coming out" in some sense have a lot to express about their new found freedom. But it seems that some that go in the other direction (from bi or gay to ---> mostly straight) are never heard from. Like it is much less to announce I suppose, and probably less understood. I know the advice already... "Dude, just do what you want to do." yeah, I know, and I do... and I'm ok with it. But because this place nevers fails to amaze me, I thought I might just ask if there are any others that know this other route. I'd be glad to compare notes, here or in pm's. thanks.