I always knew I was gay [since birth]. But, a year or so after coming out, I thought I could be 'bi'. I had sex with a few girls [who were OH so EAGER to convert me to a straight man]. Ah, to no avail. I love the dick. Always will.
I considered it an opportunity to explore my 'straight' side. Gay people are submerged into 'straight sexuality' since birth, and are pressured to conform until they come out of the closet. Imagine as a straight person what it would be like if the whole world was gay, and you had to conform, or people would hate you, tease you, think you were amoral, think you were a pervert/sexual predator, want to kill you, hit you, stop loving you, disown you...ect
There is a lot of pressure to do something you REALLY don't want to do.
Like a lot of straight men who claim to have a gay side [1-10%]. I see it like this, for me. I repressed being gay for so long, then I came out. I started exploring my true idenity as a gay man. Then, I wanted to see what all of the fuss is about [girls, I mean] and explored my 'straight' side.
It felt really gay for me to be with a woman. I consider it a lesbian experience.
I enjoyed exploring her body, and giving her pleasure, it was rewarding to know I was able to make her feel so good, but it was not sexually gratifying. It was missing something [a dick;]...it was just wierd. I still find women very attractive, and truly apprieciate the sexual female body. It just dosen't get me hard. Today, if you put me in a room full of beautiful women and just one man, I'll be paying attention to the man in the room. Or looking for a way to get out, or come out
, of the room.