Gay/bi vs straight/bi: attraction for boobs vs attraction for cocks

[Double espresso]

I am writing in the bisexual section of the forum because bisexual men, knowing both worlds, can probably best answer. I want to ask your opinion about attraction for boobs and attraction for cocks.

I am bisexual with very little experience with men. As far as women are concerned I am a big fan of boobs. When I see big boobs or a nice cleavage, I am immediately sexually aroused, I almost can’t look away and I have a strong desire to touch them, suck them, kiss them. Of course I do appreciate a pretty face, legs, bum, but I have a strong focus on that part of the female body and I’d rather have sex with an average looking woman with big tits than with a better looking woman with small tits, and I know that this is relatively common among straight men.

My attraction for men is more on the whole package (face, body, pecs, nipples, abs, ass etc.) I like different types of men, I have no particular interest in cocks and there is no one part of the body that has such a big impact. Bigger pecs, arms or a nice six packs do not have the same effect on my assessment of a man that bigger boobs can have on a woman’s assessment.

I have the feeling that for many gay and bisexual men, cocks have the same effect that boobs have on me. The bigger the better, excitement as soon as you see it and a strong desire to look at it, touch it, feel it, suck it. It is the single part of the body that can attract you so much that all the rest take a second place, and it is something deeply instinctive, primordial, that cannot be explained.

I find a bit funny (but also very arousing, please go on ) the answers in the threads “Why do you like cocks?” or “Why do you like sucking cocks?”. Everybody has a different answer but the truth is that we cannot explain certain things, it’s like trying to explain why we like certain foods.

What do you think? Of course it does not regard all bisexual and gay men, but what percentage of bisexual and gay men do you think have such a strong focus on cocks?

And finally, if you love boobs and cocks, can you compare the attraction you feel?

 

[WilliamG]

Well I might as well say it right here: A trans person with amazing boobs and a nice cock..? Perfect!
Seriously though. For me, boobs and cocks are two different interests. And unlike many, I don't think I oculd be attracted to either on their own. I think I'm more forgiving with women and their boobs simply because there is more emotion involved for me. But with cocks, I need more of a total package to be interested. Hence, glory holes are out for me.

 

[Derringer]

My particular preferences are somewhat skewed by my particular fetish. SPH (small penis humiliation). I am definitely most attracted to women but because of my sph I am also turned on by any penis that is noticeably larger than mine no matter what the general looks or physique.
As for women as opposed to many men I tend to be attracted to smaller breasts and generally an overall body that is balanced and shapely regardless of height or mass.
Both women and men are key to my sph desires. I only sexually interact with other guys when women are involved in some capacity. My favourite is mmf threesome or foursome with another couple although I have often enjoyed a mf situation where I am just a voyeur watching them fuck while I wank my tiny cock.
So I am definitely attracted to the whole package when it comes to women and as for men it is the cock. (especially the big swinging dicks)

 

[deleted11768931]

I like boobs much more than I like cocks, at least aesthetically, lol. It could be the prettiest dick in the world but unless it is attached to a guy I find really hot, I don't care for it. Also, from a visual standpoint I only like looking at uncut ones.

But yeah, an average woman with nice big boobs will easily trump an average man with a good-looking dick every time for me.

 

[deleted19462351]

Mostly I'm an ass man, you got a nice one and I'm sold, though I appreciate nice boobs and dicks and still any body part you might have it's gonna look better to me if I like you, I stare at lots of people but I'm not into most of them, the full sexual attraction seems to come later when I get to know them and turns out they aren't a piece of shit.

 

[halcyondays]

and it is something deeply instinctive, primordial, that cannot be explained.

Everybody has a different answer but the truth is that we cannot explain certain things, it’s like trying to explain why we like certain foods.

So true! Biology explains at least some of it.

These are secondary sexual characteristics of our species which signal that an individual is sexually mature:

-large breasts and round hips on females
-height, broad shoulders, muscle mass and facial & body hair on males
-armpit and pubic hair on both

Instinctually we tend to find these very attractive. You are right to say it's primordial. Extra large muscle on men and breasts on women make our eyes go ga-ZOOO-gah . Our species is primarily visually stimulated by secondary sex characteristics when it comes to attraction while most other species rely on olfactory stimulation--pheromones.

You didn't mention youth. Females of our species reproduce most successfully the first fifteen years of fertility peaking at age 21-22. Contrary to popular opinion older males of our species are not perving on young women. Males instinctually (unconsciously) know what reproductive success looks like in females and that is youth. What was the name of the store that used to be in the malls? FOREVER 21? Ever wonder why women want to look forever young? Ever wonder why there's a massive beauty industry for women but almost none for men? Because beauty = youth and youth = reproductive success. The youthful female look makes men go .

Full disclosure. These conclusions are drawn from population studies. Individual exceptions and preferences apply but as we say in the business don't miss the forest for the trees.



Me? I do not have a strong focus on cock the way I have on breasts. I'm an ass man when it comes to men and I like youthful fitness in any partner. Muscle? Meh. Cock? Meh. Most are average. Nothing catches my eye more than the female form and nothing is more alluring. I'm a sucker for a cute/pretty/handsome face no matter how one identifies.

 

[johnweek1]

Sexually speaking, huge boobs and a huge, nice, handsome cock are literally my biggest turn ons. I have no interest in "pecs" or anything like that with men. But dear lord a nice pair of giant boobs on a hot girl will hypnotize me. And the same can be said of a hung twink with a massive cock -- deer in headlights.

That's how my bisexuality rolls.

 

[bi2]

Its what makes a trans woman, the perfect sexual partner for me.

Give me a great rack with a gorgeous cock every day of the week.

 

[Dirk Dangler]

I have seen a very very horny titty fuck on a dude with a decent pair of malleable hairy pecs, shaved would be a sanding nightmare.
so realistically I’m saying it’s about making best use of what you have to hand!

 

[Wolfprud3]

Not sure if this if thread was meant for me, but I thought it would be interesting to share.

As someone who is gay and attracted to men, I’m weirdly attracted to large male pecs bouncing or jiggling like boobs so I can relate to straight guys in that way. And I’m honestly not attracted to cocks at all, I’I also like big butts and feminine hips on a (usually masculine) guy. It’s all very confusing haha

 

[deleted7482551]

The thinkings are different for me, when I see pink, or stacked cleavage, or a sport bra squeezing a pair of melons, I just want to kiss and suck and play with them, and run my small dick in it. When I see a huge dick, perhaps just stroke it, weight the balls, for guys, I think I do value other things like muscular body and kind smile, right amount of body hair.

 

[Little one]

Love small tits and small cock a trap like that I would quit my job and service them daily.

 

[bi2]

Big boobs on a slim taut petite body are amazing.

 

[JPEightGP]

I think in either case - boobs vs cocks - some people just have prettier property than others. I like reasonably sized tits that are firm and pretty. And, because I have a pretty cock, I like looking at cocks that are potentially as pretty as mine. Wanna see if it's prettier than mine, then congratulate the other guy for having a pretty cock. Takes a lot of upkeep, you know, lol

 

[JPEightGP]

I think in either case - boobs vs cocks - some people just have prettier property than others. I like reasonably sized tits that are firm and pretty. And, because I have a pretty cock, I like looking at cocks that are potentially as pretty as mine. Wanna see if it's prettier than mine, then congratulate the other guy for having a pretty cock. Takes a lot of upkeep, you know, lol

Should say I appreciate those qualities in a body that looks as good.

 

[deleted22469371]

Without seeing the rest of the person, I would rather suck on tits rather than suck on a dick. I would need to look at the rest of a guy's body for me to get aroused by a dick. However seeing tits, even just through a thin shirt where you could see her hard nipples is hot af. Therefore it takes more for me to get aroused by only seeing a dick if that makes sense, rather than a tits. Love sucking on tits while she's riding me.

 

[bigboaster]

Without seeing the rest of the person, I would rather suck on tits rather than suck on a dick. I would need to look at the rest of a guy's body for me to get aroused by a dick. However seeing tits, even just through a thin shirt where you could see her hard nipples is hot af. Therefore it takes more for me to get aroused by only seeing a dick if that makes sense, rather than a tits. Love sucking on tits while she's riding me.

I think describes me perfectly actually. A disembodied dick just isn't particularly appealing to me. I would like it to be attached to someone I find attractive first. But boobs just in general are such a turn on. It almost wouldn't matter what the woman looks like tbh.

 

[JB-Ski]

I like cocks because they only really exist for one purpose. There’s also no lying in them, a hard cock is a horny cock. I get turned on by arousal and seeing the built up sexual frustration and arousal in a nice big hard cock has a strange effect on me I can’t help it, makes me weak at the knees.
Likewise, watching them twitching and pulsating the moment before shooting a creamy load turns me on immensely

 

[JB-Ski]

….but I’m also hypnotised by a beautiful pair of tits too.. whether it’s just a cheeky glimpse of cleavage, or sideboob, underboob, nipples through a fine blouse, etc..

 

[deleted15682271]

Definitely a boob guy. Love them. Ass 2nd. When it comes to men, face, body and cock all have to be nice. I like looking at cocks, and balls. But prefer looks and shape over size.