Gay but considering sex with a woman

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Would like to ask some Bi how they would define their personality in a single sentence. Which do you prefer more? Which qualities?

One friend put it this way, "I'm physically attracted to men, but i like sex with women better."

I personally am considering having sex with a woman. I am openly gay and have an active sex life. I am a vers so i top and bottom. However lately i've been considering having sex with a woman and wonder how i might describe myself if ended up to enjoy sex with women
 

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It's different but it doesn't mean that iyou have less plesure.Try iit i'm sure, you will love it
 

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Well congrats on being openminded to allow yourself to explore that side of yourself. I think the hardest challenge is finding the lady friend - that's just down for sex and no strings attached. But presuming that you've already got that covered, women are softer, curvier and their lady parts feel amazing taking your man parts haha. Everything else will be what you make of it. Oh yeah, for the most part...women are great kissers.

Will you update us if you ever go through w this?
 
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If you're willing to fuck a women then you're probably bisexual.And you're friend who said he's attracted to guys but fucks girls..he's not gay at all. sorry
 

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I have always said I am open to possibilities. I never got the whole labelling thing but think thst is because I have never been attracted to one gender specifically.

For me, it has always been about the person and the personality..even when its a one night stand type of situation. If the person is worth being fucked... I am going to fuck them. If they are not, they arent coming over.
 

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Actions don't determine one's sexuality. It is the desire behind those actions that do. Experimenting with a women once or twice will not make you less gay. It is what you learn about yourself during and afterwards that helps determine your sexuality. And remember, don't let the label determine who you are. If you find that you really do enjoy sex with women, fine. It doesn't change who you are. You have always had those feelings or at least the capacity for them. Discovering your sexual tastes is far more important than figuring out the label to go with it.
 

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I just had a funny thought.

To most men, if they know you do ANYTHING with guys, they call you 'totally gay'. So a lifetime of getting ass fucked + a hookup with a beautiful woman, you're still totally gay (to most guys). So dude, have fun, and don't give a fuck about labels.
 

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sexuality is fluid. we're all bisexual anyway so don't pigeon-hole yourself. a lot of it is down to meeting the right person


Bisexuality is fluid, but being gay or straight isn't. A gay guy can only enjoy sex with women, a straight guy csn only enjoy sex with women, their not labels, it's what you're sexuality is...their's no opinion about it.
 

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Great post and legitimate questions but I'd urge you not to focus on how you'd label yourself, because that's kind of what it sounded you were getting at.

Go for it. Doesn't mean you wake up a different person the next day. Your personality is comprised of so much more than sexuality.
 

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I just had a funny thought.

To most men, if they know you do ANYTHING with guys, they call you 'totally gay'. So a lifetime of getting ass fucked + a hookup with a beautiful woman, you're still totally gay (to most guys).

Maybe to older men but most guys in their 20s and 30s are much more accepting of Homosexuality and a lot of them swing both ways. Not sure why people feel the need to label themselves.:rolleyes:
 
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Maybe to older men but most guys in their 20s and 30s are much more accepting of Homosexuality and a lot of them swing both ways. Not sure why people feel the need to label themselves.:rolleyes:

Man...I need to get out more...
 

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i'm with you, dude. i'm "mostly gay" but love having sex with women! that elusive bi mmf threesome will happen more often in 2014, dammit!
 

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Dude you have a awsome uncut cock that any one would enjoy your body is nice I personally feel if you have the curiosity to have sex with a woman you should go for it never say I should have or could have experience all you can so you can say yes I did and I thought it was awsome or I thought it was not for me. I call myself bi because I like both the feel of that hardbody and like a nice Cock and low hanging balls slapping my ass or just the feel of our junk rubbing together frotting but also the feel of a soft woman and the feel of my penis inside a warm wet vaginal making her feel good and bringing her to orgasm.her sweet smell
sometimes you want cock sometimes puss it depends on my mood
 

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At first I only had sex with women, but I always had an attraction for men.

For my first gay experience, I remember saying to myself...this is so fucking good. And I busted a nut so hard that it hurt...LOL.

So give it a shot you have nothing to lose.
 

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Would like to ask some Bi how they would define their personality in a single sentence. Which do you prefer more? Which qualities?

One friend put it this way, "I'm physically attracted to men, but i like sex with women better."

I personally am considering having sex with a woman. I am openly gay and have an active sex life. I am a vers so i top and bottom. However lately i've been considering having sex with a woman and wonder how i might describe myself if ended up to enjoy sex with women
I have the same urges