gay, but just had 1st time vaginal sex

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Thanks for starting this thread, jockpack! This is on my to-do list some day as well. Of course, my friends think I'm nuts, but whatever.

I'd really like to see str82fcuk's questions answered, if you've got a moment.
 

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Glad to hear you had the experience. I think the key is like it is with anything is that if the chemistry and attraction is there then the sex is great. However, I will say one thing, a hole is not just another hole. There's a certain magnetism or spark or feeling when its the right fit , be it man or woman that's undescribable... and when its a match and fits right theres nothing else like it.
 

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I like this thread too. People need to stop being so stuck on the notion that we are all either straight OR gay. I think that is driven by fear. One of the things I like about this site is that sexual preference is expressed in percentages instead either-or.
 

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Back in my younger days I had sex with women too. I'll agree that when the fit is good, there is nothing like it, both men and women. Liked oral with men but strangely not with women, going down on a women was not to my taste (sorry, no pun intended...lol), would have to really LOVE and care for a woman to do that.
 

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[quote=str82fcuk;1118519]hmmm i might do this too one day ...

so it was 'so hot' and very enjoyable and she liked it too
and you're going to do it again

is it just like another new different form of pleasure
or is there something really special about it?

did you make her cum?
(I like to make my partner cum but I don't know how to do it with a girl)
Is it obvious what to do once you're in there or did you have to read up on how to do it?

how long did the session last?

will you do it again with the same girl or with a different girl?

was there anything that surprised you about it?

was there anything you didn't like about it?

thank you op and anyone else for answering these questions ...[/quote]

So can anyone else answer any of these questions? OP?
 

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I would describe myself as 100% gay, but lately I have found straight porn watchable (sometimes even a turn on!), which is quite startling to me. I don't think I could ever handle a real woman tho, or be able to please her that way.. but if this swing continues, who knows? I'll tell ya, she'd have to be a damn special girl though.

Good on you for trying something different, wish I was brave enough!!
 

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I agree completely. Something just switches off while something else just switches on. I take on a different persona, a different type of masculinity. I approach sex very differently and I can feel a different kind of power that I don't have with men. Much of it has to do with the sense that women have an inherent vulnerability that men don't have so part of me becomes protective and I feel more powerful. Behavior changes as well to something more solicitous and consciously aware of my actions. I find it much easier to take charge, but also even more difficult to let go than when I'm with men. I'm really bad at just surrendering to the moment.

It sounds more like you have a notion of what it's suppose to feel like or have an idea of what role you associate with hetero sex. Nothing actually changes. Just the mindset, which sounds more romanticized in your head beforehand, about what straight sex must feel like. Many people just fuck and don't get into to total roles. Sounds more like gay guy performing straight sex with a pre-conceived notion of what it's suppose to be all about, and who does what. :biggrin1: Like making love to your momma. :tongue:
 

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I just slept with a woman for the first time last night, im gay but have to admit that I really enjoyed it!! it was so hot, she said it was really good too, definatelty going to do it more. Any other gay guys had similar experiences? how was it etc etc

I've had sex with gay men before. Specifically, a leatherdude. He called himself gay, but.....:biggrin1:
 

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It sounds more like you have a notion of what it's suppose to feel like or have an idea of what role you associate with hetero sex. Nothing actually changes. Just the mindset, which sounds more romanticized in your head beforehand, about what straight sex must feel like. Many people just fuck and don't get into to total roles. Sounds more like gay guy performing straight sex with a pre-conceived notion of what it's suppose to be all about, and who does what.

Yes! Very true. Is that not common? I thought it was. As I said earlier, I do have a very hard time just getting into the moment and being free. I feel like I'm on stage, having to perform a role. That's largely true with men or women though I feel it moreso with women.

That's an interesting view as well because I had sex with a girl before I did with a boy.

:biggrin1: Like making love to your momma. :tongue:

You were doing so well up to that point. WTF?
 

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personally I really don't have any idea of what heterosex is supposed to be like so I dont think I'll have any preconceived notions if I ever get the opportunity to try it. Really the whole straight world is a total mystery to me thus my interest in this thread ...
 

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I would describe myself as 100% gay, but lately I have found straight porn watchable (sometimes even a turn on!), which is quite startling to me. I don't think I could ever handle a real woman tho, or be able to please her that way.. but if this swing continues, who knows? I'll tell ya, she'd have to be a damn special girl though.

Good on you for trying something different, wish I was brave enough!!

Why do you think it would be hard to please her?