Gay Couples: At What Point Did You Guys Starting Having Unprotected Sex?

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Knowing that you're in a relationship that you see yourself being in for a long time, how long did it take for you guys to stop using protection? Tbh I'm not sure what's common.
For us it's been three weeks after we met. Both has been tested some weeks before and didn't have other partners on between. We were trusting each other and still living happy together 4 years later in our new house.
 
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Knowing that you're in a relationship that you see yourself being in for a long time, how long did it take for you guys to stop using protection? Tbh I'm not sure what's common.
A couple of months. I can't remember exactly. I had been tested just before meeting him, and so had he, and we had been monogamous since then, so.. It just made sense for us.

The only thing I'd like to say is, you need to be able to trust the person you are with. If you aren't sure, use condoms.
 
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A couple of months. I can't remember exactly. I had been tested just before meeting him, and so had he, and we had been monogamous since then, so.. It just made sense for us.

The only thing I'd like to say is, you need to be able to trust the person you are with. If you aren't sure, use condoms.

i dont remember when my bf and i first started having unprotected sex, but all i know is that i'm his first, and i got tested soon after it happened. and we trust each other and we both know that we dont plan on seeing anyone outside and are keeping it monogamous. i just curious as to how other couples were doing.
 
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with the current bf probably 5-6 weeks, he wanted it much sooner than me, but I insisted we both went and got tested together and waited till we got results - he'd never been with anyone before but I had and then about a week after we got our results back as we had quite a deep discussion about all the implications not just stds and I wanted to make sure he was clear as to what he was doing.

and also spelt out the trust thing big time, that going bare required us to both be completely honest and monogamous if going bare.