Gay cruising for sex

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Do you cruise for sex?

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  2. No way

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  3. Just when I'm horny as hell and need release

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  4. Other, please comment

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  1. B_thickjohnny

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    I'm curious to know how many guys actually cruise for sex. I read different views but it seems most gay men at some time or another go out cruising. They might cruise in a local bathhouse, the gym, the woods, public toilets (glory holes), etc. What's your take on this? Have you done it? Why do you cruise for sex? Is it addictive?
     
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    other. there is certain websites and phone apps where you can find guys in your area and you just message them. gaydar would be the main site to use. gay saunas is a good place to take the guy you met if you dont have anywhere to go and if its wet and cold outside :)
     
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    Well here In Melbourne, Australia... It seems pretty dead for cruising now. Just a load of snobs or idiots, and wasted hours. :mad:
     
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    When I was living in Prague, there were cruising spots all over the city. It was always easier to go out and cruise a park than try to meet on line. So from time to time, I'd head to the park.
     
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    Well here has become VERY strange. And As I have sadly found out, Online is not an option either. Just a load of rude, fake and patronising idiots in a chat room or nasty FaceBook rubbish. Im glad Im rid of those now. They are POISON! :mad:
     
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    There used to be really cruisy spots that I would hear about from my more adventurous friends. Most have been shut down by Police sting operations.

    I was never really into the cruising scene.
    Sure, I'd post a few profiles here and there....but nothing ever came to be out of them. Many I was afraid to meet because of past experiences of no shows, etc.
     
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    It just seems cruising isn't needed anymore, it is going extinct , like the dinosaurs. When people could get arrested , just for being gay, i think it was a necessity, how else could you meet others "like yourself" ? But now, with the internet and people being so "out", i don't think Gay people "need" it. I feel married guys and Curious guys may find it useful, because they are not out. I dont get the thrill of being arrested and your life ruined for a piece of ass.
     
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    i used to until i was arrested ala George Michael. I have not cruised since 2002.
     
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    True. The threat of being arrested (in the US) is a big turn off. In Prague however there's no "stigma" attached to it. I mean, I've been in parks where guys were having sex in the open and other guys just walked by. I heard a story from a friend of one of his friends in a park late on night getting hammered when two cops walked up with flashlights. They asked if they were ok and when they answered yes, the cops walked on. We guessed that they just wanted to be sure someone wasn't being raped (against his will). It wasn't sex in the wide open so they walked on.

    Another time I was walking back to my car after a late night out (in the center of the city!) when I came across a straight couple fucking against a wall. I thought at first they were just dry humping and kissing but learned too late that their pants were down past their knees. The girl said hello as I went past them. Can you imagine that in any US city or town?
     
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    Yes, I would have to agree with you all in that here in the USA in many places gay cruising for sex is risky, perhaps even here in Washington, DC where I live. The Net makes it so much easier to connect up.

    But there is much more subtle form of gay cruising. Gaydar is so wonderful in receiving vibrations that a gay may be gay. I frequent fairly often a coffeehouse, five blocks from my apartment. The coffeehouse is near Dupont Circle, even there there are str8 guys who send out gay vibes, delicious!
     
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    In my opinion, fucking against a wall in plain sight is kinda trashy. Like, what if a child was to see it. Not cool.
     
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    Public sex is a bit much but this was at 3am. Not many kids roaming the streets at that hour. Also, you'd be surprised at what kids see in Prague. TV commercials for simple things like deodorant show a woman's breast is in full sight as she rolls on the deo. "Family hour" TV always shows something with full frontal nudity. On of the Czech's favorite movies is about a nudist community moving in near a village. You see lots of naked men and women and one scene an old woman is surrounded by young guys. Can't miss the cocks there! And on a tram once there was an ad for a local whore house. The tram was plastered with a nude woman lying on her side with the English caption "Your best fuck in Prague". The English speaking community went ballistic and had the transportation ministry take it down.
     
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    I only ever went cruising around three times and I never really enjoyed it. I found it odd how everything happened in silence and how speaking was virtually forbidden. I actually thought it was pretty boring and since I never had any problem finding sex when I wanted, it was sort of pointless for me.
     
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    Well there's cruising and then there's cruising.

    In Boston, where I lived from the ages of 18-39 there were some notorious tearooms, but I always avoided them (and one was in a department store I worked in in my early 20s). Similarly, the Fens (a public park) were (and I'm sure still are) very busy late at night. But parks were never my thing, either. Even in the late 70s, it seemed a bit retrograde to me.

    However, I loved to cruise the bars and bathhouses (before the ones in Boston were closed in the early 80s). Personally I have always thought that specifically gay places were preferable to public venues for cruising. Only very recently have I enjoyed going out with a group of friends. I was always a solitary hunter and found the practice of collecting phone numbers to be kinda silly; if I was out, I was looking.

    I do recall a time in the mid-90s walking home from a bar, sometime between 1:00 and 3:00 in the morning. It was summer and really warm. About a half block away from my apartment I saw a straight couple fucking on the hood of a car (presumably it belonged to one of them): right there, out in the open, in Boston's Back Bay. That was one of the strangest things I've ever seen.
     
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    Nope, I feel like cruising is the same as sneaking to do something, and if you have to sneak and do anything then you are doing something wrong and shouldn't have to do that at all.
     
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    They were just jealous that they were not themselves, and not getting from anyone else, the best fuck in Prague. :wink:
     
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    Very rarely cruised, even back in the day. In college at LSU there was a small cruisy area downtown and I had to drive past this area every night on my way back to the dorm from work. One night while waiting for the light to turn, I watched the guy I had been dating get picked up off the curb by some random. Being all of 20, I was crushed and immediately drove to the other nearby cruisy area by Capitol Lake. Up on a small hill was the old armory, behind which was reputed to be very active. It was, and I got and gave a blowjob while several other guys stood by and jerked off. It was hot sleazy fun but I did feel awfully petty afterwards.
    Not long after, some poor guy who was out cruising was killed and dumped in the lake so that ended my budding interest in cruising. Getting arrested was one thing but the Mr. Goodbar thing was entirely another.
    Years later I hit the ( now long gone ) trails behind Piedmont Park in Atlanta on one occasion but after a friend got arrested there I never went back.
     
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    I cruise for curiosity! I don't cruise for sex :)
     
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    Cruising on line or cruising at a bar, church, library, home improvement store, etc. What is the difference, it just means going somewhere to meet up with someone?
     
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    Myself i go quite often, but these days there are very few guys around the cruising areas in Staffordshire.
    Would like comments from guys in the UK.