I'm not trying to be a jackass when writing this because I am totally for gay adoption and marriage because I'd like to have that right some day...but... In a gay relationship, how do the dynamics work out? Who is considerd the bride and the groom? How will the child tell his two fathers apart? Growing up, I've always just said 'mom' or 'dad', as have almost all children. How will this work in a gay relationship? I'm not trying to bash it in any way, I'm just wondering how it will work.