I was just thinking about this today. For all the gay guys out there I'm curious why you prefer big ones? There's been a bunch of threads in women's issues about why women like 'em but I'm wondering what the appeal is for gay men. Is it more physical, psychological, etc? To me it does seem that there are more gay men who like big ones than straight women who do.
Gay fellows: Why do you like big ones?
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i don't know how one could be gay and NOT like big dick. i like to swallow it (big dick hasn't made me choke in years) and ride it (i only want big ones in me, bigger the better).
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It does seem a lot of gay guys have a preference for larger sizes. I know the poll on women's preferences showed it's about 50-50 between women who like big ones for the physical feeling vs. the psychological excitement (I'm a physical girl myself :tongue: ). I'm just guessing here but my suspicion is with gay guys it's more often a mental thing, how somehow big ones signify power and manliness.
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stud_hunter said:It does seem a lot of gay guys have a preference for larger sizes. I know the poll on women's preferences showed it's about 50-50 between women who like big ones for the physical feeling vs. the psychological excitement (I'm a physical girl myself :tongue: ). I'm just guessing here but my suspicion is with gay guys it's more often a mental thing, how somehow big ones signify power and manliness.
My own suspicion about my preference for the well - endowed male is that I am subconsciously searching for someone who mirrors my appearance(egoism). I prefer men who are less tall (like myself) and who are muscular and well built (like myself) and who are hung long and very thick(like myself)!
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... because it takes a REAL man to take a real big dick! :biggrin1:
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whore. :biggrin1:
to answer the original question, i agree that a higher percentage of gay guys versus straight women prefer larger sized males. cocks are beautiful. well, many of them are anyway.
ok, take away my gay card, but honestly, i'm not a size queen. yeh, fun to look at and play with, but ultimately, it does not automatically equate to them being hotter. would much rather have someone "on fire" with an average endowment versus an asshole with 9 inches.
butts are a different story. a round bubbly set of cakes is a definite turnon. its why i love football. haha. nice big low hangers are a turnon too. but i won't go there. this could turn into an excessively long essay.
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IMHO, there is both a physical as well as a psychological aspect to being into big dicks. Big dicks represent power and masculinity and are definitely a turn on for most gay guys because we are generally drawn to masculinity. Duh, otherwise we would be straight! That is why so many gay guys are into str8 guys... they are 'more masculine' than other gay guys. Many gay men will deny that this is true, but I think most gay men are more attracted to another guy if they perceive him as being straight. For example, if he dresses a certain way or even goes so far as to wear a wedding ring. And having a big, powerful dick only reinforces that perception of him being strong and straight.
All that psycho babble aside, a big dick feels really good when being FUCKED... hits the prostate better or just gives more pressure...but IMO a smaller or average size dick is better for oral sex.
All that psycho babble aside, a big dick feels really good when being FUCKED... hits the prostate better or just gives more pressure...but IMO a smaller or average size dick is better for oral sex.
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Exactly what I was going to say!scorpio1444 said:
How large are we talking? I mean, you see some of these str8 porn sites advertising women with watermelon-sized jugs--but that's a niche market. In the same way, are ultra-huge dicks a niche market? I would say yes...
Personally, something in the 7 inch range with around 6 inches in girth is optimal for me, both to look at and to take into my loving orificies. :wink:
Why? To me, it's more a matter of beauty, perfection, proportion (that's why I love the Bel Ami guys so much). I'm less into virility and manliness for their own sake, than I'm into beauty that is in touch with its own sensuality. So maybe I shouldn't even be answering this thread. lol
POWER. MASCULINITY. I think those are the immediate associations most gay guys make with a big cock. I'm not much of a bottom, so I don't think much of the practical considerations of size. But the feel off a nice big fattie in my fist and the feeling of a long cock cutting off my air supply ... both of these things (and many other things about big ones) make me dizzey with lust and gratitude.That's nothing to say of all of the other visual qualities besides size, the appeal of which vary drastically from one person to another.
Yeah, it's mostly a head trip for me.:tongue:
Yeah, it's mostly a head trip for me.:tongue:
I have a real neurotic issue with this. For the record, I'm not a size queen. So all sizes are welcome for me--esp. since I am a bottom and sometimes larger guys can hurt. But I suppose I am hardwired to respond to large cocks and measuring 5" I feel like somehow liking a large cock negates me or contributes to a system that keeps smaller guys down. It's completely fucked up. My ex was well hung and I often felt really inadequate next to him and then I felt bad for liking his cock. It completely fucked with my mind (well, that and the fact that he would hardly every touch my dick of his own volition).
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