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Gay Friend Hitting On Me
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You could always tell him that you had your dry spell taken care of. If he thinks you are seeing a woman he might decide to give up. Otherwise you may have to tell him since he told others about your situation that there is no way you can have anytype of sex with him because of his mouth.
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Rules to live by some from My Mother, God Rest Her Soul and others from GOOD FRIENDS:
1. DON'T ARGUE WITH ANYONE about the following.
Politics
Religion
Sex
2. You DON'T FUCK WHERE YOU WORK.
3 Never, NEVER FUCK A FRIEND. Not even a MERCY fuck because they're SO horny, or you for that matter, they aren't able to go on and it's handy.
1. DON'T ARGUE WITH ANYONE about the following.
Politics
Religion
Sex
2. You DON'T FUCK WHERE YOU WORK.
3 Never, NEVER FUCK A FRIEND. Not even a MERCY fuck because they're SO horny, or you for that matter, they aren't able to go on and it's handy.
well i think you should just tell him point blank like others have said here, if he knows your a little ambiguous about accepting his offer then hes going to hound you until you relent. just go out and find yourself a one night stand to end your dry spell and tell this guy point blank that your not interested. this should make you feel better because you got some sexual attention and hes not going to bother you about it again, hopefully.
- BCH,
Wow, I agree with so many people. First, "real" friends don't have sex (oral/anal/vaginal) BUT real friends can J/O together. At the most you could be J/O buddies and I see nothing wrong with that as it allows you to get yourself off and interact with another naked person on a closer level.
Sharing information is NORMAL. I work with a straight guy and he knows that if we get together, I am telling some people but not others. Anytime you give any information out (or make a video LOL) you are taking a risk and KNOW that your information will be shared. I posted my dick on ratemyrod and finally told my friends. It's been great. Nobody is forced to look but curiosity always wins out :smile:
Sharing information is NORMAL. I work with a straight guy and he knows that if we get together, I am telling some people but not others. Anytime you give any information out (or make a video LOL) you are taking a risk and KNOW that your information will be shared. I posted my dick on ratemyrod and finally told my friends. It's been great. Nobody is forced to look but curiosity always wins out :smile:
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I'm starting to think that he's just overly flirtatious in general. I mean, he's always talking about him being horny or wanting sex or something. Plus the numerous amounts of entendres he uses. I don't know, I told him it makes me a little uncomfortable, and he told me he'll try to tone it down. I guess that's good. Thanks for all the advice so far. Any more advice?
Tell him what women have told men for years, "I just want to be friends." "Your friendship is too valuble to risk losing it by us having sex." "hell to the no."
Continue to decline his offers of sex and ask him if he could hook you up with a woman instead. Tell him you will accept no other substitute.
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Mr. Snakey
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He gonna wax dat ass.....:wink: You seem ok with the situation. So go for it. Good luck and have fun.
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D_EdgarAllenPooh
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almost sounds like your hitting on him buddy You called him,You told him how lonley you were , Then you told him you were hung.Why would you do these things if you were not interested in getting with him sexauly?
Ok, so he definitely ego trapped me, and now he really wants me. He told me that he wants to get in my pants, that he wants my dick. I told him no and to relent, but he's just weasling it into the conversation now.
End the friendship then. It may not be easy, but it's also not complicated. Anyone who doesn't respect another person's boundaries in a friendship is not worth the time of day.
Maybe because they're friends, and friends occasionally discuss their love/sex lives with each other? My best friend is straight, I'm gay, and we discuss sex and love openly with each other without wanting to get into each others's pants.
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wish some one will drive a Gay Friend over to my ex Girl friend house so she will stop asking for money !!!!
this is a slippery slope. there are varying degrees of these kinds of situations and how much risk do you want to take, anyway? if you want some hot man mouth maybe you should check out someone that is not a friend and then make a decision.
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I question just how good a friend he is.
Many years ago, a gay guy told me about how he deduced a non-gay friend who had a girlfriend. I was shocked, both because he did it and because he told me about it. That sort of thing should not happen.
There are some non-gays that think that to prove how accepting and liberal they are, they have to have sex with other men. It is not a reasonable thing to do.
Many years ago, a gay guy told me about how he deduced a non-gay friend who had a girlfriend. I was shocked, both because he did it and because he told me about it. That sort of thing should not happen.
There are some non-gays that think that to prove how accepting and liberal they are, they have to have sex with other men. It is not a reasonable thing to do.
First, I'd LOVE to either give or get a http://www.lpsg.org/members/no_strings.html BJ. :tongue:
Real friends don't FORCE a BJ.
Agreed! Or at least they certainly can.
If you REALLY do NOT want one, be firm, and say, "Look, you've GOT to drop this, or you're going to ruin our friendship. It's not funny anymore." Then, stop feeding him info like your cock size, how you're aching for relief, and dick-teasing him. With many friends, saying, "Dude, it's been so long...", is just guy-talk, but for this guy, that's obviously not the case, and instead, he sees it as an opening. If you REALLY don't want it, stop letting yourself be a victim, and tell him so, and stop letting him fantasize that it might happen. You're not helping by not being clear.
If you're not sure, and you're considering it, that's fine, but it's another story. Still, he shouldn't pressure you, if he's really a friend. Now, if you ARE curious, and thinking you might do it, that's totally fine, but it WILL change the dynamics of the friendship, in about 85-95% of the cases. So, not only would you need to prepare yourself for handling that a guy is blowing you, you'd have to prepare for the friendship's change, or even end.
While, in theory, this could potentially be hot, from the info you've given, it sounds more like a disaster that you should avoid. Say a VERY clear, "NO".
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