Gay friend seen my cock drunk one night and asked if i would fuck him im staight and not sure first

[Exbiker]

I'd avoid this.

I'm very sexually experienced. And gay. At a basic erotic level it might be great.

But it's about people. Minds. Kindness. Care. Responsibility ...

At that level this could create many problems.

And there's no real problem it would be solving ...

 

[chrisrobin]

you're thinking about it so he obviously has a cute butt, so, imagine it naked and cheeks opening ready to take your hard cock - feel anything...?

 

[deleted871301]

I need some advice and what do you think i should do I've never been with a guy

Any updates @Shyboy2002 ? Did you eventually fuck him?

 

[Shyboy2002]

Any updates @Shyboy2002 ? Did you eventually fuck him?

Yes i did and a few more times after that

 

[JohnnyMission]

Yes i did and a few more times after that

Sounds like it went well. Care to share any details? What did you learn from the experience?

 

[Shyboy2002]

Sounds like it went well. Care to share any details? What did you learn from the experience?

Felt different than woman and I have been slowly getting used to it

 

[622675]

Felt different than woman and I have been slowly getting used to it

There are a number of discussions on this site where straight guys complain about being hit on by gays. You have not reacted this way and that is a refreshing change.

The guys who complain often argue that gays seem to believe that straight men have a gay sex interest locked up inside of them. And all they need is the right motivation to let it out.

How would you describe your experience as you moved from being propositioned by your friend to where you are now?

---Was having sex with a guy something you had thought about before?

---Do you feel other “straight” guys would accommodate a gay friends interest in sharing a sex act?

---Are you rewarded mostly by the sex act it self, or by the pleasure (and bonding) it adds to the friendship.

 

[linniejr]

I need some advice and what do you think i should do I've never been with a guy

Honestly, you don't need to ask us to justify what it is you want to do anyway. If you really didn't want to be with him, you wouldn't be experiencing the conflict that you are now going through. I say do it. You two know each other, but be careful, because it is very easy to catch feelings for him especially if you enjoy it. Just let your friend know, that at least it's with somebody familiar.

 

[deano-uk]

So if you've done it more than once, it was better than you first thought. Don't be afraid of it, whether it's just sex or an attraction, you only live once. Provided both people are into it and know the restrictions of what you are doing, whether or not it could turn to anything else is upto how you feel.

 

[Heat]

It Will be first time and I'm definitely top any suggestions

I say try it, just for the experience...to break the boundary of "what's normal" and all the bullshit society throws at you. It may change your mind and spirit about many things, not just sex. And don't label it. You're a human having a human interaction. Nothing more, nothing less.

 

[Heat]

Sorry, I didn't see your post that you've been fucking your bud... that's great. Good for you. Now you know that you're able to have fun in a number of ways and that you're not hemmed in by expectations about what makes YOU YOU. Good job.

 

[sammiec3]

I need some advice and what do you think i should do I've never been with a guy

are u good friends? if the dick is really really good he going to want it all the time, and you may not feel like that kinda way.mmmm