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I'm an openly gay man and I have gay friends who are just friends. I'm either not attracted to them or it's a case that I value their friendship and I don't want to risk losing it.Hey Y'all.... question for the group:
If a gay guy who has lots of gay "friends"... does that mean he is usually hooking up with a lot of them... OR... can a gay man actually have a-lot of gay friends who are actually just "friends" lol
Hypersexualizing gay men is harmful, just as hyper sexualizing men in general is harmful.
Hey Y'all.... question for the group:
If a gay guy who has lots of gay "friends"... does that mean he is usually hooking up with a lot of them... OR... can a gay man actually have a-lot of gay friends who are actually just "friends" lol
This question has been beaten to death in other threads.
Hey Y'all.... question for the group:
If a gay guy who has lots of gay "friends"... does that mean he is usually hooking up with a lot of them... OR... can a gay man actually have a-lot of gay friends who are actually just "friends" lol
Answer: Yes they have been screwing around with each other.
It would be my bet (based on experience) that members of a group (of gay friends) will have shared sexual opportunities with every one in the group if they have been in the group for very long. If they haven’t done something physical with every other member of the group, they have thought seriously about it.
Same kind of activities will be working in heterosexual friends groups.
So why are you asking?
(Sorry for the double post)Whaaaaaaaaaa lol
Is this a joke?
(Sorry for the double post)
Totally not a joke. Seen it too many times. Works for gays and straights and everyone in between.
Consider that there are often post on LPSG where gay guys are asking for guidance on how to meet other guys. The most frequent response is for the guy to get out there and mingle, meet people, and give the people he meets a chance to either develop interest in him or introduce him to someone who might be interested.
Point being, “friends” and their friends are the most likely place to find people of interest. And that is where a lot of activity takes place.
Granted that how you define “friends” may either limit or expand your pool of people.
not sure how it works in South Texas but in my experience there has not been an intermingling of friends, straight or gay. I cannot say whether or not anyone has thought about it but then one cannot get beaten for thoughts! I have had many gay friends and can say that i only had sex with one and that was before we became friends. As for straight friend/women in my circle there are only two and one was and will always be the 3rd in a sexual situation, she loves the attention!Answer: Yes they have been screwing around with each other.
It would be my bet (based on experience) that members of a group (of gay friends) will have shared sexual opportunities with every one in the group if they have been in the group for very long. If they haven’t done something physical with every other member of the group, they have thought seriously about it.
Same kind of activities will be working in heterosexual friends groups.
So why are you asking?
Great input. Maybe next time don’t reply and ignore the thread.