These things really happened. I don't mean to imply conceit on my behalf, but were they perhaps gay come-ons, invitations or just imagination. -(no brainer), but a guy I worked with sat down in front of me during a break, peeled a banana, looked me straight in the face, ran his tongue out and licked the shaft of the banana. Never said anything connected to what he did, just did it. -my new, somewhat stranger of a neighbor once privately but very casually told me that if I ever needed anything to let him know. He paused then said again, anything at all.. -saw a young man in a grocery store I knew from several years back. He glanced in my direction, glanced away then jerked his head back toward me, smiled so warmly and seemed to look at me so sexy, like with bedroom eyes.. -a best friend at work was talking to me one day at break, reaches out and touches me on the hand. Sent a small shiver through me. What was it..? -a new employee I didn't know at all stopped me one day and asked me how the people where I work were treating me. He then said if they weren't doing me right he'd come and take care of them, just to let him know. Warm looks and a quick smile too. -a guy I work with raised the waist band of his shirt and showed me his hairy belly-- never does it otherwise. Same bedroom eyes. A guy I'm great friends with many times looks me up and down when we greet after not seeing each other for a while. Very warm look and smile.. Is it me, is it wishful thinking or just my imagination? Has this happened to anyone else? Again, I'm not trying to be conceited, but has anyone else experienced anything like this? If so please share.