Gay going straight?

Cecilfirefox

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It's also important to draw distinctions between 'sex' and 'relationships'. Having a physical desire to have sex with a women, when that act itself has gender roles being played that may be turning you on, along with whatever else is getting you going, is totally different then feeling an attraction to having a RELATIONSHIP with a women. I would consider myself 100% gay, but the thought of sex with a chick doesn't turn me limp- but I don't have any attraction or excitement at their body, form, genitals, etc., and emotionally connecting with one would be totally alien to me. But, still, fucking one- under certain circumstances- can have an attractive bent to it, although entirely physical. I.E., you may be into fucking women but not loving women, or you may just be into the 'idea' of fucking women(and still not loving them).

I just love putting my intellectual hat on. Also, I chose a ridiculous screen name for a guy.
 

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So I'm gay.

Actually, I believe it's difficult to categorise ones sexuality. I find women attractive, always have, but I've always been with guys so I've never had intercourse with a woman.

I've been in a long term relationship with a guy for a while now but recently the thought of my cock sliding in and out of a juicy pussy is REALLY turning me on. Lips wrapped around my shaft sucking it with every thrust!

I sometimes watch straight porn (the men are generally more attractive and tend to have bigger dicks) but recently I've totally been getting off on the pussy in the videos, especially vaginal creampies.

Just wondering if anyone has any thoughts on the matter?

Is Bi like the new gay or something? Why are people so afraid to say they like men and women? I would think that option would well, give you more options.
 

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Once you try vagina I doubt you'll go back.

^^ Says Mr. 100% Straight Man.

Of course, I happen to know too well that when gay guys say the like to straight guys, (that straight guy's don't know what they're missing, that once straight guys have a dick, they'll have a permanent gay mark on them forever, etc. etc.) the hetero dude has every "right" to distance themselves from the gay guy and to ostracize him. :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:



added thru edit - Anywhoodlezzz, the reason I revived this thread was because I am interested myself in the widespread "yestergay" phenomenon and thought that I'd share some of my knowledge on it. It's actually quite natural for a lot of gay guys, as there are more of them who would go through this experience than they would like to admitt: these guys would know themselves to be heavily attracted to other guys only to discover a latent attraction to the opposite sex later in life. Sometimes, some of these gay guys would report that, for a period of time, they felt that their attraction to guys were declining amidst their new-found joyful attraction to the opposite sex and then only to "regain" the attraction to the same sex again after the wonderful temporary and minor attraction for women lost its freshness and its luster. (For 50-50 bisexuals, this "switcheroo" experience may happen more frequently, depending on the bisexual. On the other hand, some many other bisexuals may be able to actually truly be sexually aroused by both men and women at the exact same time, but more on this later, as I don't want to get too off-topic).

One thing many people have forgotten is the fact that there is a separate sexual orientation altogether that would define the "gay" guys in above-said experience: that of gay-bisexuality. These guys aren't gay. They're gay-bisexuals, or in Kinsey's term, the 4's and the 5's on the Kinsey scale. What intrigues me much is the fact that this sexual orientation is almost never directly spoken about (we're either just gay or bisexual or straight), despite the fact that it is so very prevalent and ubiquitous. In fact, I have always postulated that there are more gay-bisexuals than 100% gay guys. (Not to say that purely gay guys don't exist.) One only needs to check out lpsg.org and, in fact, this very thread: those members who in their profile state that they are 80% gay and 20% straight. Hey, if that is so, you're not gay. You're gay-bisexual, dude! :biggrin1:

Perhap's its these guys calling themselves gay their whole lives that somehow rendered their own attraction to women invisible. Words do often affect the way we think about our selves and the way we perceive the world. With this done, it might be of little surprise that arousal towards women would only come out as a latent experience later in life. Thus, a "yestergay" experience has been born.

Now, I'm no expert in this field, but being a gay-bisexual myself (4.9 on the kinsey scale; 80-85% gay, 15-20% straight), I thought that this might be something of value for you guys to have. Something to merely think about. :)
 
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