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Hi guys - as the title says - how creeped out would you be by this? I know I would even be a little.

How would you go about asking or would you like to be asked so not to be a weird thing?

Completely no strings attached. The guy is married and I believe this is an innocent option. Just want a straight guys prespective on the notion.

We are not super close but working on that. He's a really cool guy.
 

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Ahah he just have a fantasy about that
Myself always had a thing for others underwear!
U can make some money out of it

I feel like it's pretty universal. I know when I was younger I liked toto sne a smell of friends when I got the chance. Made me feel like I was doing something wrong.
 
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Here we go again... Just because marriage is in the picture doesn't mean their (his and hers) minds aren't sexually open. Just getting feedback. Seeking non moral uptight people's feedback. I'm sure whoever cheated on you was a prick - just move on.
 
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Here we go again... Just because marriage is in the picture doesn't mean their (his and hers) minds aren't sexually open. Just getting feedback. Seeking non moral uptight people's feedback. I'm sure whoever cheated on you was a prick - just move on.

Just fuck off.

You said you were "all ears". Obviously you aren't. You just want validation.

It isn't "morally uptight" to honor a commitment...or to respect another person's commitment.
 

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Just fuck off.

You said you were "all ears". Obviously you aren't. You just want validation.

It isn't "morally uptight" to honor a commitment...or to respect another person's commitment.
You and @Fade can masturbate your self righteousness together. You misinterpreted - I was all ears for @twoton ... Thanks for coming, take your shame elsewhere, fucking NEXT you soggy bitch.
 

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You and @Fade can masturbate your self righteousness together. You misinterpreted - I was all ears for @twoton ... Thanks for coming, take your shame elsewhere, fucking NEXT you soggy bitch.

Shame? You must really be triggered by this. I didn't mention shame.
 
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Just fuck off.

You said you were "all ears". Obviously you aren't. You just want validation.

It isn't "morally uptight" to honor a commitment...or to respect another person's commitment.
Shame? You must really be triggered by this. I didn't mention shame.
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  1. 1.
    (of a person, action, or situation) make (someone) feel ashamed.
    "I tried to shame him into giving some away"
    synonyms: humiliate, mortify, make someone feel ashamed, chagrin, embarrass, abash, chasten, humble, put someone in their place, take down a peg or two, cut down to size, show up; More
 

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    (of a person, action, or situation) make (someone) feel ashamed.
    "I tried to shame him into giving some away"
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Yes, we all know the definition of shame. Showing the definition of the word doesn't mean I mentioned the word, nor does showing a quote of me explaining that honoring or respecting someone's commitment isn't a "morally uptight" act mean I'm shaming anyone. I was defending my previous comment against your personal attack.

Remember, you pointedly ("all ears") asked for reasons not to do this. You asked. I answered. I mentioned one word: "married", as a reason. It's completely valid to suggest not getting involved in 3rd party sexual fetishes with (or as) a married person. The fact that you've gone sideways, you've brought up shame, you've made it personal with name-calling and judging me and @Fade still doesn't change the fact that I simply presented a reason not to do this.

Your focus was on whether the underwear thing is creepy or not. I merely presented the other aspect of this arrangement. These things get discovered. It happens. And spouses have a way of not being very understanding. I sure wouldn't want to be in the middle of that, or have my fetish blow up someone's relationship. If you're okay with that, then you do you.

In the end, you asked for opinions. You received plenty of answers. The ones about the married thing triggered you. That is on you.

Two quotes from entertainment come to mind.
"The lady doth protest too much."
"If my answers frighten you, then you should cease asking scary questions."
 
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Hi guys - as the title says - how creeped out would you be by this? I know I would even be a little.

How would you go about asking or would you like to be asked so not to be a weird thing?

Completely no strings attached. The guy is married and I believe this is an innocent option. Just want a straight guys prespective on the notion.

We are not super close but working on that. He's a really cool guy.

how creeped out would you be by this? - 1) Totally creeped the fuck out times five
would you like to be asked so not to be a weird thing? - 2) No, creeped out and disgusted
The guy is married and I believe this is an innocent option. - 3) Why are you fucking with a married guy, what makes you think its "innocent". Borrowing a crescent wrench or my lawn mower are innocent asking me for something my cock and balls occupy is not.

You say completely no strings attached and in the next sentence you imply you are trying to get intimate or at least danger close.

The litmus test is you state you would even be creeped out a little.

Create a personal relationship with someone, then steal their underwear, wear it over your head or do whatever trips your trigger; but don't put an innocent bystander in such a fucked up position because of your fetish