Joking about the title. I'm about to have sex lol. I am about to have sex for the first time ever with my boy friend, now, the only problem is that his dick is 8.5 inches long and really thick. Even though i used a dildo once that was nowhere near the same size as his cock, my ass was too tight to fit it in. I used plenty of lube But it hurt a lot and i couldn't get it all the way in. I tried relaxing and stuff, But it didn't do much. How can i like make my ass more flexible in less than an hour lol.