Gay guys and women

[Shamrock]

I'm straight but one thing struck me the other day, do gay men ever
get curious about women? As in do you wonder what a vagina feels like?
This is of course a question for gay guys who have only been with guys.

 

[Rikter8]

I have never been with a woman, and Yes, I wonder what it would be like.
Mainly to start a family.

But it's not something that I think about daily or anything like that.

When I hear descriptions of it, it turns me off.
"Smells like tuna", tastes like fish...etc etc. uke:

But without the smells, I have thought about sex with a woman visually during intercourse, but nothing else is imagined beond the vagina. (My BI confusion)
Breasts do nothing for me. I could walk around a loccer room full of vuluptuous women, and not even get a semi. (So much for being Bi)

Im sure everyone, at one point in time or another has wondered what it would be like to have same sex intercourse.

Like you say that you are straight, but I'm sure at one point in time, you'll also wonder what it would be like to be with another man. (Highly recommend it)

It doesn't make you Gay or Bi, it just makes you more informed about who you are, and what you like.

Women don't see me as attractive, so I have no opportunities to try it out.
(Unless i'm driving around in my Trans Am, then they want to talk)
Quite honestly, if I DID get an offer...id be so nervous and wouldn't have a clue on how to begin.

C

 

[LuckyLuke]

Originally posted by Shamrock@Sep 9 2005, 04:29 PM
I'm straight but one thing struck me the other day, do gay men ever
get curious about women? As in do you wonder what a vagina feels like?
This is of course a question for gay guys who have only been with guys.

[post=341779]Quoted post[/post]​

My first 'intercourse' was with a girl. I've done it with three girls in total between ages of 15 and 21 and none since then, though I've had a couple of opportunities.

And being homosexual does not necessarily mean an aversion to female sex.

Actually, the 'sex' part with women doesn't bother me at all (other than that smell!!&#33. What it comes down to (for me anyway) is that I prefer the company and companionship of males - and prefer them sexually. In other words, my homosexuality is an attraction to male sex, not necessarily an aversion to female sex.

Indeed, the biggest reason I'd avoid an attractive woman's offer of sex these days is only because I'm afraid she won't leave when we're done with the dirty deed!

Just my two cents worth - I'm sure that there could be a huge range of responses to this question from homosexuals.

P.S. I refuse to acknowledge the term "gay" as it implies an "identity" that I reject. I am homosexual as that is a purely 'clinical term' to describe my sexual preference. It is not my identity.

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Nope.

 

[jonb]

Highly recommend it (crossing in either direction). I mean, just everything life has to offer.

 

[TallHungLB]

I've never had sex with a woman and I have no desire to at all. The most I've done with a woman was with my 'girlfriend' in high school. We were making out and for the first time I actually took her bra off. As I was getting the clasp undone I was thinking to myself that I wasn't interested in going any further. I had no desire what so ever. It was at that moment I realized that I truly was gay and it wasn't just a "phase."

 

[SR_Schlong_Dong_Silver]

I'm not sexually attracted to women in the least, but I've often wondered what it would be like, mainly because women are different from men in so many ways. That said, I have no sexual attraction at all, so all that will have to wait till my next time on this world before that happens.

From a gay point of view, I think what I find interesting is the experience of exploring and enjoying a body which is very diferent from my own, with breasts, hips, thighs, vagina, perhaps long hair. To some extent men's bodies are always charted territory because they're obviously so familiar to us. I suppose there would be more to learn with a woman.

On the down side, I've heard satisfying women is not always easy, whereas with 2 men there are very rarely problems. I think I'd worry about not being able to share the experience as fully as I can now.

 

[BobLeeSwagger]

Originally posted by Rikter8@Sep 9 2005, 10:23 AM
When I hear descriptions of it, it turns me off.
"Smells like tuna", tastes like fish...etc etc. uke:

I've never understood the fish smell comparisons. Not a single one has smelled like fish to me.

 

[cityboy]

I wondered about it once when I was 16, then I got over it. It's sort of like wondering if there's life on other planets. You think about it, but it's just something you read or see on TV. It's not something you wonder about actually doing...yuck.

 

[Latinoboy9]

Been with some just for their boyfriends sake but not really interested in them...I get hit on by them all the time but I blow them off...Jose'Latinoboy9

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

Kinda, but not really. It intrigues me when I see straight porn a bit and I would like to know what all the fuss is about but not really enough to make it happen.

Does that make sense?

 

[twodogs]

Originally posted by LuckyLuke@Sep 9 2005, 01:35 PM
(other than that smell!!&#33.

What smell would that be LuckyLuke?

Curious,
Twodogs

 

[VeeP]

Once in a great while a woman will come along who energizes my fractional 'straight side'. Even then I don't think 'hey, I wonder what it would be like to have sex with her'. More often than not it's the personality or a certain air about the woman that will pique my interest and I feel no sexual attraction. Men, on the other hand, are a source of constant mental hijinx. :evilgrin:

 

[dcwrestlefan]

cool question. but no, there is no desire there. i actually wish there was. i'd like to be a father, and experience something that so many other guys do. but its not likely to happen.

i could probably through thoughts of guys make sex happen. but the thought of oral sex with a female makes me gag...likely what straight guys think about having anal intercourse with another dude.

a 3 way with a couple is a possibility. he'd be my focus tho.

 

[txquis]

I've been with 5 women..and uh (cough cough) 5 times that amount of guys.

I know more gay guys online who *dont* like women...
in life, most of my gay friends know what a vagina feels like,
including me.

 

[loser_emo_kid]

wtf, you've been offered sex by attractive women? what alternate dimension do you guys live in? because here on my planet we have to work pretty hard for it

 

[collegeguy711]

I'm curious sometimes about sex with women.
I did have a girlfriend in highschool fora while,
and we tried, :shrug: but it just wasn't happening.
I think it might go a little better now if I try.
For me there's a few reasons why I haven't
really went to far with this little idea....

one) I wouldn't really know how to get a woman :dunce:
I dunno if "I'm gay would u like to try for a two point conversion"
is the best pick up line.

two) I'm really attracted to guys so if I'm gonna get with a girl...
she's gonna have to be hot. I can deal with a guy who might
be considered below par by most gay guy standards,
but there are few women who I look at and feel I could
be attracted to in some way. Gay guys don't choose the women
around them based only on looks, hence fag hags.
Most of us aren't gonna be getting with them.

three) Once I found a woman who I was kinda into,
and who was interested in, I wouldn't know what to do. :nopity:
Part of this is a personal issue, I'm a usually the bottom,
for the st8 guys, the catcher. I let the other guy take control
and he does all the work. I get kinda nervous
being in control with a guy, (I'm currently trying to work on that,
but that's another topic) but in st8 sex, that's kinda the whole point,
the man usually has to get in there and do most of the work.
I dunno if I can.

four) Also like someone else said, being a man
and being with men, I know what I like, so I do that
for other guys and usually they will like it.
We have the same equiptment. With women there's more
to figure out and you have to work harder to please them.
Some st8 guys work really hard and don't figure women out.

five)choosing to hop the fence so to speak is no small thing,
you're talking about a part of a person's
whole identity and being. Its scary. St8 guys on here
probably wouldn't just jump in gay sex without
considering it carefully.
Cause it could change everything.... what if u like it?
Does that make u gay? Or does that make u bi?
Its the same for me. Sex with a woman would be
a big deal for me not just fling or experiment.
It's alot of pressure, add that to the pressure of having to preform. :nopity:

So to answer your question, yes I as a gay man
have thought about sex with a woman, on many levels.
But as you can tell from all this, the st8 guys reading this
probably do not consider all this when they get with a woman.
It all comes natural to them. Some of the gay guys on here
have probably identify with some of the things I've said.
That's what makes us gay and y'all st8.
When I'm with a guy its natural. There's no thinking.
Everything just happens. Some people feel completely
confortable with men or women.

I don't hate women, I don't wanna be a woman, and
I'm not afraid of breasts or a vagina. I like women. :yourock:
In fact that might be part of the issue with gay guys.
I think some of us like women too much to sexualize them.
We love women too much on a platonic level, actresses,
singers, etc. (Hence all the diva gay icons.)
Part of me feels dirty having sexual thoughts about them.
I look at woman and think of equals or sisters, whereas I
can look at a man and see him on a purly sexual level
without a second thought. :loveya: The case is probably
visa versa with st8 guys. Again maybe part of what makes
us who we are and who we're into. Just my humble opinions. :dunce:

 

[madame_zora]

Collegeguy, that was a beautiful post!

Hey, if it ain't broke, don't fix it. Seems to me you know yourself pretty well. If you ever do decide to indulge any curiousity you may have, let her know about your concerns and suggest she take the lead. If you decide not to, I think you'll be happy enough being who you are.

 

[Geekyraccoon]

Originally posted by loser_emo_kid@Sep 11 2005, 02:35 AM
wtf, you've been offered sex by attractive women? what alternate dimension do you guys live in? because here on my planet we have to work pretty hard for it

[post=342215]Quoted post[/post]​

It's true. As a gay man, I've been offered everything from sex to surrogate motherhood, as well as a few (mostly joking) marriage offers. I would say a lot of it has to do with either the woman knowing that the offer will be refused and therefore meaningless, or just the fact that gay men are completely non-threatening to women. We don't give off whatever vibes you do.

But for myself, I guess I may have had a passing curiousity about it. I would expect more straight men to be curious about gay sex, if only because society teaches us to be straight, so if that's what we enjoy, we'll very likely find it. However, if we have homosexual tendancies, we might not realize them.

 

[Shamrock]

Interesting responses guys. I asked this because the mother of a mate of mine was recently asked by a gay guy to have sex because he was curious as to what a vagina felt like. Wondered how common it was.

One more thing, putting aside physical asthetics and going purely on sensation, which is better to you, vagina or butt?