I'm a single gay man with a healthy outlook on life I believe. I'm intelligent, friendly I have a decent sense of humor. I'm self aware and while admittedly i have a few quirks I rekon im a fairly decent catch. Whats my point? My point is i'm single. For some reason the only men i seem to attract are considerably older than me and while 5 or so years ago that would have been a boon at present i'm looking for some-one closer to my ade. The problem is the men my age all seem to be looking to date up Admittedly ill include myself in that, however while i do dream of dating mr gorgeous with with rock hard abs big arms and charming smile i'd be just as happy with with a guy who's around the same weight as me (89kg) kind eyes friendly smile and good sense of humour.... so where are they? It seems the majority of cute gay guys my age are either all ready in a relationship or looking to for some-one better. So just out of curiosity...... do you know any gay guys who you think are dating up? are you lucky enough to be one of those guys dating up? are there any gay body fanatics that see past the physical and date a person based on their personality? and how many gay men between 25-35 are with some-one that's on roughly the same level as you physically and psychologically?