Gay guys - does a large penis matter to you?

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  1. teddy03

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    To the gay guys out there, does a large penis actually matter all that much to you? Would you reject a guy if he had a small penis?

    Personally the size of a penis doesn't matter for me. And if I really had feelings for the guy, it personally wouldn't matter if he had the tiniest dick ever.

    Is this an unusual view, or is it something really common and the whole thing about "wanting a giant cock" is just a stereotype?

    Thanks for any insight :smile:
     
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    Id say it depends on what you're looking for. If you're an experienced bottom, and anal sex is very important to you, you might reasonably be seeking only well-hung guys. But if you're a top, or if you mainly are into head, the guy's dick size won't matter much, if at all.
    And if you're not talking about hooking up, but pursuing a real relationship, only a moron would elevate cock size above personality and compatibility. Cuz all non-morons know sexual passion doesn't last forever.
     
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    Anything smaller than 6" and i wouldn't be keen, 7" seems beautiful and anything bigger would be just too intimidating.
     
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    Bravo.
     
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    I prefer 5.5 - 6.5. I could never see myself with anyone thats huge. It seems painful and I am not about to stretch out this beautifully crafted hole.
     
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    Umm...to me what matters most is a Big heart, Big ideas, nice manners, intellegence, sincerety and a sense of humor. If you go out with someone who has none of these qualites, you are just going out with a big dick!
     
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    Couldnt agree more with you nudeyorker :)
     
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    I've yet to find any correlation between loving a man and the size of his dick.
     
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    im 95% top but i get off on a bottom with a big one, just incase its time to flip or whatever :)
     
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    YES cock size matters!

    i'd have to say, for myself at least, that girth is the most important. If I had to pick between a 8" thin dick or a 6" fat cock I'll take the short stubby one... i like meaty cocks.
     
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    Honestly, initially it does, but it becomes less and less important as I get to know the PERSON and learn of all the other assets they have (personality, compassion, kindness, humor, etc).

    When you first meet them, at least to me, they have nothing else going for them that you KNOW of. Education comes with time, and often you dont get the time to learn about their other Qualities. So if they have a big dick, have your fun and move on, if it cums down to that.
     
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    Based on what you wrote, I think then that what you don't want is someone exceptionally thick. But someone with a long dick isn't necessarily any thicker than a regular length one, so 6, 7, 8, etc. isn't going to "stretch your hole" any differently.
     
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    as anyone who has read my contributions to this site knows, i loooove a nice big dick and seek them out. that said, three of my four longest relationships were with men with very average to small cocks.

    i'm going to admit something: a really small penis was a big reason i didn't pursue a relationship with the most remarkable man in my life. to be fair to me, there were other extenuating circumstances:

    - pursuing the relationship would have required a move to a country where i didn't speak the language;
    - we had a lovely, romantic courtship but little actual time together to see how truly compatible we were;
    - he wanted to have 5 kids (reality: he has none today)
    - he insisted on complete monogamy (reality: he & his partner of 12+ years have an open relationship).

    all that said, life with him would have been an amazing ride. the main reason i didn't go for it: he would have insisted i go for it THROUGHOUT life, and i was scared of making the commitment to being truly happy. sad eh?
     
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    Generally, i find i'm anything but a 'size queen.' As some say, more than a mouthful's a waste! lol i like sucking guys with small cocks, actually. Even if it's so small i can get his cock and his nuts in my mouth at the same time :biggrin1: as for fuking, I've never had good luck or experiences with well-hung guys, so small or relatively small is okay there as well. Jacking a large or long cock is cool :wink:


     
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    This is an interesting and, at the same time, difficult question to answer. For me, anyway. The big dick (anything 8" and over) I absolutely love, but the fact is that most aren't in that range at all. My best relationships (with one notable exception) have been with 'average' 6" and that's been great, because of all the other things that went intro the relationship. But it's strange the fascination the big cock has, and - if that weren't the case - why is the LARGE Penis SG so popular? And another question is: WHY are most men intrigued by the big cock (rare as they may be) and dream of being thus endowed. Many have said that I have a 'big one', but that's not much consolation, as my idea of 'big' is 9" - plus. Am I odd, or are most of us never satisfied??
     
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    No, doesn't matter. Personality and everything is much much more important.
     
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    Nope, size doesn't matter. Personality, sexiness, etc matter. If I had to choose, I'd choose a smaller one actually. I just like the proportions and look of a smaller one, and I like the way they feel in my hand (and mouth!) But I can't imagine making a decision about a person based on his size. If the everything else works (personality, sexual attraction) whatever he has is fine.
     
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    Maybe in fantasy I am intrigued by large dicks. In reality it is unimportant to me. Aesthetically, it is the balanced proportions and attractive shape of the penis that holds more attraction.
     
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    I'm kind of with you SKYRAY. In my fantasies, and when I look at porn, I seem to get turned on by a sort-of-big dick (7"+)...but in real life, I just like anyone who I find physically attractive (face/body). Dick isn't that important...as long as it's not sort of ugly!

    Then, I have to actually start to like the personality pretty quick or I lose interest immediately, no matter the face/body/dick.
     
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    Call me shallow, but I kinda like BIG DICKS!
     
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