gay guys - I've had a few, but not a ton, of relationships now and viewing others and my own it seems like monogamy is impossible - ESPECIALLY (and ironically) if you have hope of permanence to the relationship. (and esp when a big dick is involved). Monogamy, seems possible - but seems like it would be too risky as it can tear your relationship up with lies and sketch. it just seems the successful ones are open to an extent - where the two avoid jealousy as much as possible. it just seems that monogamy at a young age - I am 26 - leads to infidelity or just an obsession with thinking about it. what do you guys think.