GAY GUYS ONLY - what's average?

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I don't think the 1% number for 7" is correct. Average of what I've seen over the years has been about 5.5-6". I tend to remember the bigger ones more vividly, but I also have to be careful to think about only those I've actually seen in person, versus anything I've seen in online porn as porn is always curated for larger so it's not reality.

I still think it's very much a bell curve with the high point being about 5.5 and curve steeply descending about 6.5-7 and trailing off into rarity for anything more than 7.
 
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Studies say average is 5.1 inches, but studies also say gays are on average bigger than straight men. I think gay is 5.5 inches
 
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Also, most guys overestimate the size of penises they see in person due to the fact that many guys add an extra inch to their measurement in their profile.

I am 7in when measured properly, and most guys say that it it has to be 8 or more when they see it.

Even I am prone to this mistake. There was one guy who was bigger than me who I though had to be 8.5", but he let me measure it, and it was less than 8in.
 

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I think men overestimate penis size because porn actors are constantly promoting their cocks as being an inch or more bigger than what they actually are.

Most porn actor replica dildoes are scaled up. That's why you rarely ever see the two side by side.
 

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I’ve slept with my fair share. And we’re all roughly in the 6 range. A few have been bigger and some smaller. I haven’t had a bad time with any of the less than average size guys. A few of the dudes with bigger than average dicks were selfish pricks in bed and terrible at most everything and not interested in doing anything but being worshipped. Given the choice , I’ll take average to below average every time
 
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Most men believe that the average length of an erect penis is greater than 6 inches (15.24 cm). This belief is due, in part, to several often-cited studies that relied on self-reported measurements, with means of about 6.2 inches (15.75 cm) for heterosexual men and even greater for gay men. These studies suffered from both volunteer bias and social desirability bias. In this review, the combined mean for 10 studies in which researchers took measurements of erect penises was 5.36 inches (13.61 cm; n = 1,629). For 21 studies in which researchers measured stretched penises, the mean was approximately 5.11 inches (12.98 cm; n = 13,719). Based on these studies, the average length of an erect penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches (12.95-13.97 cm), but after taking volunteer bias into account, it is probably toward the lower end of this range.

Average-Size Erect Penis: Fiction, Fact, and the Need for Counseling - PubMed
 

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I definitely think average properly measured penises are between 5.5-6 inches, but looking at other peoples dicks subjectively after measuring your own doesn’t lead to a very good estimate, so I always think I was higher. But my boyfriend is bigger than almost all of the people I’ve seen/been with and he’s only 7.5-8 and there’s definitely a jump to the person who’s next biggest. So I do think it’s 5.5-6 and we’re all just inconsolable
 

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I have NEVER sought out hung men, but out of the twenty dicks I’ve been with the average was definitely in the six range rather than the five. I actually just calculate roughly the average and it was 6.09 exactly. I also have to consider the many micropenisis/tiny dicks I didn’t happen to encounter that would drastically lower the average. Let’s say I met one micropenis, or a really small guy, the average would probably be closer to 5.5. Also the mean here is more important than the average IMO.

Regardless someone reading this most likely has an average dick and that’s something to consider if you have negative feelings about being small. I can’t tell the difference of five and six in my ass or mouth LOL. Food for thought

a seven inch dick isn’t common, six inch dicks are common though in my experience. I feel like on Grindr coming across a hung guy isn’t too uncommon, so my survey is probably inflated…
 
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My boyfriend is just under 6” and he can make me cum hands free. Yet I’ve been with guys who are 8” plus and it was uncomfortable or I struggled to cum. Most guys are average, end of.
 

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The vast majority I've seen are about 5 - 6 inches long. Less than 5 inches is on the smaller end and greater than 6 is on the larger.

So when I see a guy I can tell without using a ruler if he's small, medium or large.
 
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I have been with about 300 guys. . And the vast majority of them were around 6 inches. Some a little bigger, some a little smaller. . And of course, out of all those guys, I can remember one being about 8 inches. . I also went out with two tall guys, both being over 6 foot 4. . Tall skinny guys. Both had about 4 inches hard. oh, and there was this one guy who had a micro penis. I remember it because I had never seen a small penis like that before. Guys kept saying I had a big dick. And it didn't click with me until I was older. I am around 7 inches hard. And I didn't see that as being big, probably because porn gives us a unrealistic view of what a big dick is.
 

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I don't think we gave OP the answer he was hoping for :p

Honestly it's refreshing getting realistic answers here. I was expecting at least one guy saying 7 is the minimum average or that they are common or something