Gay Guys: Pitty Fucks?

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How many of you after a super hot fuck with a really hot guy (with a big cock) have felt like it was more of a pitty fuck after?

This is probably more geared towards guys who bottom since I really doubt that a super hot guy would let a not super hot guy fuck them.

I mean my body isn't bad, but its defiantly not model or porn material, and sorta feel like I've had a pitty fuck or two in the past.

How do you get over the feeling? Or do you just chalk it up and be like it was a good time and not think more into it?
 

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You send the karma out into the world. Back in the 70s or 80s when I'd go to a bath house, my first encounter would always be with someone who I perceived to have been rejected by the "hot" guys with attitude. I always made certain our sex hot and that my partner totally enjoyed every moment we were together.

When we were finished, I'd head for the showers and for the rest of the night play with total abandon.

Everyone enjoys good sex and a friend of mine always said, there is something sexy about every person on earth, it's our job to find it.
 

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i think it happens all the time. i've done stuff to a guy that i wasn't too attracted to and didn't really feel comfortable doing (mostly straight) just because he sucked my dick for about an hour and swallowed all my nutt. i felt he deserved something after that.

pity fucks with women are a little different. i guess this can be when a guy fucks a fat girl. in high school, i made out with a fat girl once because her personality was really cool and she would drive me everywhere.

sometimes it's not good to do this for the better looking person because then you're risking "fatal attraction" type behavior from the other person.
 

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Well, yes and no... That is, I don't know if I've felt anything that extreme, but I have felt something along the lines of, "Wow, this guy is way too hot for me/out of my league, and I can't believe I scored this." During I did think, "Is he working to get through this? No, he seems to really be enjoying himself." Sometimes you just really luck out I guess. :wink:

Just a note, before someone else gives ya grief:
pity = feeling of sorrow, etc.
pitty = laden with pits? :tongue:
 

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Just tell the guy that if this gonna happen then u got tops fist or this aint gonna happen but if he aint gay and he is a greek god then dont pass up the offer and just go 4 it, suck his dick while ur at it. Great pics anf-studd and I'd have 2 say da guy dat sucked ur dick was really lucky to swallow ur nutt, nice dick
 
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Well, yes and no... That is, I don't know if I've felt anything that extreme, but I have felt something along the lines of, "Wow, this guy is way too hot for me/out of my league, and I can't believe I scored this." During I did think, "Is he working to get through this? No, he seems to really be enjoying himself." Sometimes you just really luck out I guess. :wink:

Just a note, before someone else gives ya grief:
pity = feeling of sorrow, etc.
pitty = laden with pits? :tongue:

The guy did seem to enjoy it, I mean it lasted a really long time and we did it every which way, I mean at the time it didn't feel like a pity fuck, it was a really hot time for both of us, least that was my impression, I guess only time will tell, if there is a repeat session at some point in the future.

Thanks for the grammar correction, since some of these guys can go crazy on things like that at times.
 

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Don't think of them a pitty-fucks; think of them as right-time-right-place fucks.

I wasn't really, I was just curious on you guy's opinions on the topic.

Do like your right-time-right-place fuck saying, I have gotten smarter, Now I"m always sure to have condoms and lube with me if theres any chance of sex at all, as once I missed out what could have been super hot sex with a vers guy we so would have done each other multiple times, but he didn't have any condoms and I'd forgotten mine, I mentioned going to get some, but by that point we might have been out of the notion and it was getting late.
 

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A long time female acquaintance who lived with me off and on as a "room mate" when she was going through lean times came into my bedroom one morning. I'd brought home an old friend I'd known in Ewetaw who, unquestionably, was very scenic. We'd met at the tubs and stayed glued to one another into the wee hours so long that it was obvious we'd be happier at home in my bed and continue with an excessive brunch later.

What threw me for a curve, is my female friend later questioned me about the guy I had brought home and didn't bother telling me that he was far too handsome for me and who did I think I was kidding? This was a new experience; being told by someone I had no physical or sexual interest in telling me how I rated on her scale of attractiveness.

I've never thought of myself as a great ethereal male beauty, but I'd never considered myself unworthy of enjoying the company of the many good-looking men, (and there have been hundreds of them), with whom I've had the pleasure of getting down, dirty, and out right nasty. That same old friend from Ewetaw, who really was visually stunning, always called ahead letting me know he'd be in town whenever he visited San Francisco and made sure I cleared enough room on my dance card for him. We had a couple of strong suits in common: he was a major pig bottom and I was a major pig!

As for worrying about whether or not my female acquaintance might be privy to something about my physical appearance that I might not be aware, I quickly got over the initial shock. She had always been considered a "great beauty" for her time and fucked a good number of flabby middle-age wealthy men to keep her in the style to which she wanted to remain accostomed. It seems that during most of the 20th Century a man had to trade his physical health and good looks and become out-of-shape and old before his time to become successful in the board room. I hope that has changed.

I still don't regard myself as a gracefully aging Cary Grant. But I do OK. I learned a long time ago not to over analyze why The Squeeze fell in love with me. He's turning into a major head turner as his thick head of black hair lightens to silver gray at his temples and he has an obvious curled forelock of silver white hair sprouting at the front of his hairline now that he's given up diligently plucking all of those particular hairs out every day. In comparison, I'm somewhat invisible. I'm a taller, muscular and definitely more rested looking version of a slightly younger Anthony Hopkins. Of course, I do have my mornings when I wake up and definitely see an off putting Hannibal Lector staring back at me in the mirror. But not once have I ever considered "playing doctor" with The Squeeze as an act of pity on his part.
 

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What threw me for a curve, is my female friend later questioned me about the guy I had brought home and didn't bother telling me that he was far too handsome for me and who did I think I was kidding? This was a new experience; being told by someone I had no physical or sexual interest in telling me how I rated on her scale of attractiveness.
I hope you told her that she was a bitch and that she get the fuck out of your house and never come back. :mad:

As for myself, I have had sex with quite a number of men who I would have thought were out of my league. And you know what? I don't worry about it. If I'm getting sex with an incredibly hot guy, I don't second guess it or worry about why it's happening. I just enjoy the fact that it is happening. I guess I'm just shallow that way.
 

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Guys:
How many of you after a super hot fuck with a really hot guy (with a big cock) have felt like it was more of a pitty fuck after?

This is probably more geared towards guys who bottom since I really doubt that a super hot guy would let a not super hot guy fuck them.

I mean my body isn't bad, but its defiantly not model or porn material, and sorta feel like I've had a pitty fuck or two in the past.

How do you get over the feeling? Or do you just chalk it up and be like it was a good time and not think more into it?


Well at least you are getting pity fucks. Some people WOULD like a pity fuck from a hot guy sometime, y' know. :frown1: But those beyotches want a credit report, a work history, a medical screen, a psychological profile, and a full history of who I slept with in the past year. :frown1::mad::frown1::mad:
 

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Go for it. My current BF is a good looking, extremely well-endowed, muscular guy. When we first had sex, I thought it was a pity fuck. However, it turns out that he is very turned on by older, overweight, bald guys. So it wasn't a pity fuck. No one will be able to maintain an erection and have sex with you if he does not feel some attraction on some level. I have decided that there are no pity fucks--just good fucks, better fucks, and great fucks.
 

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im sure its happened to us all and ive given them a few times...get me horny enough and i dont really care...lol shame

Nash, you can fuck me anytime... long as I get to fuck u back...

we could even wear our speedos to start for foreplay.. that would be fucking hot..