I went to a gay club the other night for the first time. I went with my sister because she is a lesbian and she wanted me to go with her. I'm not gay, but I went for her. Anyhow, one of the gay guys who knew I was straight said, "don't take this the wrong way, but I think you're really cute". I told him I took it as a complement. I asked him if he thought I should be able to get a lot of girls, and he said "just go get them". My question is whether or not gay guys and women tend to think along the same lines. Should I really be flattered by his complement or do gay guys just say that about everybody when they're at clubs?