Gay Guys, Want Kids?

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If you'd prefer to have a lifestyle which isn't monogamous, you needn't have settled for one in order to raise a happy familiy. In fact, your dissatisfaction puts your family's security at risk daily. Good job.

Whatever. I am sure most regular guys would like to be banging strange beaver. You are blowing my statement out of proportion. With your logic, if he is only 70/30 then he would be hurting his "husband" by 30% - Unless, 9 days a month he can screw women.
 

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No thanks. We love kids especially our nieces and nephews. We are too selfish. We love the life that we have and wouldn't want to change it. If you have kids then you make sacrificies of your own needs and put those of the kids first. We aren't prepared to do that.


Dave, I agree with your post 100%. I think it is especially true for gays, but not limited to them. I know many straight single people that cannot find the right mate and for many of them it is the reason you state above. It is also the reason that some married couples do not have children.
 

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Dave, I agree with your post 100%. I think it is especially true for gays, but not limited to them. I know many straight single people that cannot find the right mate and for many of them it is the reason you state above. It is also the reason that some married couples do not have children.

At the risk of going slightly off topic I just wish that more folks would consider their reasons for doing so and the changes necessary in their lives before having kids. It saddens and maddens me to see couples have kids because it is "expected of them" and then carry on their living their lives as they did before they had them. Lecture over and apologies.
 

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Whatever. I am sure most regular guys would like to be banging strange beaver. You are blowing my statement out of proportion. With your logic, if he is only 70/30 then he would be hurting his "husband" by 30% - Unless, 9 days a month he can screw women.

Are you crazy? There is a difference between a preference and an attraction. That difference is astronomical. It is you who is distorting my statements, and not I distorting yours, as far as I can tell. Did you not say you would prefer a more hedonistic lifestyle, or were you merely stating that a more hedonistic lifestyle was attractive to you?
 

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Are you crazy? There is a difference between a preference and an attraction. That difference is astronomical. It is you who is distorting my statements, and not I distorting yours, as far as I can tell. Did you not say you would prefer a more hedonistic lifestyle, or were you merely stating that a more hedonistic lifestyle was attractive to you?

What? :confused:
 

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Whatever. I am sure most regular guys would like to be banging strange beaver. You are blowing my statement out of proportion. With your logic, if he is only 70/30 then he would be hurting his "husband" by 30% - Unless, 9 days a month he can screw women.

"All4show" are you really saying that being gay is 100% choice and that if we want kids we should just flip a switch and go get some "beaver"? I am going too assume that you are just trying to bother people and move on...

*me hitting you over the head with the sarcasm hammer...*

Heh, thank you DC :smile:

(or maybe it is you and I that needs to be hit with the "sarcasm hammer")
 

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When Findy and I found LPSGU, we're not going to let you teach Biology. :mad:

However, there may be an opening for a gymnastics coach. I bet you plan to teach ol' Findy some new positions!:tongue:

Can I teach Psychology too?

Tell me HM, what positions shall we be "demonstrating?"
 

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LOL One of these days we have to make time to have a chit-chat. You're a riot.:biggrin1:

Oh we must! I was thinking I about texting you just before I noticed you were online :biggrin1:

Someday while I'm riding the bus on one of my adventures I'll give you a ring :smile: