gay guys... what is the smallest size guy you would date long term?

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Long term size? Not important at all. I like big cocks, but there's nothing wrong with small ones, on the contrary. So let's say some 4 to 5 inches.
 

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It's honestly not a big deal to me, but then in the interest of full disclosure, I'm pretty much a confirmed top. I'm interested in other qualities, e.g., what kind of a person is he, does he get my motor running, do we have fun together, are we a "good fit", etc. Compatability trumps everything else, sexually or otherwise. That being said, I can't abide a really ugly dick regardless of size, but small and pretty, no problem. Besides, if he feels lacking I have enough to go around, and I'm happy to share. :biggrin2:

Jeez! Where are more guys like you?!

There was one guy that I dated for a while before we ever slept together and we decided to go on a trip to Ft. Lauderdale. And this "taking it slow stuff" was all new to me, but I was going at his pace as he was a bit younger. I couldn't believe it! He was quite a bit bigger than I was physically body-wise, but I'm serious--his dick was smaller than my index finger and the girth had to have been less than 2". I was amazed and very disappointed, but it was okay. I really liked him so for the first time in my life, and I was 25, I became a top. It was fun!

After that I went back to being a bottom as I like that better, but good to know that I can top in a pinch if necessary.
 
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As someone else has stated; I am exclusively a top so the size of someone's dick does not mean anything to me. They have to be big on the inside; meaning intelligence, heart and soul and the ability to see someone beyond the size of their dick.
I have in the past sometimes become so objectified by people I have slept with that all they could focus on was my size and everything else that I could possibly bring to a relationship seemed insignificant to them so I moved on.
 

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If the guy is a turn on, I don't really care being that I'm a top.
However I have hooked up with one guy that was ridiculously small
and couldn't get hard. It was so crazy. I couldn't perform because if it.
It looked like a worm. :(
 

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i used to hang with a guy who was maybe 4 inche's erect..short guy wrestler build, I was disapointed the 1st time i saw him nude..but my god he was one of the best fucks I ever had...he fucked like a piston just none stop always hit my sweet spot just right..he's married now wish he still available
 

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at least 7.5 so he's the same size/bigger then me and i prefer cut.

No curves is also preferential. Shape is an important element too.
 

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I know this is hypocritical but anything smaller than 6", really doesn't turn me on. As a bottom, there is nothing sexier than a man with a big cock taking control sexually. I love being dominated by an aggressive, confident man with a nice tool.

As a side-note to Thickpup: my little one gets very hard and shoots really big loads;)
 

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I know this is hypocritical but anything smaller than 6", really doesn't turn me on. As a bottom, there is nothing sexier than a man with a big cock taking control sexually. I love being dominated by an aggressive, confident man with a nice tool.

Agreed...plus it has to be long enough to slide in and out nicely, and a short one just won't do that.
 

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No shorter than 6.5" and no thinner than about 5.5" around. I CANNOT give a satisfying-for-me handjob to a guy smaller than that. As for anal, who cares? Not my cup of tea - I'd rather frot.
 

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So true don't reject the little guys! I had a bud in college who was about the same size. Honestly I am not sure he was 4" probably more like 3.75" erect. His dick was about the same size as my thumb. He was an amazing fuck though. His dick was so small it slipped right in, he had great stamina, and he hit my p-spot just right to send me over the edge every time. :biggrin1:

He was also an awesome dude, and even though he had a small endowment I thought he was hot.


i used to hang with a guy who was maybe 4 inche's erect..short guy wrestler build, I was disapointed the 1st time i saw him nude..but my god he was one of the best fucks I ever had...he fucked like a piston just none stop always hit my sweet spot just right..he's married now wish he still available
 
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I don't even worry about a guys size when I'm thinking of long term relationships. He could be hung 8+ inches and be a total ass. I would rather have an sweet sensible guy who's average or smaller if the case be it than deal with an asshole.
 

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For me it's a whole package, just because you have a big cock doesn't mean I want you. I'll turn ur ass down if ur face is busted. or if I'm not into your body. sorry.... also, if you can't hold a conversation... well that ends it no matter what.

But I've dated a guy who was literally about 3 inches. and I've dated a PR who was 12.5. They were two of the worst BF's I've EVER had. my two best were 5inches and skinny and 8 inches and thick. :)

I need to be into you physically, clothes ON, then shirt off, then pants off. Then if you can keep up with me, we can date.
 
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Years ago, I met a guy in Minnesota on a business-related trip. He was one of those guys who knew everyone and got nearly anything he wanted because he was such a cool person. He was from Connecticut, and on business himself in MN, but he still connected with people in the nearby coffee shop, restuarants, his hotel...it was actually fun to be with him just to see this guy at work.

He had a great body, great face, and a tiny dick..I'd guess 3-4 inches hard, and pretty thin. Mine looked huge next to his, and he took every chance to pull mine out to play with it. He was the last guy, in fact, to suck my dick.

He went back home to CT, and I went back home to NC. We stayed in touch for a while, but it became clear that we would likely never see each other again. If we lived closer to each other...more might have happened...but the fact that his dick was unusually small had little to do with it.
 

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When it comes to long term, I can think of a million other things that are more important than the size of the cock. If I really like the person, I can easily get over that.

In terms of casual sex/FWB? Cock size might come more into play, but I've not yet experience a guy who was just "too small" for me. I like to think I'm not THAT shallow.