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But you are not gay. Maybe that's the reason.I've been with a guy for 4 years and I miss being with a woman often.
Lol. I am pretty much just as you described. I identify as gay and I am. There is a very narrow margin of straight in me, which if doubted by anyone I don't have to worry about explaining it.. just saying! I don't pursue women but I have been married and sometimes know I could again eat and fuck a beautiful pussy again and enjoy sucking some beautiful huge tits. I get hard at times looking at them in porn but only ever seek men.
Sexuality never stops amazing me, regardless of whose sexuality it is.
You can obviously identify how you want and I understand it, identifying as "gay" in your case is easier than saying "mostly gay" or something similar but your attraction to women, however mild, means you're not exclusively homosexual. For me when I say I'm "gay" it means exclusively homo, no attraction at all to women. If the thought of sucking big tits or fucking pussy makes you hard, ever, why do you consider yourself gay?
I think it's a mistake to say someone identifies the way they want. People don't really have a choice if they're completely honest. People often round up or round down on sexuality for convenience sake. If a guy is 70% straight he probably wouldn't want to tell the general public he's bisexual because he doesn't identify that way. If I was 10% straight I would still round up to gay.
Some gay men like pussy, but couldn't be in a relationship with a woman.
The very fact that they like pussy means they're not "gay" as I understand it. I really, truly do not understand this. I understand in terms of identification in social situations IRL but I don't understand how OP or any person physically attracted to both sexes doesn't acknowledge to himself that he's neither "straight" nor "gay". Maybe it's because I'm full on gay that I can't understand the mindset or thought process and can't imagine not referring to myself as bi if I was attracted to both sexes.
Honey, you could douche that thing 3x a day, everyday, and it would still reek of fish.
You obviously don't know a good clean women. I go down on my wife all the time nothing but beautiful pink pussy smells and taste great. It's all about hygiene!
Most women cannot smell themselves.
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Perhaps we're talking about someone who loves pussy in the mind,,,but rarely seeks it in real life...or simply doesn't want it.
Human sexuality is very, very complicated. Each person has a unique sexuality, despite similarities among different "set" orientations.
Or maybe doesn't want to play all of the head games or pay for all of the expensive shit (i.e. nice dinners out, expensive jewelry, etc., etc.) that it often takes to get pussy on a regular basis. Or doesn't get want to stuck paying child support for 18 years because the condom broke or she forgot to take the birth control pills that she insisted she was on. LOL
I'm about 5% to 10% straight and round up to gay because it's more convenient and also because it's more accurate. Bi denotes a more even attraction to both sexes than I actually feel. I may toss off to pussy in porn but I'm not motivated to pursue straight sex - real life sex and relationships are with men. If you want to label that bi, that's fine, but I think it would be less true than to call me gay. I guess each of us is appropriating the term that we feel closest to and that best describes us, so I can understand why a 100% gold star super homo might not want to share the gay label.I think it's a mistake to say someone identifies the way they want. People don't really have a choice if they're completely honest. People often round up or round down on sexuality for convenience sake. If a guy is 70% straight he probably wouldn't want to tell the general public he's bisexual because he doesn't identify that way. If I was 10% straight I would still round up to gay.
I'm gays. Never have been interested in Pussy an never will be. I've never been attracted to women and have no arousal by any parts of their anatomy.
Do you still identify as gay?I am an identified gay man in a long-term (16 year) relationship and a 10 year before that. I have never been attracted to women, but there was an episode in my 20s when I offered to go down on a female co-worker and she accepted. Since that time, I became fascinated with big clitorises, and developed a fetish for that. Which led me to discovering "Buck Angel" and hairy, masculine ftm transmen, and developing a fetish for them, wanting to eat their original (female) plumbing. I have been with several trans men (with front holes) and loved it. I could never get enough of this type of pussy, so I became a "pussy starved" gay man, which then morphed into wanting to give oral sex to women. My sexuality has been an adventure, and I love that I'm not needing to label it. I am a gay man and I absolutely can't eat pussy enough. Not try'na figure it out.