Gay guys who like pussy.

[Trip070]

Interesting topic. And a good place for my first post. I have a great (male) partner with an open relationship, at least with other guys. But I like pussy all the same. I've never been in a serious relationship with a female, but there is something naturally boner-inducing about pussy. Rare that I play on that side but it is so amazing when it happens

So, call me a gay guy who loves pussy. Oh, I'm also generally a bottom with men, mainly because I like fucking pussy so much more than fucking butt.

 

[B_IanTheTall]

Gay guys who like pussy are known as BI.

 

[schwulboy1989]

Gay guys who like pussy are known as BI.

I think sexuality is more complex than that.

I think it's also important to separate the idea of sexuality, which is about sexual attraction, and "sexuality" which typically refers more to romantic interests.

I'm not arguing that you're wrong. I'm arguing that these polarised labels are starting to become irrelevant. I like the idea of percentages rather than categories.

 

[miskawayh]

I feel the same way. I would love to talk to you more about this.

 

[pinkpineapples]

its annoying how people get so tied up on labeling something. You can see how its become a 6 page problem lol. We like who we like, we love who we love and we fuck who we fuck. Who cares about calling it something? ..Sigh..

God forbid someone express interest in trying something w/ the same sex, !!!!!GAY!!!!!, look out, there's that word. World Implodes. Nope, you can't be straight anymore. You kissed a boy/girl and you liked it. Oh no. Rawr. S-t-u-p-i-d

Rant Over.

 

[maxcok]

Back to the OP . . . taking the people, the personalities, the genders, and the orientations out of the equation . . . . from a purely detached experiential sensory perspective there are reasons why cocks and pussies are designed the way they are, fit together, and feel the way they do. ;-)

 

[Pierced1953]

I knew a gay guy that loved to eat pussy/ass but didn't want to fuck one. He espically loved the cream pies. I even know a str8 guy that only likes blow jobs and thinks pussy is nasty.

Talk to him and get it off your chest, then move on.

 

[BIGBULL29]

I knew a gay guy that loved to eat pussy/ass but didn't want to fuck one. He espically loved the cream pies. I even know a str8 guy that only likes blow jobs and thinks pussy is nasty.

Talk to him and get it off your chest, then move on.

The line between gay and straight isn't always that clear. And ssociety acts as it the gay/straight separation is so great -- it's not!

What really plays with heterosexual men's heads are those men who jack off to both lesbian and gay porn.:biggrin1:

 

[B_Bjen2848]

of course this is a biased opinion being that i am straight but fuck it i'll say it anyway

idk how anyone can look at another mans hairy, dry, smelly asshole and think "oh yeah i wanna stick my cock/mouth/anything in that!" lol

 

[BayAreaGuy]

everyone likes pussy
E V E R Y O N E

That's one of the dumbest thing I've ever read. And it's incredibly self-centered. You need to learn the difference between "I like it" and "It's good." You probably buy people gifts that YOU like, instead of what THEY like.

I don't like pussy. In fact, I find them disgusting. The same way that many (perhaps most) straight men find other guys' cocks disgusting. It's just the way some of us are wired.

There's a good deal of research on what attracts people to each other, and it shows a very strong biological basis. Rikowski and Grammer (1999) did an interesting study in which they showed that heterosexual men and women have a strong preference for opposite-sex body scent (in a blind study, where they didn't know who had worn the tee shirts they were smelling). Homosexual men and women have shown the same type of preference for same-sex body scent in other studies.

So, no...E V E R Y O N E does NOT like pussy.

Rikowski, A. & Grammer, K. (1999) Human body odour, symmetry and attractiveness. Proceedings of the Royal Society B-Biological Sciences, 266, 869-874.

 

[BayAreaGuy]

You guys seem to me very confused about sex. Let me try to enlighten you a bit.

First of all, you can CALL yourself whatever you want. Gay, Bisexual, Straight, or anything else (I recently heard the amusing term "heteroflexible"!). However you choose to identify is a matter of personal choice, not a matter of legal, social, or clinical/medical terminology. So trying to tell someone else "Hey, if you do/think/desire that, then you're gay/straight/bi/etc." is ridiculous.

Another thing being tossed around in this discussion with no apparent understanding is that there's a difference between a Sexual Orientation and a fetish. Fetishes create desires for sexual behavior that is unrelated to the person or persons involved. For instance, many men love breasts, but someone with a fetish for breasts enjoys them to a much stronger degree, and to the almost total exclusion of the woman who "owns" them. In fact, if it were possible, he'd prefer that she wasn't even there; of course, she must be, so he tolerates it. Some men with breast fetishes even hire prostitutes and instruct them to be silent, to not move, and to simply lay or stand there as they please themselves with the breasts in various ways.

The same can be said for a functionally and self-described gay/homosexual man who has a fetish for pussy. He may have formed this fetish in any number of ways, but in the cases that have been described in the scientific literature, the man usually reports that he thinks of other men's penises entering the vagina in question, and/or imagines that this may happen in the future. This allows him to have a homosexual experience with the imagined male, using the body of the woman. Other men also report that they simply have a fetish for the unique feeling of a putting their tongue or penis into a vagina, but do not think of this as sex with the woman who "owns" the vagina.

Similarly (and more commonly) gay men have reported fetishes for breasts, buttocks, feet, and other female body parts, all the while insisting that they are homosexual in every other way.

Nature has provided us with incredible diversity in our sexuality, both within a single person, across the lifespan, and across our species. Frantically applying strict labels and the subsequent judgments that often come with them, is a waste of time.

 

[B_Bjen2848]

I don't like pussy. In fact, I find them disgusting. So, no...E V E R Y O N E does NOT like pussy.

Rikowski, A. &The same way that many (perhaps most) straight men find other guys' cocks disgusting.

just wondering, always wanted to ask a gay guy who thought vaginas were "disgusting" .. what is it that makes you so turned off by them? (besides the obvious that you're gay) and im not sure us straight guys think of dicks as disgusting (unless they are some form of sexuality that literally hates themselves ... self-loathasexual?) just never been attracted to others

 

[D_Timmy Toelicker]

You guys seem to me very confused about sex. Let me try to enlighten you a bit.

First of all, you can CALL yourself whatever you want. Gay, Bisexual, Straight, or anything else (I recently heard the amusing term "heteroflexible"!). However you choose to identify is a matter of personal choice, not a matter of legal, social, or clinical/medical terminology. So trying to tell someone else "Hey, if you do/think/desire that, then you're gay/straight/bi/etc." is ridiculous.

Another thing being tossed around in this discussion with no apparent understanding is that there's a difference between a Sexual Orientation and a fetish. Fetishes create desires for sexual behavior that is unrelated to the person or persons involved. For instance, many men love breasts, but someone with a fetish for breasts enjoys them to a much stronger degree, and to the almost total exclusion of the woman who "owns" them. In fact, if it were possible, he'd prefer that she wasn't even there; of course, she must be, so he tolerates it. Some men with breast fetishes even hire prostitutes and instruct them to be silent, to not move, and to simply lay or stand there as they please themselves with the breasts in various ways.

The same can be said for a functionally and self-described gay/homosexual man who has a fetish for pussy. He may have formed this fetish in any number of ways, but in the cases that have been described in the scientific literature, the man usually reports that he thinks of other men's penises entering the vagina in question, and/or imagines that this may happen in the future. This allows him to have a homosexual experience with the imagined male, using the body of the woman. Other men also report that they simply have a fetish for the unique feeling of a putting their tongue or penis into a vagina, but do not think of this as sex with the woman who "owns" the vagina.

Similarly (and more commonly) gay men have reported fetishes for breasts, buttocks, feet, and other female body parts, all the while insisting that they are homosexual in every other way.

Nature has provided us with incredible diversity in our sexuality, both within a single person, across the lifespan, and across our species. Frantically applying strict labels and the subsequent judgments that often come with them, is a waste of time.

Very well said! I agree completely.

 

[WatchStr8Sex]

If I've just watched a str8 guy empty his load into a pussy, I'd love to go in afterwards and slosh around in it!

 

[B_Marius567]

i like pussy seeing some guys asshole looks sick.

 

[motoramic]

Yes, you did read the title of this thread correctly! I "identify" as a homosexual male but I am aroused by the idea of fucking a tight, wet pussy. Am I the only one? Surely not! And honestly, sexual intercourse is the extent of my interest in women; I could only ever be in a relationship with another man, I don't consider myself bisexual.

I'm really eager to talk to other gay guys who feel the same way. Message me?

I use to think myself as gay but I realized I have some sexual attraction to women. When I finally able to fucked my female friend, it felt sooooo much better than fucking in the ass. I didn't need any artificial lubricant, it was all natural and she was tight! She wasn't my type at all, she was the least attractive person to me and she got a real hairy pussy which turned me off. Females who have more bush than me intimidate me! She managed to seduce me so I fucked her now and then until she got married. I also was able to fool around with some more chicks I realized for me PUSSY FEELS BETTER THAN ASS!

 

[BayAreaGuy]

i like pussy seeing some guys asshole looks sick.

We're all very proud of you for liking pussy. Congratulations on being such a heterosexual man. Your parents must be beaming with pride.

But what, exactly, do you think was contributed by that comment? If someone said that he liked women's asses, what would you think if I commented, "I don't want to see some woman's shit hole! You know that shit comes out of there, right?"

You belie a certain degree of homophobia (and perhaps even fear that you, yourself, might be a bit attracted to men) when you express the short of hate that you did. You might want to try growing up.

 

[BayAreaGuy]

just wondering, always wanted to ask a gay guy who thought vaginas were "disgusting" .. what is it that makes you so turned off by them? (besides the obvious that you're gay) and im not sure us straight guys think of dicks as disgusting (unless they are some form of sexuality that literally hates themselves ... self-loathasexual?) just never been attracted to others

I don't think there's a way to answer that question. It's like asking, "What makes you like chocolate?" People just like what they like, and then they make up reasons (usually just descriptions of their reactions) for their preferences. "I don't like it cuz it's gross!" For me, the idea of having sex with a woman is abhorrent. It's not because I think women are ugly or disgusting; it's because nature has built into my brain a reaction to women (their look, their femininity, their smells, etc.) that drives me away from having sex with them.

The basic blueprint for all life is female, but about 50% of us end up with a Y chromosome; this chromosome "wakes up" at a certain stage of gestation, causing a cascade of effects including high testosterone production which masculinizes the tissues and creates a male. The leading theory on the biology of human sexuality is that an area of the hypothalamus (INAH-3) becomes masculinized prenatally in most males, causing them to become sexually attracted to females. If it doesn't masculinize (but everything else does), then you end up with a gay male. It's likely much more complicated than that, involving several genes and maybe even some other biological processes, but the INAH-3 is involved.

Part of the effect is that each of us ends up with a nervous system that makes us react emotionally and cognitively to the sexes in specific ways. Of course, there's a great deal of human variation, so it's not surprising that you get some overlap (some males prefer extremely feminine women, while others like 'em tough...but most like something in the middle of those extremes). The same is true for heterosexual women, and homosexual men and women. But there ARE identifiable patterns that occur "most of the time," and those are the ones we report in the scientific literature.

The disconnect occurs when people (almost invariably) try to apply their own likes/dislikes to everyone else. They assume that something is "good" or "bad" or "sexy" or "gross" because THEY react to it in that way. And they assume that anyone who doesn't share that reaction is "wrong." It's ridiculously narcissistic, but very common...especially among heterosexual men, who are taught from a very young age that they are kings among men.

As for the fact that you don't have an aversion to cock, that's not a common thing for straight guys. Most are okay with their OWN penis, but get them around someone else's and they get uncomfortable; they also can't IMAGINE touching or (gawd forbid) sucking one. I totally understand that reaction, and I don't judge them for it. It's a part of nature.

 

[poultrygeist]

I'm a predominantly gay guy and I crave the look, feel, taste and smell of a woman's holiest of holies fairly often. Maybe that means I'm more bi than gay. Oh yeah, and I am almost revolted by the sight of most guys assess.

 

[atlclgurl]

The basic blueprint for all life is female, but about 50% of us end up with a Y chromosome; this chromosome "wakes up" at a certain stage of gestation, causing a cascade of effects including high testosterone production which masculinizes the tissues and creates a male. The leading theory on the biology of human sexuality is that an area of the hypothalamus (INAH-3) becomes masculinized prenatally in most males, causing them to become sexually attracted to females. If it doesn't masculinize (but everything else does), then you end up with a gay male. It's likely much more complicated than that, involving several genes and maybe even some other biological processes, but the INAH-3 is involved.

How do you explain lesbians then? Did the testosterone "flooding" everything get damn up in the hypothalamus? I fucking HATE when "scientists" only do their research on part of the population!

In regards to bisexuality, Kinsey (the noted sex researcher) developed what is called the "Kinsey scale". Their website explains the scale like this:

"The scale ranges from 0, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively heterosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with their same sex, to 6, for those who would identify themselves as exclusively homosexual with no experience with or desire for sexual activity with those of the opposite sex, and 1-5 for those who would identify themselves with varying levels of desire or sexual activity with either sex."

The Kinsey Institute - Kinsey Sexuality Rating Scale [Research Program]