If the answer is no, then stop thinking that every str8 man is gay or can be turned.
Is your father gay, were your grandfathers gay? do you want them be?
I'm going to have to disagree with this. I don't think that enjoying an "act" determines who you are or what your sexuality is.
I like smoking pot and indulging in party prescriptions. I don't think that qualifies me as a druggie. I have an unholy love for beer. I'm not an alcoholic--not even 10%.
I've known a lot of guys who enjoy, are interested, or are at the very least intrigued by sucking cock. I think it's just an oral fixation thing.
And on the flipside of this, almost every gay man I've ever met loves tits. They like smooshing them, squishing them, playing with 'em, yadda yadda. And they don't mind kissing girls. I've never thought this had any bearing on their degree of gayness. (Of course, I was also having fun getting groped and making out with cute boys....)
Anyone who pounds beer and smokes pot in addition to other forms of mind-altering chemicals and claims that they don't have a substance problem, is not proving anything.
If anything at all, that's just saying that you have a better denial defense system than most people.
And just to clear things up, I am a former drug addict and alcoholic, and the ones who think they aren't are the ones that don't know what it takes to be one.
So basically, I'm trying to point out, that your statement is irrelevant when it comes to sexual acts, because that is a natural thing. It is not natural to consume alcohol and drugs, they in no way shape or form have anything to do with the sexual frustration of an individual, which feeds a personality formation in life.
Honey, you just keep on walking up your own twelve steps and don't concern yourself with where my feet tread. You have no basis of knowledge to judge me or my extra curricular habits. To base them upon your own problems with addiction is egocentric and small minded.
Just because you couldn't handle yourself when it came to drugs and alcohol doesn't mean that everyone else automatically can't handle themselves.
Run along now.
I guess a dog could suck my dick and it would get hard, that doesnt mean that I would particularly enjoy it. Stimulation is stimulation
I'd rather suck off a gay guy than a straight one.. there is no commitment coming behind that cock suck action. So don't go making generalizations."Let"????? As if there are women all over the place hungry for a gay man's cock? Women are not allowed to suck cock, they are almost begged to suck cock...str8 men's cock! What an insipid thread!
I drink and I smoke pot. It takes large quantities of both to have an altering effect on me. So I usually mix... I have a picture of myself to share with you... It's after 3 bowls in 20 minutes, and shots of sour puss in between every hit. SKDAB Do I have an addiction problem?... Fuck no. I know how to party though. I'm 19 years old, and on top of my world. I don't crave drugs or alcohol at any point.Anyone who pounds beer and smokes pot in addition to other forms of mind-altering chemicals and claims that they don't have a substance problem, is not proving anything.
If anything at all, that's just saying that you have a better denial defense system than most people.
It's not natural to have things cooked in a microwave, use birth control, shower or brush our teeth but we do it. What about drugs when you get put under for surgery.. those alter your brain and fuck you up worse than a joint would. What about painkillers... Oxy's are far worse than weed, and they deal those over the counter. Perks, T4's? Nothing is natural anymore.. but it is how a person handles it.And just to clear things up, I am a former drug addict and alcoholic, and the ones who think they aren't are the ones that don't know what it takes to be one.
So basically, I'm trying to point out, that your statement is irrelevant when it comes to sexual acts, because that is a natural thing. It is not natural to consume alcohol and drugs, they in no way shape or form have anything to do with the sexual frustration of an individual, which feeds a personality formation in life.
I'd assume that any man who claims to be 100% gay, has no interest in letting a women suck him off, just as a man who is 100% straight, has no interest in a guy sucking him off.
That's what these percent balances are for, are they not?
I kinda have to agree... assuming she has a problem because she uses drugs and alcohol is not fair. We could use the basis for yourself for using aspirin. Lets not play the accusations game here. You have a different spectrum of understanding than we do, but it isn't fair to generalize, and because you've been there and done that.. does not make you a professional.Honey, you just keep on walking up your own twelve steps and don't concern yourself with where my feet tread. You have no basis of knowledge to judge me or my extra curricular habits. To base them upon your own problems with addiction is egocentric and small minded.
Just because you couldn't handle yourself when it came to drugs and alcohol doesn't mean that everyone else automatically can't handle themselves.
Run along now.
You didn't say that exactly but it sounds as if you are saying that doesn't know what she's doing. She is an adult let her make her own decisions, and lead her down her own path. People preaching to her is not going to make it any better.I didn't say anything about you not being able to handle your drugs and alcohol. I've done drugs you haven't even heard of, and try me on that one. My point is, your analogy made absolutely no sense and pertained to the basis of YOUR OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE rather than the collective. My second post should have cleared that up.
Now ease off, you sound like a bitch for no reason.