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[BigDallasDick8x6]

You don't just do it. You have to work up to it, sometimes over a period of years. The sphincter can be stretched, like any other muscle, but it takes practice and time.

Of course, you have to really want to do it, which usually means you have to be turned on by the idea of taking something large inside your ass. If you believe that it's going to be difficult, painful, messy, or otherwise unpleasant, you're not going to succeed and you're not going to have much fun trying. If, on the other hand, you believe that it's going to be intensely pleasurable, exciting, and fun, you're at least in the right frame of mind to give it a try.

It helps if you're very aroused before you begin. I don't know if it's because of the endorphins or what, but you can accomplish a lot more in a state of intense arousal than you could do otherwise.

Paradoxically, it's also essential that you learn how to relax. While you are experiencing an intense psychological thrill, your body (well, your muscles--your heart may be pouding fast) should be in a deep, almost meditative state of relaxation. It may help to have some prior experience with meditation, yoga, martial arts, or some other discipline that requires a calm yet intense focus. Being deeply relaxed while simultaneously experiencing extremely intense sensations makes the experience almost transcendental.

Yeah, Ian the Tall's signature says something like -- Time, lube, and the lust of the receiver make anything possible. I tend to agree.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

I did get a little sugar rush indeed... they say that coffee enemas or wine enemas will do the same thing. the coffee one is just kind of cleansing, the wine one can be very dangerous, but they say that you go from 0 to drunk in about 30 seconds.

I wish I could remember where I read this because without a source I know I'm going to get static over it, but supposedly wine enemas are a big thing with [some] off-duty Marines. And exactly for the reason above, the alcohol is absorbed so quickly -- an instant drunk. I had never heard of this before reading an account somewhere by a former Marine.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

At 8x6 I'm not exactly small, but I can always tell if a guy is into fisting or monster toys. He's just not as tight.

I don't want to offend guys that are into fisting etc. who like to think they are still as tight as ever, but if a woman is looser after having a baby why wouldn't a guy's hole be looser after having very large objects in it (even though nowhere near the size of a baby).

Anyway, your current BF may be into fisting you or using giant dildoes on you, but your next one might not be. He might be more into fucking and if you're all stretched out, you're not going to feel as good to him. I'm just sayin' -- something to think about.

 

[Rikter8]

Hey, although i appreciate spreading the message of safe sex to younger people that was a bit over the top don't you think? Way to strike fear into the younger generations , even if it WAS overstated

If it saves someones life, No.

(yea, for this particular thread..but its always good to put some blood back up to the brain between the shoulders.)

 

[Joe7703]

@Rikter8
Yeah i get what you're saying but "die in 30 seconds" = over the top And yeah, is always good to get some perspective in different threads

@BigDallasDick8x6
Isn't a Huge Dildo up the ass and a Baby out the vagina a bit different?
I mean with a Baby it's not like you can spend hours of relaxation and preparing yourself. I mean i'm not saying i have the experience of giving birth, or taking huge things up the bum for that matter, but the act of preperation means that the anus can hold onto to elasticity properties and still be tight afterwards, granted they don't have years and years of abuse and do take time and patience doing it
But yeah, wouldn't giving birth be quite stressful and painful...and its not like the baby is lubing up the lady and coming out easily

 

[Rikter8]

@Rikter8
= over the top

It's just how I roll

 

[arktrucker]

After reading these posts, and being gay, I have one question to the insertee's.

When it's time to take a dump, do you just sit on the commode and wait for the splash?

:eek22:

 

[Indybottombiguy]

Hmmm, strangest thing up my ass? A dog's dick. Would love to do that again.

 

[Meniscus]

Hmmm, strangest thing up my ass? A dog's dick. Would love to do that again.

Oh my...were you drunk when you posted that little confession?

You're in the wrong forum, dear. As to the right forum...

 

[Absolutfun]

At 8x6 I'm not exactly small, but I can always tell if a guy is into fisting or monster toys. He's just not as tight.

I don't want to offend guys that are into fisting etc. who like to think they are still as tight as ever, but if a woman is looser after having a baby why wouldn't a guy's hole be looser after having very large objects in it (even though nowhere near the size of a baby).

Anyway, your current BF may be into fisting you or using giant dildoes on you, but your next one might not be. He might be more into fucking and if you're all stretched out, you're not going to feel as good to him. I'm just sayin' -- something to think about.

You're wrong here. Most guys don't believe that I can take a fist (let alone 2) when they start playing with my ass, because it is so tight. It's called muscle control!! No different than working out other parts of your body. As for your argument about what the next boyfriend will like, why in hell would I worry about something like that????? It's all fictional speculation and perhaps I intend to stay with whoever I'm with! In any case, I go for the maximum pleasure that I can get and would hope that others do as well!