MovingForward, use your "gaydar" or if it's broken, get it fixed. It gives the rest of us a bad name when straight guys get hit on by mistake. Sure it's going to happen to the best occasionally, but try not to hit on a straight guy on purpose no matter how hot he might be, that's just wrong.
What does that even mean? Bad name? (sorry, I don't mean to pick on this particular post...I've been holding off to say something, so sorry! hehe)
Honestly, I'm a person who tends to be attracted to straight guy and I'll openly admit that. I don't have gaydar, nor do I want it! How is it anyone's responsibility to figure out who's gay or who's straight or who's whatever?
What a waste of time life would be sitting there and yearning and constantly being like..."look at him! daaaammn....oh wait, he straight...oh but what about him....dang, straight.....or him....crap, straight again".
Life waaaaay to short for that kind of craziness!
My eyes DONT discriminate. If someone attractive catches my eye, it isn't because they're gay, or straight, or bi....ITS BECAUSE THEY'RE HOT! That's it and that's all!
So, I go up to them and say Hi because I would hate if someone didn't say hi to me because I was gay. Why discriminate against guys who are straight?
Personally, I naturally flirt with anyone who has legs, but I first came out, I was terrified of making someone feel uncomfortable or yahtah yahtah yahtah. But then I realized...honestly, NO ONE CARES. So many guys are just laid back and if you're cool, they're cool. That's what's great about being a guy and liking guys.
If anything, it amazes how many really sweet straight guys are out that either aren't being noticed, etc. and it's really a shame. I think we're at a day in age that even if someone isn't interested, you've paid your compliment the same way straight guys do to girls that may not be interested in them.
I think the thing we all have to remember is fundamentally, despite all out differences in who we're attracted to, we're all still guys and that is something that will always unite us, you know?
So just go out and have fun slick!! (That's to whoever posted the first thing in this forum) And do what feels comfortable and natural and don't just base everything off someone's personal sexual interests.
=) Phew, glad I got that off my chest! It's frustrating seeing people discouraging others from going out and just being comfortable with who they are...I hope my post is at least a little bit encouraging to those of you out there that also find you're attracted to straight guys. You're not, and were never, alone!
Have fun everyone!
"Give. Give endlessly, for if you give to a thief he can not steal from you and he is no longer a theif." -The Human Comedy