Are closeted gay men jealous or resentful of openly gay men? I ask this because of an instance that happened recently. A few weeks ago while standing outside with some coworkers we saw a gay couple kissing in a back parking lot. They weren't making a big show of it, just showing the natural affection you would expect to see in a relationship. I thought it was sweet, most of the others looked then carried on with their conversation. One guy, however, made a big stink about how offensive he found the display of affection, "That's so gross","Get a room"," Jesus christ do I have to watch this?", etc. The irony I found in this is that I have long suspected this guy is gay himself despite the fact that he has married a woman. I admit my gaydar is weak, but jazz hands? C'mon. As of four days ago my gaydar has been confirmed. His wife caught him having sex with a man. The marriage is over and now he is openly embracing his new boyfriend in front of the world just 3 weeks after bitching about seeing someone else do the same thing. WTF? Was it jealousy that made him so vitriolic before?