Gay man crushes...

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  1. Gisella

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    Girls have u ever have a crush for a gay man?

    I had for sure...in one of my first works in the US in Boston...he was the handsome bartender and we work in what use to be a "gay" hang out or something like that...man...such handsome men there...:cool: ulalah...kill me!!! But how i was suppose to know many gay is not gay as i knew in Brasil??? So confusing to me...:rolleyes:

    Well, he was married with a waitress for a long time...but i could not help my crush..was young and they understood for sure and all knew about my crush love...:puppy_dog_eyes: my puppy eyes for him gave me up all the time...& he was my friend and confidant too...oh man, he was all italiano sooo bello !!!

    I miss the friends i made there...use to go to suntan salons with my shy gay friends to flirt with the cute workers they crave in there during our brakes...:tongue: and when i left the job they arrange a penis cake to my party...:biggrin1: and made poem to me too!:cool:

    Well i did not "score" nada romantic between them but for sure had wonderful memories of that time and never again hug and kissed so many men at once ! Kisses u bunch of smelly soo good looking beauties - wherever u are !!!
     
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    Gisella, this happens often, I think. Sometimes it is before she knows he is gay, and she enjoys his company. Also, gay men behave differently around women than do straight men.

    Sometimes it happens even when she knows he is gay, but they are such good friends that she has a crush on him. She does not intend to, but we cannot control who we love, can we?

    By the way, my partner and I are the two men you do not like to see together, we are both strong bulls, macho.

    Eu digo-o somente, porque você deve saber. Como são os homens gay diferentes nos EUA e no Brasil?
     
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    My best friend is a gay guy and he is the most gorgeous guy i know..if he was stright he'd be perfect (for me) and as much as i would love to have sex with him even just once i can respect his preference for men. I joke with him and also seriously imagine giving him a bj, but if he ever actually said yes id probably refuse because i know its not what he'd really wants.
     
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    I have experience of the reverse situation Gisella: Back in the early '80s my then girfriend had sex after a party with a very good looking 19yo lesbian nurse called Sue. A few months later my gf ran off with another guy, but I kept meeting Sue (I was a bus driver) and as we were both between girlfriends we went out drinking one night. We ended up back at my place. I admitted I'd always had a crush on her, and she admitted she'd always had one for me. We went to bed and tried to have sex, but it didn't work. Her vagina was not prepared to admit entry:confused:
    We decided that her mind might be bisexual, but her body was strictly gay. We didn't let it put us off though, and we found alternative means of getting each other's rocks off. We later both found new girlfriends and despite the fact that she moved away to another hospital (and I got married) we kept in touch for a good few years. I haven't heard from her for some time now so I fear she must have moved again. I'm hoping she'll get in touch one day.
     
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    Can straight guys not have crushes on Gay men as well...

    I mean, not sexual crushes, but the deisre to be with that guy all the time? I think they can:smile:
     
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    Yeh Naughty...but good thing that the ones i knew let me admire them by huging & cheeks kissing...if they let i get closer bcause cant resist...:biggrin1: :tongue:
     
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    yeh...and ops he was married with a waiter not waitress...

    Yeh Dc..we can not control who we love and crush..for sure...

    Omg...2 strong macho bulls...hmmmm...well, i may tempted to see u 2...

    Bem, em minha experiencia muitos anos atras no Brasil para mim eram mais femininos nao masculinos..talvez por ser pais macho ? Nao sei...mas as coisas devem ter mudado certamente...:wink:

    Kisses...:tongue:
     
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    Thank u for sharing Riven..i hope u meet again too!:wink:
     
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    For sure they can be friends without sexual conotations...

    But in my case i did crave him...:tongue:
     
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    tisk tisk.. the forbidden fruit lust.:biggrin1:
     
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    It must be your butt (sorry..but its just perfect!!!!!)

    :tongue: :cool: :151: :You_Rock_Emoticon:
     
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    I am hardly 100% gay darling.... I just prefer to not put percentages up, because it classes me into a specific group, and I dont' want to be classified.:tongue:
    Ogle my bum all you wish... Just know that there is a good chance you could touch it:tongue:
     
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    I knew already!!!:cool:

    OMG...kill me...
     
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    Maybe Gisella could handle one buttock while I handled the other, and we could all get our jollies? :wink: :biggrin1:
     
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    This probably doesn't count much (since I don't know them in person), but I have a major crush on most of the Fab 5 from Queer Eye. Especially Kyan and Jai, they're amazingly scrumptious. I really love how funny, intelligent, stylish, and caring they all are. Personality wise, they've all got pretty much everything that I find important in a man. If only they liked vaginas too :02:
     
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    Well, speaking as a bisexual (mostly gay) guy, I have to say, I really have "the hots" for both Jai and Tedd. Especially Tedd. He's so witty and -well- a great cook, too! <happy sigh>

    But, from what I hear, he's happily in a long-term relationship with a professor of literature or something.

    Well, a guy can dream...

    Jai is just so energetic and happy that he really draws me in!

    Wonder if he's horse-like? :)

    Yours,
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    I've had a lot of crushes on gay guys one I remember very well cause I humiliated myself in front of everyone I flirted with a gay guy in a restaurant in Australia provoked by a friend who said he was giving me the look so I was flirting with him and then another guy comes along and they kiss I just stood there with my face red from embarrassment and I just walked away ......... I just wanted to dig a hole and crawl in it it was so! humiliating. Let's just say now I ask a guy if he's gay or not they really don't mind!

    Sometimes it's hard to notice whether they're gay or not especially for me when i havn't had a date in a long time cause i'll just go after any man that looks at me!:confused:

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    Thank u guys for sharing!!!:wink:
     
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    I had a little crush on a gay fellow once but it was nothing big. I was married at the time and I joked with my husband about it.
    I thought about this issue. I think some women have crushes on gay guys because of the appeal of having a close relationship with a man without feeling pressure to have sex. Sometimes women say "oh, if only he wasn't gay that would be great, because I like him so much." But if he wasn't gay she wouldn't have the crush, because the opportunity for a relationship w/o sex pressure would be gone. That's just my take on it.
     
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