Gay men - a question?

B_dxjnorto

Expert Member
Joined
Apr 22, 2006
Posts
6,876
Media
0
Likes
211
Points
193
Location
Southwest U.S.
Sexuality
69% Gay, 31% Straight
Gender
Male
AndrewEndowed24 said:
wealth has a certain correlation to intelligence.

Okay, but if I say, gays may have more disposable income because they have less domestic responsibilities [kids], and you know, more time for arts and education, then what do you say?
 

AndrewEndowed24

Sexy Member
Joined
Jun 9, 2004
Posts
169
Media
8
Likes
59
Points
238
Age
34
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
If you were to say that, I would agree but I would say that it simply means that gays don't have to be quite as smart as straight married couples have to be to get into certain economic brackets.
It doesn't quite refute the idea that intelligence is going to be correllated to the open practice of homosexuality in any way. The differences seem slight enough that this observation would be consistent with it.
 

AndrewEndowed24

Sexy Member
Joined
Jun 9, 2004
Posts
169
Media
8
Likes
59
Points
238
Age
34
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
alex8 said:
"sexual proclivities" than members of the lower classes, with the latter viewing them merely as unnamed desires.

my guess is that this is due to both intelligence's correllation to wealth (which admittedly, is not stable between societies and time periods) and to a certain traditional moral beliefs that would encourage a lack of explicit self-admittance or acknowledgement of one's own homosexual feelings. My sense is that it is primarily the latter. The inclinations would still exist however...

We should also make the distinction between homosexuals period and homosexuals who practice the life style openly. Did Hirshfield find that the open practice of it was uncorrellated to income?
 

AndrewEndowed24

Sexy Member
Joined
Jun 9, 2004
Posts
169
Media
8
Likes
59
Points
238
Age
34
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
a really esoteric source: common sense.

i shouldn't have to say this but i'll give you the first part of the argument and let you fill in the rest

if you consider a good which is widely desired and limited in supply, there will be a lot of competition to get it...
 

Lordpendragon

Experimental Member
Joined
Jul 5, 2004
Posts
3,814
Media
0
Likes
18
Points
258
Sexuality
No Response
madame_zora said:
You know, I have to say I can understand your line of thinking, LPD. I noticed the conversation levels when I first got here and it prompted me to start a thread on whether intelligence was related to big dicks, haha.

I remember that one. Didn't we conclude that smart women are attracted to men with big cocks and so may produce smart kids with big cocks? :smile:

I'll go change the diapers now. You guys carry on with the clever stuff.

Do any of you smart gay guys have smart liberal mothers and wealthy dads?
 

surferboy

Expert Member
Joined
Jan 12, 2005
Posts
2,976
Media
17
Likes
108
Points
193
Location
Sunrise, Florida
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
AndrewEndowed24 said:
a really esoteric source: common sense.


well, yer source iswrong. some of the dumbest people are amongst the wealthiest in the world, and vice versa. and, to prove the gays are smarter theory, i couldn't follow andrew and alex's posts well lol. they used a lot of big sentence structure, and some big words. :tongue:
 

B_dxjnorto

Expert Member
Joined
Apr 22, 2006
Posts
6,876
Media
0
Likes
211
Points
193
Location
Southwest U.S.
Sexuality
69% Gay, 31% Straight
Gender
Male
It sounds better if you say socioeconomic status is correlated to opportunity--opportunity correlates to intelligence (better food, sanitation, education, etc.) While poverty has an inverse correlation.

Innate intelligence ranges and may depend on many developmental and personal factors.
 

DC_DEEP

Sexy Member
Joined
Apr 13, 2005
Posts
8,714
Media
0
Likes
98
Points
183
Sexuality
No Response
dxjnorto said:
Okay, but if I say, gays may have more disposable income because they have less domestic responsibilities [kids], and you know, more time for arts and education, then what do you say?
Interesting supposition. Does it also take into account gays who have children, and childless straight individuals and couples?
 

D_alex8

Member
Joined
Dec 15, 2005
Posts
8,054
Media
0
Likes
1,390
Points
208
Location
Germany
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
Gender
Male
AndrewEndowed24 said:
my guess is that this is due to both intelligence's correllation to wealth (which admittedly, is not stable between societies and time periods) and to a certain traditional moral beliefs that would encourage a lack of explicit self-admittance or acknowledgement of one's own homosexual feelings. My sense is that it is primarily the latter. The inclinations would still exist however...

We should also make the distinction between homosexuals period and homosexuals who practice the life style openly. Did Hirshfield find that the open practice of it was uncorrellated to income?

By "unnamed desire", I mean, specifically, that these people were performing homosexual acts, but had no idea of how to term these. In this sense, we move into the area of unwritten history... the upper/educated classes not only holding sway over the writing of history in general at that point, but also being the only ones sufficiently familiar with the new terminology relating to homosexuality (itself a very unstable term into the 1910s and beyond anyway, and more usually subsumed within the notion of 'sexual intermediacy', a category in which it was conflated with androgyny, transvestism, [pseudo-]hermaphroditism and other sexual identities perceived as being located 'between' male and female gender) to be able to record it in written form as well.

Hirschfeld's findings, as well as those of numerous other sexologists around the fin-de-siècle (including, but not limited to Edward Carpenter in the UK, Xavier Mayne in the US, Arnold Aletrino in the Netherlands, or Albert Moll in Germany) was that class identity played only a nominal role in the experiential practice of homosexuality. Rather, these authors and researchers found that a key factor was the dichotomy of rural/urban, with the modern metropolis for the first time facilitating the emergence of gay/sexual-intermediate communities (indeed, this was the central thrust of Iwan Bloch's 1906 tome Das Sexualleben unserer Zeit in seinen Beziehungen zur modernen Kultur, published to great acclaim in English in 1908 as The Sexual Life of Our Time in its Relation to Modern Civilisation; in the US context, the central texts are meanwhile referred to in George Chauncey's 1994 study Gay New York: The Making of the Gay Male World, 1890-1940). Insofar as there was a class bias, this related generally to members of the lower classes having a higher suicide rate, not least due to greater problems with their own moral beliefs, as per your suggestion above, but also because their lack of financial resources could mean that their being 'outed' to employers could effectively end their career, something that was scarcely an issue in moneyed or artists' circles.
 

AndrewEndowed24

Sexy Member
Joined
Jun 9, 2004
Posts
169
Media
8
Likes
59
Points
238
Age
34
Sexuality
99% Straight, 1% Gay
ah,an unnamed act can't be decried by a pastor.

I see your point about the economic structure. that probably relates the the dichotomy between rural and urban homosexuality. Those of rural areas are more dependent upon traditional family structures for their income, whereas those in urban areas have a greater degree of independence (though as you point out, not total indepenence). You can't work on Pop's farm if you're openly gay.
 

B_dxjnorto

Expert Member
Joined
Apr 22, 2006
Posts
6,876
Media
0
Likes
211
Points
193
Location
Southwest U.S.
Sexuality
69% Gay, 31% Straight
Gender
Male
DC_DEEP said:
Interesting supposition. Does it also take into account gays who have children, and childless straight individuals and couples?

Well, I'm mostly gay and have no children and I don't have a pot to piss in, but I do have a lot of time and interest for things that my married with children siblings have no time and interest for.

I'm more intelligent than all of them even though we come from the same socioeconomic background and gene pool. But of course our intelligences came before their marriages and kids.

The main difference as I see it is I am interested in almost everything and they are mostly interested in what everyone else is interested in. I would call them incurious, as I would call a lot of people I regularly associate with.

Maybe the difference is curiousity?
 

Dr Rock

Experimental Member
Joined
Jan 11, 2005
Posts
3,577
Media
0
Likes
23
Points
258
Location
who lives in the east 'neath the willow tree? Sex
Sexuality
Unsure
AndrewEndowed24 said:
a really esoteric source: common sense.
really? common sense would seem to indicate the opposite. in the majority of cases, in order to accumulate a large amount of wealth, one would, by necessity, need to be stupid enough to spend a correspondingly large amount of one's time earning or otherwise acquiring it.
 

B_dxjnorto

Expert Member
Joined
Apr 22, 2006
Posts
6,876
Media
0
Likes
211
Points
193
Location
Southwest U.S.
Sexuality
69% Gay, 31% Straight
Gender
Male
Well certain words do have specialized meanings.

The more you get into most things, the more specialized the words are, not to sound all scientific, although that is true, but because you run out of ways to describe things with a casual vocabulary.

You've got the whole dictionary at your fingertips.

http://www.m-w.com/
 

D_alex8

Member
Joined
Dec 15, 2005
Posts
8,054
Media
0
Likes
1,390
Points
208
Location
Germany
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
Gender
Male
surferboy said:
i think you guys are like, tryin to come off as intelligent as possible. what i mean is like, yer using big words just to seem smart, ya know?

If one oversimplifies, one loses specificity, which can be crucial where subtle distinctions are involved. :rolleyes: