When I say that men are hornier than women? It's not that gay men are not hornier than straight men; it's that men are hornier than women.
Yes, they are. Except for NJQT and Bedheadred! :wink:
Straight men or you? You always note that straight men have a hard time understanding things when you don't understand them as if you represent them all. I have plenty of straight male friends and they seem to understand these concepts (and others) just fine.
Maybe sheltered straight men do not understand them. Who knows?
I don't find myself having a hard time understanding straight men.
I don't represent all of them, but straight men are usually complaining about not getting enough sex. And you have experienced both as a straight and now gay. There is a vast difference you must admit.
I advocate safer sex all the time. I am not sure why you are linking this. I have had sex with men and women over the course of my lifetime and it was always safe. Safer sex is a concern for every person having sex, regardless of orientation.
Those links are important for gay men to see. That staph is going on in the gay community right now, per that article. There is not mention of straights. I used to mention safe and safer sex all the time, and I finally took someone's advice and "stopped trying to beat a dead horse", as she put it, so I did. People do not want to hear it, and the evidence is in those links.
Equating sleeping with more people to a lack of self-control is ridiculous. Many gay men have more opportunity for sex, so how do you determine that the higher numbers are a result of lack of control?
They do have more opportunity. All it takes is saying "no" or not seeking it out as frequently and looking for ltr's.
I am very selective in my sexual partners and, theoretically, my numbers may still be higher than some other man. Self-control, in that instance, would have little to do with it.
Exactly. You are selective yet you admit your number may still be higher. You didn't want to control your actions.
How do you know?
Also: Common or stereotypical? Touche!
How do you know that? I Know plenty of straight men who have plenty of sex.
Your words:
"One weekend, I was single and at a gay leather event and came about 5 times in 2 days. I ran into several people I had chatted with and we just decided to go for it while we had some mutual time and opportunity. One time, when I was straight and around 20, I slept with 3 women in a day."
It's opportunity and the opportunity for a straight guy to have sex with three women in a day is rare--extremely rare. A gay man could do that in one hour in a bathhouse.
I've had these debates months ago and there is no way you can even compare gay men to straight men.
Your words to a poster:
"Take your time--there is plenty of cock to go around. Easy to find (if that is what you are looking for)"
and to me:
"I think I touched upon in another thread how gay men are having sex with other men whose sex drives are more or less equivalent. Men and women rarely, in average, have the same sex drive. Also -- men are much more likely to not attach emotional connection to sex (as women sometimes do)."
It's not the same, Lex. I won't comment on this thread anymore. Don't want to be a hijacker. :frown1: PM me if you want, but I'm not sure how much more I can say.
And gay men like straight men tend to overstate their sexual conquest
They do? I'm not sure why, but okay.
