Gay men & Muscles?

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  1. TitanicJake

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    I get crusied/checked out at the gym by gay men often. Is it a muscle/visual thing? Do gay men like the look of muscles or the thought of the strength behind them? Is it pure dick size cause I hang big while flaccid. Or is it the whole package? I am unsure. Women are into a "certain look" and they are less visual. I am just curious about what it is that the men find appealing.
    Jake
     
  2. GoneA

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    All of the above. However, it's not only limited to gay men.
     
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    I wish I was gay so that I could have big muscles.:biggrin1:
     
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    I'm fairly certain you are gay, Jeff. :wink:
     
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    Gone, that is just wishful thinking on your part.... Perhaps you could explain the woman that left my bed a few hours ago?
     
  6. GoneA

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    C'mon, can't blame guy for trying.


    ... more to the point, however, you might want to explain her well-defined adam's apple.
     
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    And her vagina, and the fact that she practically purred as I pressed my phallus against her vagina and penetrated her with all the skill I could muster.
    *sorry, I have been dying to say Phallus as others seem to use it in every post.*

    Getting back on topic.

    Jake, I think Gay men... as well as straight ones and women, can truely appreciate someone who has taken the time to chisel their body.

    Look at the Statue of DAVID. That statue is a work of art and can be appreciated by all.
     
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    im pretty built and cut myself.....at the gym i do take a look at other guys and this ranges from their form during the exercises, their vascularity, their definition, the amount of weight they're movin, and how many reps.....All of these can be misconstrued for checkin the guy out.....but it definitely is.....maybe some are actually just watching you lift?
     
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    Sounds like the grounds for a hott porno
     
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    I like the male physique and well defined, built one is even better. So yeah sometimes I do check guys out... not always in a sexual manner. Often its just to see how they do a certain lift or excercise.
     
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    I guess it depends. I'm not representing the gay comunity here, but out in public muscles can be seen a lot more clearly than something (usually) wrapped in two layers of clothing. Muslces are more attractive to anyperson in plain view, but when all are on display, than the total pakage comes to play. Still, some prefer less dick and more muscles, or less muscle. Everyone has their own tastes. Maybe it's attration or it could just be comparison.

    If it were me, I'd be looking more in terms of envy than infatuation. I want to be the hung muscular guy, rather than catch one.:wink:

    :cool:
     
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    I never even thought of it that way. I do see guys checking out my form/routine and I even talk to them. Then there are flirts who hang around the showers and watch me shower out of the corners of their eyes.
    I guess I look too. I watch a guy's flexability, his weight on the bench and his overall look. I compare and I never even thought that it could be misunderstood.

    I do know of some guys who have propositioned me "all you have to do is lay there" or "my mouth will take care of that" and although they were ballsy, I just didnt know exactly what attracted me to them. I never even thought think it was different things for different guys (cut body, face, or dick size). I guess I was kind of ignorant to that.
    Jake
     
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    Liar. You were actively posting here a few hours and you know it! :tongue:
     
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    Ha! I was definitely gonna post that at first, but I didn't wanna bruise his ego. :biggrin1:
     
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    Define a couple of hours though... It was around 9:00 this morning Well before I started posting.:biggrin1:

    I say couple pretty interchangeably.
     
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    In the summer if I am outside, say shopping or something, and I am wearing shorts and a tank top I tend to get a lot of looks... surprisingly it is mostly from other men more so then from women... and many of the men "appear" to be straight. If fact I often get complements or complete strangers will walk up to me and start asking me a lot of questions about training and dieting... it's like we're long lost buddies or something... really strange at times.

    I think a lot of the guys just wish they had bigger muscles and envy those of us who... much like those of us who wish we had a much large penis.

    We can't have everything.

    Here is a question tho... (perhaps I should start another thread?):

    Are you ever completely happy with your penis size, whether it is too big or too small? As a competitive bodybuilder, no matter how well I've done on stage I always have felt I could have looked much better. A true bodybuilder is never satisfied and is always in search of perfection.

    nuff said...
     
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    I have never seen a guy cruise at the gym. Ever.
     
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    I am completely satisfied with my penis size/shape. I am as content with my Bull Peter as one can possibly be. He's perfect and he knows it. :biggrin1:
     
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    Please provide a list of gyms you never cruise.

    I think muscles and a big dick will get you further in the gay world than intelligence, character and a sense of humor. What are the first things guys want to know when they're hooking up with you? Stats.
     
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    I don't mean to be rude, but I find that absolutely 100% impossible to believe.

    Why? Because you've said before you go to the NYSC in Chelsea. I go there too, and I know for a fact that the only way to NOT see guys cruising in there is to have no eyes.
     
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