Gay men who are out and live with their wives

rrkrd

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This Christmas season I have attended several parties for lgbt persons and have been made aware that there are a lot of men who are gay and live with their wives and have a totally sexually monogamous relationship with their male lovers.

In most cases the wife and the lover attend the same parties with their man and seem comfortable with each other.

Is this a growing trend or has it ever been so?

What is your experience? Does it work for you?
 

bigbucky

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I live in a small midwestern town. if a married man comes out as gay or bi, his wife wastes no time in moving out and divorcing his ass. they are usually quite freaked out by the whole thing cuz usually they are the last to know. embarrassed, bewildered, shocked, worried(HIV), are just a few of the things the wife goes thru. lots, and lots of tears. happened to a female friend of mine.
 

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My cousin came out to his wife and they are still married and they still live together. His male lover is also still married to his wife. The couples were close friends (before the outing) and and both managed to stay together and remain friends. Not sure how they have made it work but they have.