Gay Men Who Are Too Big

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As a gay man who is not large and a top, I always go balls deep. And when I ejaculate with or without a condom I go as deep as I can and hold for deepest penetration. My question to you big boys is this: Can you go balls deep to orgasm without hurting a guy? Because when I watch porn and the top is huge, many times the bottom cannot stand it from the pain.
 

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Yeah I think the porn rendition of this exaggerates the reality (shocking I know). I've taken on guys of all sizes, prefer larger than average, and the largest cock I've taken was a little over 10 inches when he was super hard (which he was every time we fucked). Only twice have I been with guys who hurt me and made me briefly stop them, but in both cases it was because they went too deep too fast right at the beginning of the fuck and they were both in the 7-8 range. In all other cases by the time they're ready to unload I'm relaxed, receptive, and opened up so they can shoot as deep as possible - which I always encourage - maybe not without some discomfort but tbh I don't really register that. I feels fucking amazing to me when a guy blows his load balls deep, especially if he's large and I can feel his cock throb and pulse while he's pumping his cum into me.

I certainly could see how it would be possible that a dude with a really huge one could potentially hurt me, but I don't think it's likely if it's a good fuck, or even just an adequate fuck lol. My hole stretches to accommodate and once a big guy has been in there for a nice steady rhythm I'm basically his comfortable, deliriously moaning cock sleeve until he shoots.
 

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Agree with the above. Any experienced card carrying bottom can take a big cock balls deep by the time the top needs to cum.

Once the top has stretched through the "second hole", length no longer is the limiting factor. It only hurts when the top starts banging away at the start and all they are doing is hitting the back of your rectum.
 

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Never had a problem as a bottom. However I will say that long and skinny is less than ideal. For me once they go deep it feels more like a sharp poking than pleasure. Other than that thick and long is good to go, average and long is good to go and every other combination
 

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It really just depends on the bottom, their preference and experience level. I've fucked bottoms who were ready to take a deep pounding from my cock upon entrance, I've met bottoms who get dped by me and someone else as hung as me (I'm one of them, by the way!), and I've met bottoms who freak out and ask me to pull out within less than a minute of me entering them. And then there plenty in between, who struggle a bit at first, but then loosen up and start to enjoy it. Everyone's body is different, and it depends a lot on experience level.
 
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It's interesting because I find it taking a smaller penis sometimes is more painful than taking a big dick for me. At first it's always a bit of a struggle but by the end its pure pleasure. Anyone else feels the same?

Also in porn sometimes im baffled by how Armond Rizzo for example pretends to have pain when taking big dick when we all know he is so stretched out that its like.... what? haha
 
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It really just depends on the bottom, their preference and experience level. I've fucked bottoms who were ready to take a deep pounding from my cock upon entrance, I've met bottoms who get dped by me and someone else as hung as me (I'm one of them, by the way!), and I've met bottoms who freak out and ask me to pull out within less than a minute of me entering them. And then there plenty in between, who struggle a bit at first, but then loosen up and start to enjoy it. Everyone's body is different, and it depends a lot on experience level.
I would never say pull out, it would be more like harder, harder!
 
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Agree with the above. Any experienced card carrying bottom can take a big cock balls deep by the time the top needs to cum.

Once the top has stretched through the "second hole", length no longer is the limiting factor. It only hurts when the top starts banging away at the start and all they are doing is hitting the back of your rectum.
I agree! as a bottom....your hole can accomendate some large cocks! I also find once the second ring is penetrated...your hole just opens up...learn to "relax" your hole and enjoy the ride! Also agree with some guys above..Porn...shows the bottoms with pain looks on their faces..thats for the drama! more look of enjoyment on my face from a large cock!!!
 
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I have never been with a man that has a cock as large as I would like to feel, but my dildo is a decent size and when I am relaxed i can take it deep into the second sphincter. No pain just pleasure. I would love to feel a real cock that deep
 

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I have been too big for many guys. But when I do manage to fit inside, I can usually go balls deep after a few minutes, when they’ve had enough pleasure to loosen up and relax. Some guys I’ve only thrust 3/4 of myself inside as they said it was too much to take if all the way in. I always do what I can to make the bottom feel comfortable.

One guy who was determined to have me top him even bought a dildo nearer to my size in order to practice with so he could prep himself to fit me. It worked but the dildo was smaller than me so the fit was still quite tight when I did put my dick inside him. According to him, it is still to this day, the best sex he’s ever had.

Those who can take my size do love it though. Never had any complaints other than it being too large for some. So I accommodate and they love it even if I’m only 3/4 the way in. What I’ve been told is best about my size is that because it’s so thick, it tightly hugs their anal walls and is also in constant contact with their prostates, so each thrust is supposedly a continual massage on the prostate. The length is something well-liked as well, a lot of guys like the feeling of being poked very deeply, then seeded. Been told that when a top cums deep, it feels like warmth spreading comfortably deep inside, also been told it makes them feel full.
 

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It really just depends on the bottom, their preference and experience level. I've fucked bottoms who were ready to take a deep pounding from my cock upon entrance, I've met bottoms who get dped by me and someone else as hung as me (I'm one of them, by the way!), and I've met bottoms who freak out and ask me to pull out within less than a minute of me entering them. And then there plenty in between, who struggle a bit at first, but then loosen up and start to enjoy it. Everyone's body is different, and it depends a lot on experience level.
I'll tell you that i would let you pound me and not whine about your size, which is impressive. Wish i still lived in Vancouver.
 
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