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  1. SR_Schlong_Dong_Silver

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    Hi folks, I just wanted to ask a few questions here.
    I'm a gay guy with an average size penis who is really turned on by guys with very large penises. I take a bottom role and get great enjoyment from the pleasure I receive form well-equipped men and also find that, because I can take a larger penis, men have found me more satisfying than other partners they have had. I now find myself only really attracted to men with large penises although in all other areas (age, body type, race, class etc) I am very open minded and have no demands or expectations. I'm always honest with people and don't mess anyone around. All this brings me to my questions:
    1. Do guys with larger penises get annoyed by the attention it attracts from people like me ? and
    2. Do guys think I'm only attracted to them for one thing ?
    As I said, I don't mess people around and I have warm sensuous sex and am aware of and respond to others' feelings and needs, but at the same time I am conscious of the fact that my sexual satisfaction is so strongly linked to the size of his penis. I've discussed it with a couple of partners who have all reassured me, but I can't help feeling bothered about it. I've heard some negative talk about 'size queens' and want to just get a real idea of how you hung guys feel about things.
    I'd be really pleased to get some feedback here. :loveya:
     
  2. tightfit

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    You appear to be honest about your situation.
    I wouldn't get hung up about the size thing.
    If that's what you like - there's no problem surely.
     
  3. B_DoubleMeatWhopper

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    It depends on the individual. Some guys get off on being a walking dildo; some of them, quite frankly, have little to offer other than a big cock. I, on the other hand, feel that I have more going for me and I appreciate someone who doesn't view me as just the life support system for my cock. The quickest way to turn me off is to say, "Damn! You have a big dick!" Size queens do annoy me. And judging from the content of your post, you are only attracted to them for one thing; you admitted as much.
     
  4. jonb

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    Let's see . . . Yes, and yes.
     
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    It depends on the individual. Some guys get off on being a walking dildo; some of them, quite frankly, have little to offer other than a big cock. I, on the other hand, feel that I have more going for me and I appreciate someone who doesn't view me as just the life support system for my cock. The quickest way to turn me off is to say, "Damn! You have a big dick!" Size queens do annoy me. And judging from the content of your post, you are only attracted to them for one thing; you admitted as much.
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    I think like the other guy here who gets tired of hearing people tell him he has a big cock. We already know that we are large and don&#39;t always want to hear that when we either pee or change our clothes in the locker room. I mean, out of the blue comes the words, what a huge dick you have. That just hits me the wrong way on occasion and it just seems to make me feel bad. I know I am young at 21 but I often wonder if I will ever get used to somone that I do not know telling me I have a big dick? I mean, how many would walk up to a guy and say, man what big ears you have??? Or, you have the most beautiful feet I have ever seen, can I feel of them??? It is strange that asking someone how long their cock is has become more or less an accepted practice. I can be standing at the urinal and a guy will come up to me that I do not know and he will ask me how big is that thing? I must assume that he is asking how large my dick is. I have just learned to look at him and say "what thing"? If he is looking at my dick, I will usually just say "its big enough"? I used to try and hide it but the older I get, I guess I am learning not to care anymore. I would probably like to think that people would look at me as a whole package and not as just someone with a big dick. At almost 8" soft, I guess some or most think I am semi or hard. I am not sure I understand what size queen is but, we as men often judge women by the size of their breast and I guess men and women often judge men by the size of their dicks. I would prefer to just be known as a person and not as a big huge dick. :shrug:
     
  7. jonb

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    I think most of us want to be thought of as more than a big dick. If you&#39;re going to objectify me, I have plenty of other features which work just as well.
     
  8. viking

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    Yes, jonb, but somehow big hands or a big nose is not as surprising as a big dick.
    Because it&#39;s public and it&#39;s available for viewing.

    On the other hand, (or should I say in the other hand) the reveal of a private
    part of one&#39;s person is already uncommon therefore more of a surprise.

    Then, if it&#39;s exceptionally large, even more of a surprise.
    People tend to speak when surprised.
    "WOW," (then comes the explaination) "You have a big cock and i was surprised by that."

    it&#39;s not like he or she thinks you don&#39;t know about it.
     
  9. Anyjoe

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    This actualy happened to me a few
    months back.
    This rather nice looking muscle guy in the
    next locker very casually mentioned
    &#39;you have a beautiful piece.&#39; to which
    I simply replied,
     
  10. KinkGuy

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    I just wish, that I was more often thought of, as a "big dick."
     
  11. 9inchRob

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    It&#39;s great when anyone compliments me on my 6.5 inch flaccid and up to 9+1/4 inch dick, whether at the trough or bulging from my Levi 529&#39;s .What great jeans these are for display of cock and balls.

    Even better if they&#39;re handsome, hung and built but not necessarily young.

    You can always put the others off in the ways suggested by Careem. And you can show them how intelligent and caring you are after hot sex when and if you want to see them again&#33;&#33;&#33;
     
  12. jonb

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    My hands and my nose are big, but that&#39;s not what I meant. Maybe I&#39;m a romantic in that I want to be thought of for my smile or my eyes or my hair. Or if it&#39;s not going to be my face, maybe my abs or my legs or my chest or my arms.

    Hell, even being thought of for my balls would be a nice change than being thought of for my dick.
     
  13. KinkGuy

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    OK jonb, lets talk about your balls......................
     
  14. B_DoubleMeatWhopper

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    I would love to talk about Jon&#39;s balls, but if I had my way ... well, let&#39;s just say it&#39;s rude to talk with one&#39;s mouth full&#33;
     
  15. KinkGuy

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    I would love to talk about Jon&#39;s balls, but if I had my way ... well, let&#39;s just say it&#39;s rude to talk with one&#39;s mouth full&#33;
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    DMW, if you can&#39;t handle the load, I will be more than pleased to take over for you. Unless I get hold, gulp, of them first.
     
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    They say that men are visually fixated, so I guess a gay guy who is into cock would love the sight of a large cock. It&#39;s visually pleasing, in any case&#33;
     
  17. D_Elijah_MorganWood

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    The thing I&#39;ve always wondered as I&#39;ve encountered size queens is this: if a size queen becomes involved with their dream big cock and finds an even larger one, will he jump? I had the question almost answered for me once when I used a cute latino guy&#39;s ass as a human trampoline one night and AFTER we were finished, he told me not only was he in a relationship and I had just fucked him in their bed, but that my dick was bigger than his boyfriend&#39;s and he was willing to leave me for him (the second part of the last fact came later on the phone as he called me begging me to fuck him again).

    To answer the OP, if you&#39;re only attracted to me for my big cock, excuse me if I only think of you as a big hole. If this is only for a one night stand it&#39;s sometimes acceptable but anything more than that...I have a working brain and many other positive qualities...or so I&#39;ve been told.
     
  18. madame_zora

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    I think it depends on what you&#39;re looking for. If it&#39;s just sex, go for whatever floats your boat. You seem like you are being honest, so anyone who is offended by your preference would be able to avoid getting into it with you. For me, to even consider a relationship I would need to have someone I was compatible with outside the bedroom as well. A good conversationalist would be my first priority, then someone whose face I found appealing. If I&#39;m going to be looking at them al lot, I want to like what I see. Big noses, big hands and feet, tall guys, ears that stick out a litle and eyes than seem to smirk all on their own are some of the things I find most attractive visually, but if a short thick bald guy was the guy I had the most fun hanging around with I&#39;d be more likely to go for him. Looks come and go. As for size, for me it&#39;s really about sexual compatibility- if I ever found that, I wouldn&#39;t be looking for the next bigger dick, I&#39;d be praising the almighty&#33;
     
  19. jonb

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    You were born in the wrong state, Jana. All those features (big ears, hands and feet, big noses, tall) are all very typical of Indians around the Dakotas. (And actually all the way down into Kansas and into Montana, Saskatchewan, Minnesota, Iowa, even northeastern Colorado.)
     
  20. DC_DEEP

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    While I do find large (I haven&#39;t found a limit yet) penises very attractive, it is not even in my top 5 or 10 qualities I look for in a person.

    My partner and I both have several turn-ons/fetishes; some coincide, some do not. He is almost evenly matched with me, with our very average 6" cocks. He has come to realize that my big-cock attraction is no insult or threat to him. Our sex life is VERY VERY satisfying, and if I had to give up all others, I would be fine with him. However, since we are both mature adults, we both realize that there are some interests we each have that the other cannot fulfill. So we often invite a third to play with us. His interests run more along BDSM lines, and as I am less interested, and strictly top, for those activities, we solicit others who can accomodate us. But turn-about is fair play, and if I find a big-dick man willing to play fuck-buddy, then I can do so. We do everything as safely as possible, and we know who we love and who we will sleep with. We trust each other. Even if we have a third person joining us, and staying the night, our bed is for us, just the two of us. We always make that clear from the outset, so there are no hurt feelings. Possibility that I could leave him for someone with a bigger dick? Less than 0.0%, and I doubt that he would ever leave me for someone who likes to be tied up or spanked. We are both truly getting the best of both worlds in our fantastic relationship. 4 years together now, and I love him more every time I wake up.
     
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