Gay men who like hung guys

[txquis]

I've found that it all depends on who is giving the compliment and under what circumstances. There are times when a body compliment seems like music to my ears and other times I think otherwise.
it just depends.
I dont know many people who only want to be complimented on a body part...but once in awhile its nice.

 

[Lex]

I never understood what women meant by being objectified until I came out. I really don't like the feeling I get when I guy just wants to know if I am hung or comes across as thiking all I am is a cock . I much prefer (as jonb intimated) that someone say--nice smile, you're handsome, or nice body. Objectification, yes. But it just feels better.

Originally posted by KinkGuy+Aug 11 2005, 12:07 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(KinkGuy &#064; Aug 11 2005, 12:07 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Aug 10 2005, 08:17 PM
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@Aug 10 2005, 07:45 PM
OK jonb, lets talk about your balls......................

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I would love to talk about Jon&#39;s balls, but if I had my way ... well, let&#39;s just say it&#39;s rude to talk with one&#39;s mouth full&#33;

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DMW, if you can&#39;t handle the load, I will be more than pleased to take over for you. Unless I get hold, gulp, of them first.

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You two can happily go to work on me afetr you&#39;re done with jonb. GRRR.

 

[jonb]

Originally posted by Lex@Aug 13 2005, 02:38 AM
You two can happily go to work on me afetr you&#39;re done with jonb. GRRR.

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Oh, do you feel left out? We should do something about that.

 

[Lex]

Oh, don&#39;t go through any trouble on my account.

 

[SR_Schlong_Dong_Silver]

Since I started this topic, I thought I’d just clarify a few things after reading some of the comments.
Firstly, I wouldn’t like someone just for the size of his cock. What I was trying to say is that I need the guy the have a big cock as well as all the other things. The fact that a man might have a big cock would not necessarily attract me to him, because of all the other things which count (his smile, the way he talks/moves, what he says etc) but underlying all that I would need him to have a large cock, but a large cock in itself would not do it for me in the automatic way some comments have suggested. I’m pretty open-minded about most things, but penis size is important for me.
My second point is perhaps to just give a little history. I met my first partner when I was 25 who was very well endowed. At this stage I had no knowledge of or preference about penis size. Our relationship lasted a little more than 5 years . Since then I had a couple of relationships with averagely-endowed guys which were sexually disappointing by comparison. This led to me having a lack of sexual arousal fairly early in both relationships which caused obvious difficulties and made me feel guilty about the whole thing since I wasn’t giving either of these two guys the sex they needed and deserved. Sex aside, things were fine and I felt bad about ending both relationships, but I just kept feeling bad about my sexual response to both guys and feeling it was all my fault. After that I pretty much decided that I’d stick to men with large penises as things just didn’t seem to work otherwise and I didn’t want to let people down in the way I had again. I then had a pretty good 2-year relationship with a man with a large penis and felt this was a success, although work eventually came between us.
Above all with regard to this topic, I really have to say that having this need for a partner to have a large penis is very frustrating. It does not help me in terms of meeting a future partner and is a real handicap. If I could click on a button on LPSG which would stop this need I would do it now, but for the meantime I’m stuck with it. But don’t get me wrong, I’ve had a great relationship and great experiences which I would never regret with men who are well hung, but at the same time my needs do prevent me from perhaps getting it on with other men and meeting potential partners the way most people do.
Does that make anymore sense ?

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by Lex@Aug 14 2005, 04:54 PM
Oh, don&#39;t go through any trouble on my account.

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No trouble. I&#39;m sure we&#39;d all be happy to oblige&#33;

 

[titan1968]

I never understood what women meant by being objectified until I came out. I really don&#39;t like the feeling I get when I guy just wants to know if I am hung or comes across as thiking all I am is a cock . I much prefer (as jonb intimated) that someone say--nice smile, you&#39;re handsome, or nice body. Objectification, yes. But it just feels better.

I think I can relate to this. I am very tall (198cm or 6&#39;6&#39;&#39and muscular. Most people cannot resist asking me about my height, and are stunned when they get their answer. Friends and family can and will tease me about my height, but not strangers- I just give them a nasty look and they stop:grr:

I also prefer that someone says that I am handsome or that I have a nice body.
After all I am not just a &#39;giant&#39;&#33;

Yes, many of you are well endowed, but you are also good looking and have great personalities.
:hug:

 

[13788]

yyvrael: I love making a guy scream when he wants the feeling of being stretched by a big cock, and I give him that. Having said that, I am getting tired of the hook-ups. Guys will say many things to get my cock int them. I am always disappointed when I find out someone does not really want to date or be friends, he was just saying it to get fucked.

So, yes if someone is looking for more than instant gratification, most likely obsessing about his cock will upset him.

O.

 

[Mestisamo]

I find it a bit of a hassle, especialy if it gets around that you&#39;re packing a big one. There was a time that I would simply flip it out and say "there, you saw it - can we move on?"
Now days, I keep it put away - except on those days I decide to freeball or wear boxers and jeans for show. I let my Hubby talk about it, since he usually acts like it&#39;s gigantic. It gives the girls at his work a thrill and oddly enough, their husbands/BF seem to want to buddy up - strange. What&#39;s that about?

 

[Mr._dB]

One of the nicest things a girl ever said to me while giving me a blowjob was "Know what I like best about your dick? It&#39;s attached to YOU&#33;"

 

[hungvoyeur]

[1. Do guys with larger penises get annoyed by the attention it attracts from people like me ? and
2. Do guys think I&#39;m only attracted to them for one thing ?

:bounce:
Interesting responses from hung guys, who as one voice remind us that there is
more to them than just their huge dicks. And as we all know, there&#39;s always going to be a larger/thicker/longer cock around the next corner.

One can&#39;t help feeling that size queens are seen as aliens.
Of course we know you are brainy - have beautiful feet/nose - are bright - with a sense of humour and personality&#33; That&#39;s not what ths is about - unless I&#39;ve got it wrong. :nopity:

You like huge cocks - you prefer cocks - turned on and totally hypnotized by their sheer size, shape and proportions&#33;

So if you&#39;re well-endowed (according to your own understanding of size) and someone wants you only for your gigantic horsecock, and it offends you and makes you feel violated, used and missunderstood - tell the size queen to fuck off&#33;

:nopity:

On the other hand you can just stand or lie there and let him pleasure you and enjoy the sexual encounter - after all that&#39;s all it is - SEX

 

[Kenn]

I think it is hard to make generalizations. For me personally, I am never bothered by the attention I get because of my big cock. In fact, I enjoy it. Now that doesn&#39;t mean that I jump into bed with everyone that notices my dick. And as for thinking that some guys find me interesting only for my dick... well... I&#39;m sure some do, and I&#39;m cool with that.

 

[cjb76]

Well I don&#39;t think of myself as that huge at 8... since no one has ever objectified it, I&#39;ve actually had the "not big enough".. since I&#39;m not the 8+. I usually get objectified by the body, since I was an overweight teen and got in great shape moreover to have people leave me alone and more of an armor, but in the gay world it&#39;s been rough since most nice guys think I&#39;m the typical vain circuit guy with a body.. when for me it&#39;s been about self improvement and personal. So most never say hello or when I get approached... I&#39;m what the other feels is up to his standards for sex etc. which I usually just walk away thinking .. maybe I should just let myself go and not have to deal with this anymore...

least hung guys you can hide it in your pants. I just think it&#39;s funny how everyone cries over the attention, when my few hung friends do that, but then they turn around and use it get what they want at times... so I&#39;m like "why cry that eveyone only wants my big cock, when you go and post pics on profiles and advertise it, cause you can&#39;t have it both ways"

For me I prefer larger guys... more over since I&#39;m a versatile type that likes the "full" feeling.. but not the pound away pain part.. which I think power bottom/size queens get into... for me it&#39;s always about being emotionally connected to someone, and someone larger usually has to go slower and there&#39;s more teamwork involved so it&#39;s been where you really have to get into each other to make it all work.

For me it&#39;s pretty hard to find someone who&#39;s heart is bigger then their big cock and harder to find the "top only" or "you&#39;re just gonna take it" types which is the norm I&#39;ve found in hung guys 8+.

The rare times I&#39;ve met the nice versatile types, those who are embarrased a bit by their size, I always tell them that their size is just an extension of their heart and they have the ability to give even more to someone on that physical level.

So anyone want to go on a date? lol.

 

[Mancmanninman]

It all reminds me of what you&#39;re supposed to do on a straight date.

For a plain girl: Tell her how sexy she looks.

For a stupid girl: Tell her how clever she is.

So, do we have to tell a hung guy how much we like his personality?

And tell an average-endowed guy what a big cock he has?

Hmmmm....

For my piece, I&#39;ve had sex with quite of lot of well-endowed men, and find the superhung quite hard work sometimes.
For instance, I was in a sauna recently. It was dark and got with this young guy. He had a really thick cock. About 8.5" long. But way, way too thick to get my hand around. I have to admit I said "Christ&#33;" when I got a grip on it.

He never got rock hard. And he&#39;d had quite a lot of men sucking him before I had a go. So I don&#39;t think it was me.

It&#39;s happened a few times in the past with guys with really big cocks. Is it something to do with blood flow, keeping an erection really hard?

However, I&#39;ve had plenty of men who are big - but not superbig - who are much better shags.

Oh, hello, by the way. First post. Gay man. Manchester. 6" cock. And a bit of a size queen, in spite of all the moaning about them earlier in this thread.

 

[BCH]

I agree with CJ. I find it amazing that those that complain are the ones showing it off. F&#39;off ...If you don&#39;t want someone to comment then don&#39;t change at the gym and piss in the regular toilet so that nobody will scare you and wear loose clothes&#33; A female friend has huge tits and she minimizes their appearance and I can do the same with my cock with different underwear.

Lets think about this a little further......whats the BIGGEST flacid dick you have seen? I think I have seen about a 6 incher. If it&#39;s slightly hard, then they want to show it off. I hang about 4 inches, maybe 5 soft and nobody has ever ran over to me UNLESS I was HARD. So all this unwanted attention bullshit is just bullshit Nobody will know the truth unless you are HARD.

BCH

 

[a_tad_tall]

I like it when someone loves me for my personality and happens to find my penis as a perk, not as a soul basis for loving me... but every1s different. Go for what ever is best for u.

 

[Cobalt Blue]

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1. Do guys with larger penises get annoyed by the attention it attracts from people like me ? and
2. Do guys think I&#39;m only attracted to them for one thing ?

Size queens do annoy me. And judging from the content of your post, you are only attracted to them for one thing; you admitted as much.

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Smash - first off - stop beating yourself up about this. You are gay. Gay men are attracted to men. The epicentre of a man&#39;s sexuality is his penis. For better or worse, large penes are admired, and always have been throughout history. I certainly do not worry because I prefer one type of particular physical trait in a woman over another. That is my preference. It is my human right to feel like this.
Now, let me tell you something that many people on this board may find unpalatable:
Most men are size queens. No, that&#39;s not a typo. I intentionally omitted the word &#39;gay&#39;. I&#39;ll say it again: Most men are size queens. That is not to say that they hang around public urinals drooling. Of course not. It is infinitely more subtle and complex than that. There is an almost universal fascination with large penes whether we choose to acknowledge it or not. Have you been on the internet recently? This fascination does not suddenly cease in the &#39;straight&#39; male. It is deeply ingrained in our psyches, especially on a visual level.
&#39;Size Queen&#39; is an unfortunate and derogatory term for a complex psychological and aesthetic response.
I believe it is extremely disingenuous for well-endowed men to diss their admirers.
For them I have a very simple checklist:
Check out the clothing and appearance forum for advice on how to hide or disguise a bulge.
Wait for a stall to become vacant rather than standing at the urinal.
At the gym/swimming pool, change your clothes discreetly, or, if this is not possible and you are extremely bothered by unwanted attention, avoid these places.
The above points have worked for me. So, to all you poor objects of desire, I say this:
Get over yourselves.
:nopity:

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by nicky9x6@Aug 29 2005, 06:28 AM
I believe it is extremely disingenuous for well-endowed men to diss their admirers.
For them I have a very simple checklist:
Check out the clothing and appearance forum for advice on how to hide or disguise a bulge.
Wait for a stall to become vacant rather than standing at the urinal.
At the gym/swimming pool, change your clothes discreetly, or, if this is not possible and you are extremely bothered by unwanted attention, avoid these places.
The above points have worked for me. So, to all you poor objects of desire, I say this:
Get over yourselves.

Concealing a bulge is uncomfortable at best. It can&#39;t always be done.
I&#39;m not ducking into a stall every time I have to piss. Especially if there&#39;s no stall available and I&#39;ve really got to go.
Giving up working out and swimming? Not happening.
What you&#39;re suggesting is that unless we&#39;re willing to inconvenience ourselves to hide something that&#39;s a normal part of the human body, we have no rights. We can&#39;t honestly expect to live normal lives; we must accept as valid the rights of total strangers propositioning us. The ones who approach us and give us unwanted attention are exhibiting perfectly acceptable behaviour.
I don&#39;t buy it.

 

[madame_zora]

Nope, neither do I. As a woman with an above average sized chest, I know how to wear a shirt that doesn&#39;t hug too tight or show too much cleavage, but that doesn&#39;t stop every cretin on the street from making unwanted comments anyway. Now, if I&#39;m out for the evening and decide to dress up, I know this is going to be a likely time to get attention, so I&#39;m just prepared for it. No one should have to change their lifestyle or make special exceptions for the dimmest lightbulbs in the pack, you just have to know they&#39;re there and deal with them as you see fit.

 

[jonb]

Add another J to the list. I&#39;m sorry, but being thought of by just one organ ain&#39;t fun. (Or two, as Jana can attest.)