Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper+Aug 29 2005, 03:54 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(DoubleMeatWhopper @ Aug 29 2005, 03:54 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-nicky9x6@Aug 29 2005, 06:28 AM
I believe it is extremely disingenuous for well-endowed men to diss their admirers.
For them I have a very simple checklist:
Check out the clothing and appearance forum for advice on how to hide or disguise a bulge.
Wait for a stall to become vacant rather than standing at the urinal.
At the gym/swimming pool, change your clothes discreetly, or, if this is not possible and you are extremely bothered by unwanted attention, avoid these places.
The above points have worked for me. So, to all you poor objects of desire, I say this:
Get over yourselves.
Concealing a bulge is uncomfortable at best. It can't always be done.
I'm not ducking into a stall every time I have to piss. Especially if there's no stall available and I've really got to go.
Giving up working out and swimming? Not happening.
What you're suggesting is that unless we're willing to inconvenience ourselves to hide something that's a normal part of the human body, we have no rights. We can't honestly expect to live normal lives; we must accept as valid the rights of total strangers propositioning us. The ones who approach us and give us unwanted attention are exhibiting perfectly acceptable behaviour.
I don't buy it.
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Doublemeat I agree with you. I have just as much right to use the urinal as the other guy next to me. I should not have to hide away in a toilet area just to pee. Often the toilet area is already being used. We should not have to cover our heads and hide our hair because someone wants to comment on the color of it either. We all have different sized body parts and just walking up to a perfect stranger and making a comment on any body part seems strange to me. Someone said that nobody is going to comment on a flacid penis. They said that men usually are semi and are asking for other men to comment. Well, I don't recall ever having a semi in a public restroom or gym and I get comments often on my completely soft penis. I am learning to just look at them and say thanks. They usually turn and walk away without anymore comments. Then there are a few that ask more questions and I just more or less ignore them. I heard a fellow say once, you can look at the menu but you don't have to taste of everything on it. I'm not on the menu and don't want to be looked at as an item. Perhaps some like for guys to comment but, the comments usually seem to come as a negative expression and not as a positive observation. I mean, I don't think someone looking at me at the urinal and saying, "I would love to be that size" would make me feel as bad as the guy saying "my gosh man, you are hung like a mule aren't you"? Just a personal feeling that probably isn't everyone's. I don't mind the friendly or good comments, it's mainly the negative or insensitive one's that seem to make me feel very uncomfortable.