GAY MEN: why do you like bottoming

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  1. bonusjonas

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    why do gay men love taking dick so much? what is it like?
     
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    for me, it hurts like hell going in. but once its in and the lube is all in there, the head hitting the prostate just drives me crazy!
     
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    Not all gays bottom....maybe not even a majority.
    Many are only Tops..or don't care for anal at all...
     
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    Well, obviously because it feels good. Yay intelligence.
     
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    Maybe not where you're at but here in L.A. the ratio is about 80% bottoms and 20% tops. Kind of the complete opposite from NYC. When I lived there it was heaven seeing as how I only bottom. Anyway, to answer the question, it does feel amazing. For some people bigger hurts, but for me it's more of a good thing.
     
  6. houtx48

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    try it and report back.
     
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    First of all, I think the OP is a troll. First post, and a question like this. But anyways...


    I think there's a lot of truth in this statement. I've bottomed in the past, but I don't care for it, and never have. I do know many gay men that don't do anal at all. I do enjoy topping, so I'm not part of that group.
     
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    Mainly because it feels good.. and initially because I've got a small dick. After a few guy say they'd rather fuck me than get fucked, I get the message and became a total btm.
     
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    For a good composite answer, reread Silvertriumph (Link 3) and especially houtx (Link 6)...as well as the other replies. :gives2:???
     
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    Not a favorite - the mood has to be right, and the starts have the be in alignment before it happens .... so about once a year or so.
     
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    There are twice as many bottoms compared to tops where I live, and yea, it feels good once the cock is all the way in. Big dicks hurt more going in, but feel better banging away on the prostate...intense orgasms.
     
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    I didn't enjoy bottoming the first times. Didn't hate it either.

    I started to enjoy it when I got a BF who was mostly a top with a nice penis and was good at bottoming.

    After him I started gaining more experience and I'm liking it more and more with time.

    I now find it more pleasurable for me to be a bottom than being a top.
     
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    Total TOP here.
     
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    Mostly bottom here and I just can't get enough dick. I love the feeling of a guy sliding in and out of me. The thousands of nerve receptors there make my entire body feel it. It can be very intense with the right guy. It can also be uncomfortable with the wrong guy.
     
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    One could also ask the question, "Why do straight guys like anal....or why do women like anal?" It is a sex position not limited to gay guys
     
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    Troll is troll.





    JSZ
     
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    I'm in the group of guys who don't care for anal at all. I've tried bottoming and it's been mostly uncomfortable / painful. HOWEVER, I often hear about how awesome the orgasm can be and that keeps me interested in pursuing it. Topping feels great but I hate using condoms so I never do it.

    Maybe it's time for me to explore the idea of bottoming again...hmmmmmm
     
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    U can actually feel the prostate?
     
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    Only certain men's cocks feel pleasurable in my anus.
     
  20. D_JuanAFock

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    A similar question... but how is it that there are so many guys that are willing to give head with no reciprocation?